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What I read in a recent post made me want to say this. For a situation in which you are trying to encourage a person to try something new, like swing, having alcoholic beverage as a facilitator is not, really, a good idea. If you are not able to get into it completely sober, you should not get into it. Now, after you do get into it and you are in the company of people who also are into it, getting buzzed or blasted is appropriate. And that's all I want to say on the subject.

It is very dangerous to invite someone into your home for sex that you have never met. Hubby is not home and he is bringing friends? One time I hope this is a troll.

Mrs Doc likes to have her orgasms with a dick in her and she really likes it when her partner cums rather than banging away for hours. I don't look for sloppy seconds but I don't mind either so if she wants me at some point after someone has cum in her Im happy to be there. One of the hottest moments I can remember, we were side by side on our bed, the other guy was fucking her missionary and his wife had been riding me. She came several times and then went down on me. The husband whispered, "Im getting close" and I saw her grab his ass, pull him in deeper as she said, barely loud enough for me to hear, "cum in me". He did and as he did, she came again. It was sooo hot to watch and hear that I lasted about 2 more strokes with his wife before I came in her mouth. We're going to see that couple at a party next week, we're looking forward to that!

Years ago, there was a hilarious site called "threesome sex positions" or something like that, where somebody had devised dozens of scenarios using those wooden artists' mannequins to populate a diorama of a bedroom. It'd be perfect for this thread if only I could find it somewhere. They started off serious, then got increasingly ridiculous. One was the two female figures in bed doing 69 while the man stands off to the side, looking away, hanging his head. "In this position, my female partners perform oral sex on each other while I gaze at the floor in disappointment, for I have ejaculated too quickly."

Three years ago I had a life changing experience and it was remembered by the friend who changed it. She sent me a bottle of wine, a rose, a chocolate penis and wonderful card with a beautiful handwritten note. Three years ago after meeting my friend at a Rutgers-Penn State football game and the weather turned cold and snowy icy I stayed with my friend and her guy friend at a hotel. It was an innocent invitation I thought. To this day I don’t know how I allowed things to happen. It sure changed my life. What started as a cuddle by my friend ended up as my first experience with a girlfriend. I think what certainly changed my life was having sex with her guy friend. It was the guy that made me admit to my boyfriend what I did. Even though it was the girl friend sex that was what was the new thing I never thought of before, it was the cheating with a guy that made me tell. It was my admission that led to my marriage I am sure.

I don't, and never have had, that fantasy. I want my wife to do what she wants to do, when she wants to do it, to whomever she wants to. Except for one time, she's never had more than two or three other men in one night. One time she did at least seven in a couple hour period, but that was a very special circumstance. Me? I'd love to do eight girls right after another. But two is the max, one is the average . . .

We'd been dating about 6 months, boinking for 4 when Channel 3 in Philly smuggled a camera into Kama Sutra Club on South St. We thought the whole public sex thing was pretty cool and decided to check out a club. I found TJ's near Harrisburg and 2 weeks later we went on a saturday night "just to look around". We walked out to the parking lot arm in arm at 2:30, sweaty and disheveled and Mrs Doc looked at me and said with a sexy smile, "that was REALLY fun honey, can we come back tomorrow". That's how we started.

Pillow talk during sex is a good way to verbalize some of your fantasies and desires. A safe place to suggest how much fun another pair of hands might be for you both or a second cock for your pussy while you are sucking him. See if it turns him on or freaks him out. If you watch porn, maybe pick out a few titles that match your interests. And, don't forget what might be his fantasies. He will likely ask if you'd want to actually try some of those things. Go at his speed and don't push. Let him warm up to the idea.

I think size matters depending on the woman. I'm very tight so bigger ones I'm afraid of.

We have had a number of MFM....MMFMM....MMMMFMMMM for her pleasure. She has always preferred the men involved be comfortable with her engaging 2 or 3 at a time....sometimes more. Most MFM and MMFMM have been with those we were very friendly with and all where comfortable around each other. She could mouth or lick two cocks at a time without either guy feeling homophobic. No one squeamish with her letting each of us cum inside her either in turn or two at a time....when the sizes allowed. She preferred interactive play so one or two working her upper body kissing, breast play tummy or clit massage. A number of variations each event, never any bi male play.....it was all about and for her.

With us too, the guys are straight. I prefer when they take turns sharing me going back and forth. It's exciting not knowing what's going to happen next - Are they getting ready to switch? Will he want to flip me over or stay the way I am? Does he want me to get on top? Which one will cum in me first? Is it going to be this time? After the first guy cums, the second is quick to follow. Although vaginal/oral is fine for me when just getting started, as I get closer to orgasm I hate having a dick in my mouth. I need lots of air to cum and breathe really hard. Licking pussy is fine because I can move away an inch and there's nothing blocking my airway. More and more because of everything going on in our life, especially the kids, it's often one-at-a-time alone play, although the time between those one-at-a-times can sometimes be pretty short. With an FMF, which I prefer, you are right there is more to do - the girls 69ing while he goes between us, or he doing oral on one of us while being in the other. But what we three women all prefer as a FFM is one of us taking him doggy while doing oral on the other girl. Then switching with her - a couple of times.

Watching Rutgers football may have distracted you, thus resulting in out of the ordinary behavior. Hope you have enjoyed your journey!

I remember having feelings of shame and guilt and it took me several weeks to get over it. Imagine the mixture of shock and guilt I felt waking up the next morning on the other guy's bed, instead of my partner's (we were in a twin bed suite). His constant reassurance that it was ok made me move on. The experience changed me though and made me more assertive sexually.

Same with us, my wife does about three times as much outside fucking as I do, although it's usually one-on-one, not multiple guys. It's the same guys/couples that we swap with. I'm fine with it; keeps her happy and I still get all that I want. My wife has fucked Asian guys, but I've never had an Asian girl.

My Asian GF was the one who suggested we go to a swing club. We had driven past it and she asked about the name on the marque. That was 10 years ago. She had been in past relationships where the guys cheated on her. I think she felt that if we swung, I would remain sexually satisfied and be less likely to cheat. As it turned out, about 3/4 of the swinging we do is MFM or MMFMs, so she regularly gets her horns trimmed. But, that is fine with me and our relationship has been free of any jealousy.

I don’t know how you see your friend cumming inside. You may watch him him have an orgasm but if he is in your wife his ejaculation will physically be in her Hidden from you seeing. The question of cumming in or out is a little perplexing. If you are having sex without a condom you have thought about the risk of STDs. I would think you have already taken precautions for pregnancy. When I am having sex with a guy, or for that matter a girlfriend, I would want them to keeep going until they orgasm. I would feel cheated if a guy stopped before I orgasmed. I can’t imagine someone stopping just before I was going to cum. Not every guy gets me to orgasm but to stop just before wouldn’t be right. I don’t get the Rules. No kissing, no cuddling, no cumming. If I could take you in my mouth and let you cum why would I stop you from cumming in me there.

Hey all, I just wanted to update you all. We went ahead and tried it. At first it was awesome, she loved it and so did he. As eddiem said it was SO damn erotic. It happened when we were at a lake party. They were getting a little handsy with each other, so i told them to get a room. A short time after, my buddy comes up to me with a raging hard on asking if I care if he spends some time alone with my wife. I look at her as she smirks and walks past both of us teasing as she walks by. He grabs her butt as they head into the house. I follow in shortly after since she likes when I watch. I sneak into the room as they're making out, his hands slowly trace my wife's curves making his way to the bikini top straps. I feel myself getting harder as the top falls off and his hands touch her breasts. She moans softly as she goes to her knees pulling his suit down with her, revealing his hard cock. She smiles at him as she cups his balls and licks her way up his shaft to the head. I watch his cock disappear into her throat as he thrusts into her mouth. This goes on for a few minutes until he pulls his cock out out of her mouth, grabs her hips, spins her then bends her over and rips off her bottoms. He puts on a condom and teases her clit with his cock. I hear her moan as he slowly splits her pussy lips and enters her, stretching her out. I pull my dick out and start stroking it as he increases speed and thrusts into her. They switch up position and she climbs onto his cock, slowly sliding down his shaft. She quickly climaxes on his cock yellinG his name as she orgasms. She quickly pulls off him, yanks the condom off and goes back to riding him. She rides him faster and faster, until I hear him say to her I'm getting close, oh god I'm getting close, FUUUUUUUCK!!! I watch his balls thrust all his cum deep into her pussy. I then nut massively as i watch her climb off of him. It was absolutely amazing and we've done it a couple of times more since! Best fantasy ever.

This is the husband writing here. We are an interracial couple (American husband and wife from the Philippines). I've been living in the region for over 25 years now and from what I can see there is no hard and fast rule. For that matter I think this goes everywhere. With that said there are regions where either due to a more prudish upbringing (Hong Kong for instance) or strong religious beliefs (Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia) it can be more difficult to get past that mental block. The various religions seem to treat sex as a bad thing, which takes a bit of coming to grips with. Then in our case there is the fear of friends or family back home finding out (this is our main roadblock at the moment). We're waiting for the time we can get away to Hedo for a couple of weeks (half a world away from home) to work this issue out. As far as the comment about Asian wives going along as they feel obligated - I'm sure they exist (as they do in other regions) however I've yet to meet one. If one were to try to convince my wife (or ex-Chinese wife) that they had an 'obligation' to go along, the results would not be pretty....

We are new to this but horny and very willing to try with right couple. Wife is asian, I am mixed. We want someone who is patient. Want same room swing first, then try other experiences.

Female half: I've been swinging with a male partner who is over twice my age and not my husband. Never considered it a big deal for other people to know until it became an issue for some that the man I have a sexual relationship with is not my spouse. I like keeping my marriage and home life separate from my sexual exploration. Sometimes it's even a turn-on for me to come home after having fun for my husband to get the sloppy seconds later on. I love my husband very much but unfortunately crave sex from someone other than him more. Unfortunately this is unpopular in the lifestyle. My husband is also very traditional and conservative when it comes to sex. Condoms, missionary, less aggressive. While my partner is very rough, sloppy, and dominant with me. I need both in my life.

That she wanted to be with me until Death do we part. It don't get any better than that.

Hi Everyone. My wife is from the Philippines and I am getting ready to suggest visiting a club. Can anyone make suggestions about approaching the subject with an Asian woman? She is a very beautiful woman and sometimes I think that I need to have my head examine for wanting to share her. Also, she likes being sexy but is also a little religious. I think I have a 50-50 chance in convincing her for a MFM.

Being from the country of your wife, This is the wife posting btw, She was raised in a very religious nation. That takes time to overcome. Bear in mind that the province or city she comes from has its own unique beliefs and customs when it comes to marriage and relationships. How long have you been together? When you talk to her, let her know that you love her very much and this activity you are going into won't change that a bit, in fact it may even deepen it. We Filipina women like to give whatever we can to our husbands as long as everything is explained in a very loving (malambing) manner. Just a word of caution though, Hope you can handle the tigress she would become if she is agreeable to swinging. :-)

My wife is Philippina too. The swinging lifestyle has always interested me and I explained to her what it was about and made the focus be on her. She then acted interested and we met a few couples from a lifestyle site. From our first encounter, she has been fully on board and is very active. I had some of your same feelings about sharing her, but when it happens, it just intensifies our love for each other. I could not be more proud of her. Her initial fear was that family or vanilla friends would find out. We have had a few discover, but as it turns out, they are curious and want to know more. So, we have fun filling them in on the activity. Bottom line, just be reassuring to her that you are not doing it for any reason other than you are proud of her and want to to have a great time. If she is having fun, she will appreciate you for having the trust and faith in her.