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So I know i’m going to offend any pure nudists with this post so i’ll apologize in advance. I believe that I have made it clear that my husband and I love nude beaches and resorts - we are not nudists - we love being nude and we are exhibitionists to the core. To that end, we know that on any given day, probably half of the folks in the beach are gawkers. They are there hoping that there are some women out there among the sea of men. I love being a woman on the beach - in some places, i’m in a huge minority. When we go to our favorite in NJ, i’m among several friends and the ratio is a bit more reasonable. Either way, I kind of like the gawkers. I like it that I know i’m being looked at. My question is to the ladies - how do you feel bout it? I get off thinking about the guys rubbing one off later thinking about me. If I know they are looking, i’ll even shift my chair or move so they get a perfect view. I’ll even spread a bit for them. We have hooked up with a few of the guys or invited them to join our group. I guess the bottom line is I figure everybody has their kink, who am I to judge as long as they keep their distance and don’t get too creepy - what say you?

My wife likes the normal mfm play of performing oral on one while getting fucked by the other. I usually let them start out and join in when she wants but we usually finish with dvp. It does require the other guy to be ok with close quarters because well we’re sharing the same space. She loves it, and I love giving it to her. The look on her face when the second cock enters her is priceless.

We have figured out that size really matters to men! It would seem many of them are obsessed with dicks. Just take a look at the comments on dick pics on sites that allow them. Almost all of them are from other men. Are some women size queens? Well sure, but are most? Honestly most women we know could care less about your penis. It is a lot lower on the list of what makes a guy attractive then most men realize.

Numex I could have any of the above posters answer your questions because they are the ones who have guided me through the beginnings and my choices. 1. I was monogamous at the time of my first contact. No I wasn’t a virgin. The guy with us was a stranger and I allowed things to happen. 2. My guilt was I allowed another man to be intimate with me. I can’t answer if I would have told my bf about being with my girlfriend. I may have. 3. My then boyfriend actually left me when I confessed my infidelity. He didn’t accept what I did. It took time to convince him that my confession was an act of love, the love we had for each other. What we went through was very complicated and tears were shared.

Interesting. While we're not exactly swingers, it seems to me that among the two guys and three women in our poly family, it is the women that are keeping the sex life spicy. The guys used to be more into play and variety, and while they still like their fun often (extended foreplay then fucking), they're not as into threesomes and MFMF as they used to be. Even after the three of us women had children and moved into our thirties, our sex drive has stayed strong and increased. We women take our family and professional responsibilities seriously, but when the mood hits us, as it often does, some other responsible person can watch the children for an hour or two while we enjoy the sexual side of life. (Perhaps part of it is that the guys take their family and professional responsibilities even more seriously, as well as keeping in good shape physically. They stay looking good by working out hard, a mix of running, weights, biking, swimming, which tires them out. We woman do it by more moderate exercise and eating much, much less.) At this point, I think David and Red could be satisfied being monogamous with one of us woman. None of us women could, especially because of our loving bond to each other and our strong Lesbian side. We also share a boyfriend on the side (a married guy whose wife knows, but doesn't participate; she watches the children.) Anyway, a long way around to saying that these three approaching middle-age women are the ones "actually have the desire / ability / confidence to actually make [our form of] swinging a permanent and fun part of their lives."

We don’t have a real rule. All of meetings start with oral and we have never used any protection during oral. The odds of catching most STDs are lower with oral, not zero. I know there are dental dams used even though I have never seen one. I have never been stopped during oral by someone who wanted protection. I have always left it up to the man if he wanted to to use a condom, I don’t feel much of a difference. Michael will at times put one on without being asked and won’t hesitate if asked to put one one. Normally on second meetings we already know how the other couples want to play. All sex has risk and if you aren’t ready for bare sex don’t do it.

I enjoyed, and I believe my wife did too, doing her doggy while she gave our friend oral one time. But I think the most fun was one time she was being attended to in the missionary position and her partner wasn't kissing her. In fact, he was so intent on his pleasure that his face wasn't close to hers at all. I know my wife likes to be kissed during intercourse so I joined them and my wife and I had a long, passionate, kiss while he continued. I think it worked well for all three of us. He may not have even knows that we were kissing and he enjoyed a very nice ejaculation. My wife must have liked his movements because I could feel her thrusting back up at him and her kisses became more passionate as she orgasmed. And, for me? It was hot. When I'm having intercourse with her and we're kissing, I'm divided on which pleasure to concentrate on. It's like oral, I don't really like 69 because I have to switch between enjoying the feel of her mouth on me and the pleasure of her taste and feel on my mouth. So, that kiss really let me know what kissing her is like when she's in her throes of passion.

My wife and I enjoy MFMs. I like watching in the beginning as my wife begins foreplay with the other guy. Then I join in. I like kissing her and fondling her tits as the man is performing oral on her. When they are actually in coitus, if they’re in a position like cowboy, I’ll twiddle her clit - she really enjoys that! Basically, I look at myself as an enhancement to her enjoyment as she’s playing with another man. We’ve tried DP a few times, it didn’t work out that well. You have to be very patient, it’s physically challenging, and both men have to be very hard. One thing I’ve enjoyed is I’ll recline, my back on pillows and my head against the headboard. My wife will sit on my lap, facing away from me, and we’ll both open up our legs. The man crawls between them and enters her. For him, it’s much the same as missionary when her ass is raised up on pillows. As they’re screwing, I can put my arms around her and fondle her tits, rub her stomach, fiddle with her hair. I get to feel their movements. My dick is in her ass crack, a most delicious feeling as she slides up and down on it.

Sex with a different person is always a turn on.

1) no idea 2) maybe 1/3 of the time 3) I know of some let downs yes, but also some surprises where I've suggested it and the guys we're not expecting it. In my experiences with sessions involving multiple men, in all cases they take it in turns, or one finishes and another moves in, sometimes changing holes. In 90% of cases I get spit roasted. A third of the time there's DP. On rare occasions I've been airtight.