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Okay so the question I have here is why do fit healthy people that only want to play with others that take their health seriously always get labeled as snobs by so many people in the lifestyle? Are they really bad people, because they want to spend time with others that also have the drive and ambition to eat right and exercise? It is not like they are the way they are, because they are born that way! Everyone can be fit and healthy if they want to be. It takes a strong willed person to do what it takes to keep themselves healthy. I don’t see that as a bad quality in a person at all, but it seems many people think it makes them snobs. We have recently made some big health changes in our lives for ourselves and each other so we can live a long healthy life together and are seeing first hand how much it can improve all aspects of life. Our bodies are changing for the better big time, our energy levels are through the roof and many of our daily chronic pains have all, but disappeared. Neither one of us has ever felt better and there is no turning back. This has made our already great sex life of the charts amazing. Saying that our tastes in others is changing as well. People that care about their health and show it in their appearance are much more appealing to us now and people that clearly don’t just are not our thing. So I guess we must be on our way to snobville and we are okay with that, because honestly our health is way more important then making everyone else happy.

We eat responsibly, exercise often and go to doctors. We are also selective with partners and use condoms 100%. We STD test at least annually. We are not models, but we take our health seriously.

Damn, that is some crazy shit. I mean seriously, wtf? How does anyone think something like that is going to turn out well for them? I know, I'll threaten and stalk them and that will make them give us a second look and maybe change their minds and want to have sex with us. Or second option, they might take a wee bit of offense to this and I'll get my ass beat or shot. What a dumbass asshole...and an obviously blind one.

Look at the bright side: they saved you the time and effort of finding out what they are really like. Finding a great match is HARD, but worth the time and effort when you find it. Charles Schiltz drew a Peanuts a poster that I had when I was in elementary school (WAYYYYYY back then). It had Linus saying 'I love humanity, it's people that I can't stand'. That has always stuck with me. Some people just suck (but the exception are the people on this board)

We agree that there is no way of knowing if there is chemistry there from online chatting, texting or emailing! We gauge interest in meeting someone based off their pictures which they will have to have for us to even talk to them and the info they have on the profile. If those things appeal to us and their is interest on their part as well we will plan to meet them in person somewhere public. As others have said we usually will know quickly if the chemistry and attraction is there to take it further. We no longer waste any time with people online that want to chat forever, kik, text or cam, because well it always ends up being a waste of time for us. Lots of talkers out there and not so many real time players.

Your wife had a good time. It sounds like you and the other woman had fun too. Isn't that what this hobby is all about? You know, fun times and good sex that we can share with friends. Sounds like you did that so there is no reason to feel inferior.

When it is up, difficult to keep it down. When it is down, it refuses to go up. Idea is to ignore it, and let it take its own course.