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People looking at our profile is a compliment. People looking repeatedly have seen something they obviously like. Where's the problem? We put pictures in our profile to generate interest. Thats what views are, interest. Unless the lookers are a couple who clearly do not meet our criteria or an obviously creepy single guy, we're happy they're looking, we think its validation that we're still attractive. If we return the initial view and think, "yuk" we will block if they make a habit of clicking on us.

I wouldn't DO anything to her. I'd try to discover what gives her pleasure and then hopefully share in her pleasure. Hint: Swinging is basically run by the women, they set the limits and they tend to choose the partners and they decide when or if to have sex. No one DOES my wife!! They share HER, they meet HER needs or SHE walks away. OP has a LOT to learn.