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You're doing for yourself and your husband. Being attractive is a huge ego boost for both spouses.

I get where you're going but it's too complicated for my lack-of-sleep-addled-brain. I've seen it time and time again on this forum, and have first hand experience in real life. People are far, far more upset at the idea that a married person would be playing with encouragement and permission than they are with cheating. It's utterly illogical, but it is what it is. Petra, it's very sad about your sister. I'm curious, and I hope you don't mind my asking, does your father know about her escapades and what is his acceptance of her?

For women especially, the number of sex partners is somehow more of an issue than the amount of sex she's having. A woman who has had twenty different sex partners over twenty years, 17 to 37, is considered more experienced than a woman who has only one partner during the same time. And it doesn't matter if the first woman had bland sex occasionally, while the second was fucking twice a day every which way.

Sorry to hear that you are having a hard time finding a good guy. Not all single men are jerks. I am single and would love to find a compatible single woman to "date".