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We agree with Fitlake (a fairly unusual occurrence!). We do enjoy meeting and playing with new couples but became VERY comfortable with one couple in particular. The excitement of a new couple was replaced by a comfort level that we have never achieved before while swinging. We too became way more adventurous, to the point where Mrs Doc was more than willing to play in separate rooms or even separate houses. Something that would have never happened on a 1st or follow-up meeting. Funny that just when we had given up on finding that kind of couple…..we DID. Its been really nice.

My first experience with his bisexuality was very unexpected. We were playing with a male friend after some pretty tame hot tubbing. They both were focused on me so I started to work in their already hard cocks. We moved indoors and it was pretty clear that the other guy was waiting for the green light from my husband to take things further. My husband got on his back and asked me to get into a 69 position. I gave them both some oral and my husband invited the other guy to fuck me if it was okay with me. The guy took me from behind while my husband gave me oral. After a few minutes I could tell he was working on the guys cock while he was fucking me - I was shocked. He actually would put the guys cock in his mouth for a few seconds at a time. It was so incredibly hot I couldn’t hold back. Turns out it was my husbands first experience and was totally spontaneous.

I would do almost anything my wife wanted me to do. It keeps things hot and exciting. For me no anal penetration, even her finger hurts when she tries. Probably no cum from the other guy in my mouth, otherwise.

Whether they are taking turns or going into you at the same time, it needs to be your choice - you shouldn't be persuaded. In an MFM situation, I prefer that they take turns. It's better when there is a woman there too who I can enjoy. I will take two at one time, usually one in my pussy and one in my bum. You should start however you want. Having a good first experience is important to continuing on. We don't use condoms, but in our situation we aren't really swingers. I have sex with the same three guys, and two women, all of the time. Usually in my vagina because it makes me orgasm and I like the idea afterwards that a living part of a man is inside me for several days. Sometimes in my bum (I can't orgasm that way unless a man has his dick in my pussy as well or someone, usually Clair or Lora, is licking me). I will also suck a dick until he cums and swallow, but prefer when a man cums in my vagina. You don't have to know why, if it is something you like and they are willing, enjoy it. No problem, I like to chat. Sometimes I'm busy and don't check in here for a while, so be patient.

She likes to get in doggie with one of us in her pussy and the other in her mouth. Deb is pretty particular who she does anal with, but recently our friend was in her ass and she was blowing me. It was a huge turn on for Deb and I for him to fuck her asshole and I nearly choked her deepthroating when I came!

We have a great core of friends we play with. Any new people we meet are friends of friends and at time that circle widens a few degrees. At first I was hesitant to approach new people. Don’t know why I became shy. My wife and her friend were less shy and always welcomed a new face. I am now finding why, it’s exciting. I still have a feeling of nerves approaching and then once accepted there is such an excitement. I don’t want to give up the comfort of people we know and have now learned to relax and explore new experiences.

I'm being persuaded to let a few men take turns with me today. I think u and u enjoy the same your of treatment. Like u said u like them taking turns. I want to start there. In ur situation did they wear condoms? And where did they cum. I don't know y but I like when men talk dirty to me. They ask me where I want it and I tell them. Id love to contact u.

This from a thread we started a few months ago “When we first started we enjoyed meeting new people. Not every couple was great but we had had an excitement of being with people we just met. Over time we made some great friends that we still enjoy playing with. Mike and I enjoy our friends and our friendships are not something we want to give up. It’s funny how much more we talk about our evenings of play when we meet a new play partner or partners. Our first reason for swinging was the excitement of new partners. I won’t call it a conquest though after we do meet a new couple there is an exhilaration after. I would say our new meetings with new people are usually more satisfying for both of us.”

We disagree. The more time we spend with our 'go to' couple friends, the more comfortable it becomes. We are more adventurous because trust has been established. We better understand each other's wishes and wants. More than a few fantasies have been checked off that were never going to happen on the first or second date/session. Seeing them again next week. Can't wait.

You may want to join SLS. Even a free membership there will give you access to their event listings which include both on and off-premise events throughout New England.

After I ate my wife after I came in her, she married me.

We have been doing more lurking, but, for information, advice and guidance. We have posted on a few threads and started a few as well. Can't say that we are swinging yet, however, we are going to be attending our first club this weekend. We have learned a lot from what we have read. Answers to questions we had and answers to questions were hadn't thought of. This is definitely a great site!

We have had a number of MFM....MMFMM....MMMMFMMMM for her pleasure. She has always preferred the men involved be comfortable with her engaging 2 or 3 at a time....sometimes more. Most MFM and MMFMM have been with those we were very friendly with and all where comfortable around each other. She could mouth or lick two cocks at a time without either guy feeling homophobic. No one squeamish with her letting each of us cum inside her either in turn or two at a time....when the sizes allowed. She preferred interactive play so one or two working her upper body kissing, breast play tummy or clit massage. A number of variations each event, never any bi male play.....it was all about and for her.

Do you prefer being one of the 2 in your wife or having 2 other men taking care of her? To answer the previous question - pussy/ass, neither my wife or I have ever done two in the pussy. To answer my own question - when we're with two other couples we both prefer her taking two other guys. (Exciting to watch and I have the two other wives for an FMF.)

For some reason, I feel compelled to clarify my response. By "One at a time," I meant one in me at a time. I actually prefer when they take turns sharing me going back and forth. It's exciting not knowing what's going to happen next - Are they getting ready to switch? Will he want to flip me over or stay the way I am? Does he want me to get on top? Which one will cum in me first? Is it going to be this time? After the first guy cums, the second is quick to follow. We've had variations on this where they would be in and out of my bum, or switching off but with one guy going in my pussy and one in my bum, or after the first guy cums he switches doing oral on me until he's hard again. I've also done this with three, and once four men, but there were other women there too, we were just swapping quickly for fun and all of the cum wasn't put in me. (Makes me sound like a real swinger, but I've only been with five guys in my life; and yeah, and more women than that.) DPs can be nice, but the positions are not that comfortable or conducive to good fucking.

Thank you. I can try that. We actually used condoms a few weeks ago but not in the positive way you’re suggesting. I had sex with a guy and though I told him we used protection he didn’t believe me because I also told him I was a little high and he questioned my judgment. I think he was just mad that I had sex but I keep asking him - why say you’re ok with something if you’re not. Just be honest and we’ll deal with that.

Who likes the feeling of big cocks in their mouth? I love it...the more the merrier. I love bukkake...being surrounded by hard cocks, two in my mouth at once...all the cum! Anyone else feel like I do???

it is a very great turn on for my husband to see a man cum in me.

To clarify - If I'm doing multiple guys by myself I only like DP after they have both/all cum in my vagina first. Something about having those little swimmers in me that makes me feel good. It is a living part of a man that I have inside me for a while, and if it's from more than one guy, even better. And I like the idea and the feel of sloppy seconds, and the challenge of getting rearoused for another orgasm (and a final orgasm from oral).

A spit roast and I feel dirty.....in a good way! While both dp and dvp give me absolutely amazing orgasms! And one after the other, so long as you get the order right.....whats not to like?