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My wife and I have been talking about swinging for a couple years now. We had a really bad first experience that really turned us off of swinging for a while. We are starting to talk more about it and what exactly we are both looking for. With that being said my wife asked me what my fantasy would be. After much thought I landed on a couple thing fmf threesome and watching my wife give a stranger a blowjob. My wife’s first question was “why does me sucking off a stranger turn you on” and I could think of a reason why. Which then got me thinking about why it turns me on and that lead me here. So my question to the husbands that have done this is why does watching your wife blowing someone turn you on?

If another guy does your wife on a regular basis let's say he's longer and thicker than you & we stay active for 3 months inviting him twice a week where he gets to have 1 on 1 with wife anywhere from 45-60 min's in a Threesome twice a week for 3 months straight. And I have her 3 times a week once me and her and the other would be threesome 2x's a week. My wife knew I was 6⅛" when we started to be intimate but knows I lost some length but she thinks I'm around 5¼-5½" but I'm actually around 4½-4¾" in length. My girth is right at 5". For the New guy he's Right around 7" and girth slightly over 6". After awhile would my wife after 3 months would she not be as tight as before? & will she desire to have him like maybe just once a week just him and her without me and other times a Threesome If this happens this is where I definitely share equal time wit him. Share your thoughts and advice

We do it annually or after an encounter that we have questions about.

Erection size may diminish do to circulatory issues.

The human vagina is a marvelous thing. It can accommodate a 8 lb baby or 6 erections of different sizes in an afternoon without lasting negative effect. The guy OP is describing is somewhere in the normal range of penis size so his concern about his wife's pussy getting stretched is I think, a stretch!!! As to the other part, I've never heard of a dick shrinking (other than after cumming), is this something I should worry about??? Its more likely that the OP gained weight and so his cock appears smaller.

She looks so sexy doing it. She is my favorite porn star!

1) Working toward orgasm is different from release, but wonderful as well. 2) Giving a partner pleasure and orgasms makes me feel powerful. Regardless of how I get him/her off. 3) Sex with a woman is different from that with a man. In an FFM threesome it's different from the other two. Or with an insignificant other, like the boyfriend Clair, Lora and I share. Just sex is different from loving sex, but also good.

The population of the Pittsburgh area is 1.233 million. Take away half of them as being too young or old, and you get 611,500. 5% of that is 30,575. That's a lot of swingers!

Same with you, annually. I practice strict protocols when swinging but sometimes, when too intense or there is suspicion of protection breakage, I do go for testing immediately. My bf used to be a swing partner so when we started a relationship, I voluntarily subjected myself to testing and handed him the result. He followed and did it too. With his permission, I shared both results to my SO since he is a stakeholder too. Even if my sexual life with bf has become independent, info on sexual health is being shared. I realized having a bf has now shifted the regular testings from STIs to pee sticks! :-)

We started playing with our best friend and his then wife in 1986 when they seduced us into us into the lifestyle. At that time our best friend and my wife were available during the day - he worked nights and my wife did not work. For the first few months they got together to play very often. I was really turned on knowing they were likely playing while I was at work. A few years later when he started working days and my wife got a day job, they would get together and I would stay home with our kids. That really turned me on. During that time they would play anytime they were alone together. They even played occasionally at a local park at night and a couple of times during the day when he took her out in his Jeep to do a little hill climbing. If they thought they were alone in the area, they would have sex outside Jeep. One time we went hiking with him and his then wife. They broke off from his wife and me and found a place secluded enough to have sex. Those were the good days.

Early in our lifestyle career, a couple called us to tell us that they both contracted HSV2. My wife previously played with the husband at a party. A condom was used. We were very nervous, but fortunately tested negative. Almost hung up our lifestyle career. Always admired that couple for disclosing.

That’s what I did. I was afraid to ask my doctor and felt silly asking. The nurse just added it to the scrip for my blood test with no questions asked. I am thinking or hoping that some of the others we play with are getting tested and even more if someone test positive would let others know.