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There's sort of a why-what-how series of questions that come into play during an internal conversation (a conversation with yourself). For the "why" aspect, you have to sort out whether you want this for you (curiosity, excitement, whatever) or you are being driven by a desire to please someone else (aka "boyfriend thinks it would be hot!") . Put simply, if the interest/desire is not coming from within you,just stop. No one determines your sexuality except you. For the "what" aspect, you need to sort out what you want the (first) experience to be like. What does that intimate episode look like in your fantasy? Is it anonymous or is there a relationship underpinning the experience? With whom? Having answered that question, what is fueling the anxiety? That you will be judged? That you might not enjoy it? That you might be hurt? Talking it out (to yourself) can be helpful. If you made it to "how", that's a little easier. Person(s), time, place, boundaries, safety. And give yourself permission to back out at any time without fear of disappointing anyone--first and foremost yourself. Good luck.

...because you're not ready (yet). In order to be successful in swinging (or a 3some) you need to be in a solid committed relationship. If the relationship is less than granite, then you start worrying about everything else...is she better/prettier/someone he likes more than me? Am I not good enough for him? Etc. Wait until you have a wonderful relationship built around the big three (love/trust/communication) and then see about moving forward.

Oh, give me Jamie Lee Curtis in A Fish Called Wanda anytime.

I don't mind you asking at all; that's why we're all here - you can ask me anything. My parents do not know about my sister's sexual activities, they just know that she and her husband fight occasionally, and nowhere near the full extent of it. They think that she is virtuous having one husband/sex partner and one father for her children, which is almost certainly true. I just wonder whether their relationship is stable, in that they are both good with the game that they have going on now, or that her husband at some point will have had enough. I think he both dreads and looks forward to her meeting her next fling. He hates her having sex with another man, but loves the entirety of the make up ritual afterwards. From what sis tells me, he has never had sex with another woman since they been married, and she brags she keeps it that way by keeping him "depleted."

Uuu that weird and wrong! I like it!

My apologies. Must’ve been that other tall, handsome, buff, rich guy with a harem of barely legal girlfriends on here. There’s so many I get them mixed up.

My husband is usually the top but last week I got to finally watch him get taken. I watched while another guy was inside me. The guy was definitely bigger than average so it took a bit of time to get inside him. When my husband got fully erect I took him in my mouth. He came very quickly and so did I - absolutely amazing experience for us. Afterwards he said the guys penis hitbhis p-spot perfectly.

As I believe I have posted this somewhere else in threads, yes my wife always tells me that I suck realy hard,, her beautiful large clitt and her nipples, she wants to see me suck a cock, also she wants me to take it in my ass while I am inside of her,, haven’t done it yet,, but hopefully someday

Most Bi experiences are from a pure sex/orgasm stand point, but there is another level that happens when a lover has a very passionate sex session. I'm a bi masculine man, I enjoy both sexes. Sometimes in the moment when I’m fucking a woman’s husband, I lie them face down on the bed and have my entire body on top of them while my cock is in their ass. Our bodies are completely feeling each other and I’m kissing and nibbling their neck and ears. It moves from lust to passion and when a wife experiences that sight it takes it to a another lever of fulfillment! I don’t have sex with just men, my bi sex is “only” with married male and female couples! I truly enjoy being the addition to an already amazing sex life!

It does for my wife. We fantasize about sucking cock together, and me eating her pussy and ass while I get deeply ass fucked.

The Bisexual Swingers portion of this forum is just fantastic. It's wonderfully liberating to hear testimonials from folks about things that I have thought about and fantasized about but are outside the pale. Thank you so much and Carpe Diem! I hope to have my own stories soon!

Oh man that sounds like alot of fun...

I have had many exclusive NSA sexual relationships with married couples and had help 4 married couples take their husbands virgin ass! You have to be very patient take your time and be willing to touch/hold your husband as his ass is being filled for the first time....tell him how much you love him, talk to him about how it’s turning you on man seeing this unfold and have a partner that will listen to his feedback as in intensity increases...the put your strap-on on and share his ass with the other man even after the man fucks him leaving his seed in your husband's ass...sloppy second will drive your husband to an orgasm only imagined