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In the USA, once reaching age 50, we Americans remain middle aged until two years after we are dead.

We also watched this particular episode and have to agree with the poster, it was a, "Non-judgmental, impartial, non-sensational, look at the lifestyle". We appreciated how she (Lisa Ling) portrayed the LS, which was vastly different from how other documentaries we have seen have portrayed the LS.

A principal that always seems to work; when in doubt, dress more than you think you will need. Dressing less will be embarrassing. At worst, overdressing is a point of conversation.

We don’t have a real rule. All of meetings start with oral and we have never used any protection during oral. The odds of catching most STDs are lower with oral, not zero. I know there are dental dams used even though I have never seen one. I have never been stopped during oral by someone who wanted protection. I have always left it up to the man if he wanted to to use a condom, I don’t feel much of a difference. Michael will at times put one on without being asked and won’t hesitate if asked to put one one. Normally on second meetings we already know how the other couples want to play. All sex has risk and if you aren’t ready for bare sex don’t do it.

I've only once participated in a real gang bang - guys lined up to have a turn with a woman - but in this instance at least all the men were fully respectful of the woman. It was in a play room at a club. I had met the couple earlier in the evening in a social area, and they both seemed nice and happily connected with one another. There was no mention at that time of plans for a gangbang. Later in the evening, after playing with a couple of other women, including my date for the evening, my date and I wondered into a play room where the gangbang was taking place. My date, who was extremely nearsighted and really didn't perceive what was happening on the other side of the room, found a guy to suck. I got in line, with about four or five guys ahead of me. The woman was on her back on a bed, but surrounded on both sides by a couple of men who were verbally supportive of her, almost like attendants. Between episodes of intercourse they would offer her water and check how she was doing. Her husband, standing at the foot of the bed did offer verbal encouragement to the men, asking each to "fuck her good" or similar. Each of the guys ahead of me finished pretty quickly, maybe two or three minutes each. I clearly recall when it was my turn one of the guys closest to her on the bed asked if she was ready for another round, and she nodded affirmatively and took a drink of water that was offered her. I slid between her legs and entered her pussy. I didn't hold back my orgasm at all, came quickly and withdrew. By this time there were another half-dozen guys in line. I have no idea how many men this woman entertained in the evening, but for the time I was there it was clear that all of us there were participants in a scene meant to gratify this couple.

It's not only a delicious physical feeling, but also a psychological high. I've had sloppy seconds with my own semen inside my wife (and other women) but knowing that she just got off with another guy and is now eager for me is much more satisfying.

Yeah, I assume that he's gone missing since I see his picture on salad dressing bottles, etc.

Is everyone from Canada preachy?? To use condoms or not is a personal choice. I think most people KNOW the risks of std transmission. They chose to accept the risk. If you don't, that is your choice. Don't play with people who do. That is your choice too. Wagging an electronic finger at someone over this is smug and presumptuous.