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Oh, goodness. When you read these comments you might determine that swingers are as diverse as the population in general.

A few years ago he was on top of me and fucking me agonizingly slow. He looked into my eyes as I felt him slide all the way inside me. I felt him tighten up and squeeze as he released in me. At that moment he looked at me and said “I want to cum inside you like this every day for the rest of my life...I love you baby.”

Unless they're totally repulsive we'd say something like "we're meeting friends later" or if they're doable but you're hoping for an upgrade we'd say something like, "we're probably going to the group room in a bit, maybe we'll see you there". No sense burning bridges unless you have to.

This is just a note from my tiny section of the swingers universe. First you worry about being "that guy". I am thinking that that pretty much innoculates you against that. You are aware and do not want to go there. That puts you ahead of all the horny post notching married men, and there are more than a few of those. Second not all swinger communities are structured in the same way. Some absolutely shun single men. They have their reasons some good some not so. Our particular group , while mostly married couples, decided a while ago that singles of either gender , if they behaved themselves, would be welcome. We are mostly an older group and these singles are sometimes widowed persons or divorced. We have had our share of couples that formed after meeting at a party. There have even been a few marriages.Being a bit older and knowing what you want sometimes makes thing simpler. If you were to show up at a group like ours , out of 40 people, you would be one of 3-4 single males (at this point 5-7 single females). If you were civil and participated in the social and work activities the ladies would notice. It might take a few parties with little or no action as they vetted you. Even as a married guy I went through that.( My wife not so much. I didn't get jealous of other guys playing with her as I was perturbed a bit by the disparity in our activity levels.) At any rate after a number of parties it was no longer an issue. Even at the first party while I was helping the ladies set up the meal I was getting my ass grabbed and on full on hug and kiss as a thanks. I think you would experience much the same given the right group. On our part we met a gentleman who has become a long term play partner, mostly in threes , but on occasion with just my wife. As to your question of WHEN, I would say if you don't recognize the time, then it has not come. That of course is not an issue if you meet in a swingers environment in the first place. If you do get involved with a vanilla, why not just lay it out there as a fascination of yours while you are still in the discovery stage, not phrasing it as "Do you want to do this with me?" Let it perk in her mind for a while if she does she might just surprise you.

Very much. She encourages me to eat well and I encourage her to lift heavy. Left to our own devices she'd just do yoga and I'd sneak a cheat meal every day.

Lately I am addicted to my girlfriends pussy while my husband is inside her. I love watching them together and pleasuring them both - can’t get enough.

It really is nice once you break through that initial awkwardness and start to get comfy. We have enjoyed that with a few couples where the comfort level was so much better after the first few times.

Probably not. The problem with 'secret signals' is that once anyone finds out about them, they're not a secret anymore. Black rings were once supposed to mean you were a swinger...well, Prince Harry wears a black ring and I don't think he is a swinger. After a quick search, anklets have all kinds of meanings. Depending on which ankle they are on and what nationality you are they mean different things. In India, wearing an anklet on your left ankle means that you are married, just like a ring on your left ring finger. Women wearing anklets on their right ankles were thought to be call girls and prostitutes. In 'Christianity' (whatever that may mean, I'm quoting a website here) it is the left side that is considered to be the symbol of Devil and everything connected with evil forces in general. There is also another version that the bracelet worn on the right ankle is telling about its wearer’s being of non-traditional sexual orientation. Another site says that if a woman wears an ankle bracelet on the left ankle, it’s a sign that she is married and in an open relationship. The same site also says that if the anklet is in the right ankle, that means the woman is a lesbian. Yet another site tells that in Eastern cultures, particularly India, anklets are worn on either or both ankles. Hope this makes it confusing enough to realize you can't rely on one finding you a play partner.

Ronnie and I had been eating our own wives, Linda and Laura. Laura came and shouted "I need a cock! Somebody fuck me!" I went to Linda and Ronnie slid into Laura.

We see both sides. We both enjoy the chase that comes with pursuing a new couple. We have had a few experiences where after once or twice it wasn't appealing anymore. We currently have a girlfriend that we first played with together then her and I played solo 3 times. We definitely needed a break but after the break all parties were charged up to play again. The comfort level we have is amazing and will likely last. Our first couple we ever played with 5 years ago we still see once a year and the sexual energy is great.

Several years ago before we settled in with our regular couples, my wife came home after a lesbian encounter and said very matter-of-factly, "You'll like her pussy."

That's a difficult question to answer. What the swinging environment is like depends a lot on the specific club or party. A swingers party can cover the range between 1) a hedonistic writhing mass of naked bodies taking up every inch of floor space, to 2) a group of friends sitting around someone's house chatting and socializing and then by the time everyone is tired and ready to go home, realizing that they were enjoying themselves so much they forgot that they in fact are swingers and this in fact was a swingers party, yet everyone forgot to get naked and have sex Clubs are sort of the same way. We've walked into clubs were the sexual energy smacking you in the face as soon as you stepped through the door. We have also been to clubs that were like walking into a small town neighborhood bar. I guess if there is one constant it would be the people. Swingers tend to be pretty relaxed and easy to make friendly conversation with. That seems to hold true about anywhere you go.

Thought so. :)

It was during our first foursome...my wife said playfully "I don't care who's, but I need somebody's dick inside of of me now!" Yes ma'am!!

I'm a sucker for any hint of her slutty side slipping out. A favorite was still her revelation that given the choice, she'd rather be bent over and fucked by a completely strange man than have him in her mouth. We haven't tried that one, but the thought is still a turn-on.

Aren’t we the luckiest people on earth. We found each other.

We'd been dating about 6 months, boinking for 4 when Channel 3 in Philly smuggled a camera into Kama Sutra Club on South St. We thought the whole public sex thing was pretty cool and decided to check out a club. I found TJ's near Harrisburg and 2 weeks later we went on a saturday night "just to look around". We walked out to the parking lot arm in arm at 2:30, sweaty and disheveled and Mrs Doc looked at me and said with a sexy smile, "that was REALLY fun honey, can we come back tomorrow". That's how we started.

The hottest thing my hubby told me was on messenger while I was mouthing a guy It was around Midnight last night and he texted, "don't let him fuck u yet just your mouth" I know he was joking but if he really knew.

We were out for my birthday....mrs was looking exceptionally hot is a tight sexy minidress and 6" platform heels. We were obviously on the prowl that night and she whispered in my ear, "I want to be your dirty whore this evening, so we can do whatever you want"! That was an instant hard on. We did find a single guy in the bar and went to his room shortly after that.....

The hottest thing my husband ever told me was before the first time we had sex. We were making out. He looked into my eyes and with intense longing in his voice he said "I want you". That's how he got my virginity.

I'm open to bisexuality among men. If Dave wanted to try something out, so be it. Personally, I could care less if he ever tried anything or not. Dave's pretty open sexually, and he'll try just about anything once. If he liked it, he'd probably do it again, and if he didn't he probably wouldn't.