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I don't know why, but it never occurred to me that there would be a website and list of Gloryholes across the world. 50 years ago they sent the first communication over the 'internet', I wonder if they ever thought, hey we could list gloryholes as a public service as well.

One of my biggest fantasies and turn-ons is to masturbate in front some single guys. We will invite guys to join us in a room and I get naked for them and get into my personal space while they watch. I have the most amazing orgasms just by having them watch me. Ultimately, they will start to pull out their cocks and things move forward from there but just wondering if there are other ladies out there that are completely into being watched.

Since the Mrs and I have yet to break our cherry, I can't contribute to "what to do while she out solo", however, a few months ago she had a night out with the girls. We had just begun talking about the exploring the LS and she had recently become very interested in amateur gloryhole videos. She went out, i put the kids to bed and went to the garage. I had picked up a piece of black particle board and some hinges that day. So, to keep myself busy, I built her a gloryhole to replace my closet door in our bedroom. She called when she was 15 minutes from home. I set up our camera and hid in the closet, well most of me was in the closet. She was ecstatic when she walked into the bedroom. She very much enjoyed my DIY gift, we both did actually.

I like all kinds of sex with everyone - why only husband or SO. Whether I cum or not is not a significant issue. The main issue is if they treat me as a goddess or not. If they treat me as a goddess, then they make every attempt to please me - and my pleasure becomes their pleasure. Orgasm is inevitable. I am not very controlling or take the lead. I follow the lead, but not submissive.

Thinking about it, if all does go well as I'd hope. As much as I'd love to have his baby ASAP, I'm going to make my boyfriend wait a year from the date he moves in with us, just to check if our love is true and not just lust in disguise. Then if we are still crazy for each other I'll stop taking my birth control.

This has always stuck in my mind like it was just yesterday. The first time we agreed to go bareback with another couple, in a hotel room with two double beds. When I was in missionary with her husband and she in doggy with my husband on the other bed, that moment I felt him flooding in me my eyes must have lit up as I then somehow noticed her look at me - as her husband was ejaculating/finishing inside me, it was like mine and her eyes became entranced looking deep into each others souls it was such a strange feeling of emotions for both of us we could both sense it of the other. I've never had that happen again with other couples.

My wife far prefers men cum inside of her, and dislikes condoms more than any other woman I've been with. That said, any playmates are required to use a condom unless they become a 'boyfriend'; a person with whom she has an ongoing relationship past a few play dates. There was one exception to that, but just one. For my part, I love how sloppy/wet my wife's pussy is right after another man has cum inside of her. It's a delicious feeling, and I can't wait to get inside of her after he's cum. It's funny; the original poster on this thread started it in 2004. She's been inactive since 2005. I wonder what she would think if she knew her thread is still going, 14 years on

I had my first multi orgasm experience a few years back during my first time in the swing at out favorite club. My husband and three guys took me into the room. They took off my clothes and put me in the swing. They watched me masturbate and removed their clothes. I came the first time simply from being watched. As they jerked off and got hard, they took turns putting their cocks in me. I had never been shared like this or been with multiple men. One guy was particularly hot and when he entered me i came a second time. They took turns fucking me and all stopped short of cumming. I’m not sure how many times I climaxed but it went in forever. The sheer thrill of being completely exposed and wide open for them combined with the sight of them naked along with the sensation of several different cocks was the perfect combo.

One, if your boyfriend doesn't like the idea of you seeing others, there is some possession going on. Not that that is bad per se, but it may bold ill for your husband and your BF's attitude towards him if he keeps on that path. It is very common (and I do mean common) for single guys to think that a woman playing with permission is married to an idiot who doesn't see what he has, and will try to steal the woman away from him. Barring demonstrations otherwise, this guy sounds exactly like that to me. Two, and more importantly; I will strongly echo what alexandsandra said. You are now lying to your husband, and rather blatantly so. Your husband asked you an honest question, and you gave him an evasive answer. If I were in his shoes, and aware that your boyfriend said he wanted to have a baby with you, and that you were trying to obfuscate this in your response, I would be very upset with you. I trust my wife 10000000000% to be honest, forthright, and truthful with me and I with her. We keep no secrets from each other. If we did, swinging could not and would not happen, end of story, full stop. You are deceiving your husband, pure and simple. I am not judging you, nor trying to be harsh on you. I'm laying out the facts as I see them. I would strongly, strongly advise you to tell your husband EVERYthing about this relationship, and be completely open about it. If you really want to have your boyfriend and your husband too, there is absolutely no other way. You must do this, and hope your husband takes this well. Many would not. I also concur with what others have said; there is no such thing as the mythical perfect man (or woman). They don't exist. Real relationships take real time, real effort, real understanding, real acceptance of the shortcomings of the other person and they of your shortcomings. I strongly agree with Couplers here; you need to move past the NRE stage and get to the "I love him despite" stage. At six months with this nature of relationship, it's unlikely you've really come to understand who he is fully. I'd be curious to know how your boyfriend feels about you not telling your husband about your boyfriend wanting to have a baby with you. If your boyfriend is copacetic with that, then he is willing to lie to your husband as well. If that's his character, then he is most emphatically NOT perfect, and rather far from it. He would thereby be selfish, untrustworthy, and divisive of your relationship with your husband. There is no way, and I do mean no way, that a poly triad family can ever work where there is lying and distrust. You are dramatically setting yourself up for failure. Couplers can definitely speak more to this as I have considerably less experience than her in this (though I have some). But, two men in a poly triad with a woman need to want their relationship with the woman to be successful and want the relationship the other guy has with her be successful too. You have to want the best for everyone all around. You also have to consider the impact on your children. How will they feel about mommy being pregnant by another man? How will they feel about a brother/sister that isn't daddy's? They need to be considered in this. They aren't the decision makers, but they deserve some thought and care in how they will be in such a family. Where will the child live? With you and your husband and sometimes with her/his dad? Or, the other way around? Will boyfriend be living under the same roof as you and your husband? There's a lot of things that need to be considered in this. But, I get back to the above; you are being dishonest with your husband and this must end. If it doesn't, then you're effectively cheating on your husband because you are being dishonest about the nature of the relationship with your boyfriend and this will end very, very badly. You might be trying to gloss this over by asking "what if" sorts of questions of your husband, but the what ifs are real, and you're not being honest about that. The innocent victims in this will be your children.

Petra ("Couplers") here. You may want to keep things in the closet, but information is one of the hardest things to control. My advice is to be as discrete as possible, but be prepared for people to find or figure it out. The response is, "This is how I prefer to live my life." Here's the test - if they're hetero, could you get a bigger bed and sleep between the two men? That's what life will be like, so everyone better get used to it. ____________________ In my earlier post I said, "You first need to move past the "I love him because" stage to the "I love him despite" stage." This realization on my part was that the guys and women in our family love me despite my flaws, they make much bigger sacrifices loving me than I do.

I've been with a couple and the lady broke the ice by sitting next to me and saying: "let's see what you got." At that point she went for my zipper. She was very interested in seeing her first uncut penis.

With a new lover, I can get penetrative orgasms due to the excitement. If the guy is giving oral, whether husband or a new/old lover I always have an orgasm. I have had a couple of lovers who don't do oral, but are so good and last so long inside me, that they can bring me to orgasm. Oral sex can make me cum in 5 to 10 minutes. In penetrative sex I need the guy to hold for 20 minutes or more to set off the orgasm. I can come multiple times with multiple lovers on the same night. Couple of guys who don't like oral, and can't last long enough, have shagged me to orgasm. Everyone has a specific mastery to please a woman, it is for me to bring forth that quality and use it for mutual pleasure - but I cum first.

Everyone is more perfect than my spouse, that is why he is my spouse. My spouse is like a long distance runner who keeps pace with me all the way and will last the full distance. Others are short distance runners - fast, furious and done and gone. Some last a little longer and keep coming back.

Early in our lifestyle career, a couple called us to tell us that they both contracted HSV2. My wife previously played with the husband at a party. A condom was used. We were very nervous, but fortunately tested negative. Almost hung up our lifestyle career. Always admired that couple for disclosing.

Well said alexandsandra! EMS, this is a disaster waiting to happen and you know its really gonna hurt?? That baby you're talking about making, that's who! Bringing a new child into the mess you're creating with the four other lives already tied to you is borderline child abuse. Men have a ready made excuse, we often think with our dicks, which organ is thinking for you?

Our poly family started with me having a boyfriend, then marrying a guy who was fine with it. We have since added two other women. Here's my perspective: New relationships burn bright, hot and relatively quick. If you thinks he is perfect, you don't know him yet. If your husband thinks he's fine, he doesn't know him yet. You first need to move past the "I love him because" stage to the "I love him despite" stage. If ultimately your relationship with both men works out (and theirs with each other) there's no reason you can't be together like that. But you need to talk out the expectations. All three of you going to live in one household? And the big one, if you new boyfriend wants you to have his baby is everyone good with that? You can't live your life worrying about friends and family. Don't flaunt it, but don't run from it either. I lost my father over being a "whore," but I couldn't have him running my life.

Tiger, we're play almost exactly like you do. MFM or MFMF, check. Talk about it then reclamation sex, check. Watching her get into that dreamy state, check. The only significant difference is at house parties where we are friends with many of the people, we often go our own way, do separate rooms. And Mary goes solo with a trusted male friend every now and again.

True on all counts. Scientists are human. They are prone to self-deception, just like everyone else. The difference is in the nature of science: scientists accept that most beautiful theories are destroyed by an ugly fact.

I know he had a problem the first time he saw me with a guy, he told me. Not so when he saw me with my girlfriend. I was the one who suggested him playing with my girlfriend and sure was nervous and then excited. He was more nervous than me. All in all we are both glad we got by those first times.

In 1986 we were the vanilla couple that our best friends 'initiated' into playing. We were all nudists and me always got together nude in our house. We would always flirt a bit. That time our male friend started massaging my wife on the carpeted floor and I started massaging his wife on the floor across the room. I was very careful where my hands went but also sensual. A few minutes the wife motioned for me to look across the room and my wife and friend were having intercourse. Since she was smiling, my massage became much more than sexual and we had intercourse too. It was a wonderful experience. When we woke up the next morning all my wife and I could talk about was if it had really happened or was just a dream. All we could talk about for the next week was wanting it to happen again, and very soon.

I have to agree that it's lying by omission. My wife and I are both strongly oriented against liars, cheaters, etc. This would have been an absolute deal breaker for us on those grounds alone, and we would have asked her to leave. If we had known ahead of time, and if my wife had been attracted to her, then we might have played with her. I don't know how I would be in such a situation, in terms of attraction etc. No idea. I'm open minded in general, so I'd think it would depends on the person, but they would have to be open and honest about it up front.

MFM... I love watching her get pleased by another male acting differently and seeing her accept his cock and seed.

We know of nothing in central Pa but there is a club in MD, about 25 miles south of Lancaster that has a room with three glory holes. The Private Affair (TPA) is a very nice , no pressure and friendly place. Unlike adult stores that have glory holes, we've been to a couple in South Florida, TPA is VERY clean and, since it IS a swingers club, you can be assured that the guys there have taken a shower that day. Mrs Doc loves the anonymity too, she also loves the control and power she has while there. She can pick and choose dicks, decide whether she'll jerk him off, or suck him, she 'll bring one guy right to the edge then move to the next or move back and forth between all three. Sometimes a woman will stick a boob through the hole or back her pussy up to it. Sometimes my wife will back up to the hole and let a guy get her off and on the rare occasion, she'll roll a condom on one and back right on to it. We've had some incredibly hot times in that room. Even if you're up in the mountains around Huntingdon or Juniata County, the experience under clean and very safe circumstances is worth the drive. Do let us know what happens if you decide to go.

This was the first club we went too, (only been to two), and it was very quiet. We went during the middle of the week, so didn't expect much, but there was not even any music playing. So quiet it was a little creepy. Next time we went to Whispers also in Las Vegas and loved it. Very welcoming staff and patrons. We're newbies, so didn't play with anyone, but had a great time getting naked around everyone else and having sex. We'll definitely go there again.

Lionheart I would have no problem treating this person as a female in any vanilla social environment. I would even address her as a woman by name. This is not a matter of respect or acknowledgement in this case. There just come a point when there is a difference. There is one significant set of things that I could do with any woman that is physically impossible with this person. That set of activities is important in the original post. My designation , which I offered up as my contribution to the alphabet soup, was a hopefully accurate and not misleading description of the physical facts. M(FM)F

Some people can't fully transition... could be financial reason, could be health reasons, could be personal reasons. It's not for us to judge. If she identifies as female, she should be treated as female, regardless of her physical characteristics. If, on the other hand, he identifies as male but choose to dress as a woman, then he's male. It's a matter of respecting people for who they are. It is not for me, or you, to decide who a person is. In the OPs story, we don't know about the person in question. Was she transgender who hadn't fully transitioned? If so, she's a woman. Was he a cross dresser? If so, as I understand it, he's a man. Should they have told the couple they were with about their physical attributes as part of pre-play communication? Yes, I think they really should have. Regardless, to reiterate, you and I do not get to decide who someone else is. We don't define them. We each define ourselves.

I like to take a limp penis in my mouth and fell it get hard and grow so much I can't keep it all in. Usually this is after his first orgasm since guys get hard too quick before the first one. I like to eat pussy that is clean, but not fresh, if you know what I mean. Same above with cock after it's been inside my or another vagina.

I did the same to my wife before, used both peeled & unpeeled plus fucked her with the banana inside her pussy. Love it.

Bed post, it Took a while and lots of lube but eventually fit

Small baseball bat.

You girls impress me. I don't have one in front of me, but isn't a baton kind of big around to fit when you were "a kid?" Inserting things at eight or nine? I was just beginning to look in a mirror and feel around down there. I'm not sure I even knew I had a third hole at that age.

An old girlfriend, when she and I were in our Early Twenties -- and this was before we had had sex, or had even seen each other naked -- had me over to dinner. She told me later that night that she had masturbated with a cucumber before I came over, and it was the same cucumber that was in our salad. She said this just before I left, and told me she hoped I made good use of that information once I got home. Jeepers, that still turns me on!

During one of our recent weekend group play sessions Clair joined us while Becky watched the kids. She came in, undressed to just her panties, lied down on the couch, took off her panties with her legs spread, then surprised and entertained us by giving birth to a bath tub rubber ducky. The rest of the evening saw many of the kids toys repurposed.

had an obedient friend in law school -- he happily used and took photos of -- Flashlight -- large MAg light Bananna Tom

My wife told me before she got a toy she used to masterbate with a candle. I've seen her put a classic coke bottle in her vagina. It was a bit cold at first but we ran it under some warm water and some lube and it went in nice. Nothing too interesting.

7 years ago I gave Mrs. an ear of corn. She still talks about it.

ive never let guys put rigid things in my pussy which eliminates a lot of the usual stuff but i did let a guy do a flexible rubber walky talky antenna as a teenager. the sensations were nothing special tho.

I had a boyfriend once who would make me cum while he had a pen slipped inside me. Then he would take that pen and write erotic poetry with it. My husband once put a kielbasa inside me while he made me cum, then cooked it for dinner!

Men are lucky women don't have that much control "in there." If we did, when we finished first we would just push you out of there. Another story from Clair. When she was college, one of the girls got a new box of like a dozen golf balls. Several of girls in her dorm tried to see who could hold the most. Clair doesn't remeber the results of the contest, but does remeber that it felt really good to tap quickly on that last ball...