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Is it ever right for a brother and sister, both single, to play as a couple? I should say that it doesn’t bother me but I do question it. I know I have been to parties where relatives, not mine, have played. This is both coming as a couple and playing as a couple. My husband thinks it’s fine.

Some of you may have read my post "embarrassed newbie" over in first swinging experiences. If not, step over and read it to get all of the details. To make a long story short, we ended up having our first swinging experience a week ago with a couple we have known for years. It was completely unplanned and we didnt even know they were in the lifestyle until that night. My wife had the time of her life, I on the other hand, couldn't get it up. I know it's only been a week, but I am eager for redemption. I cant believe I let myself get so drunk that I couldn't perform on the night of my life. My wife loved it so much that it seems like she would be willing to try again, but she keeps saying "it was great. I enjoyed him and was really turned on watching you eat her out, but I'm not sure if we will ever do it again." I need a way to get my redemption without making her feel pressured. Should I keep bringing it up, or just continue with life and hope I get another shot before I go crazy? A couple years ago, we had anal for the first time. My wife seemed disturbed for a couple days afterwards. She finally admitted that she loved it, but felt bad about loving it, if that makes sense. I kinda feel like she has the same feelings about this. She had a great time, but somehow feels dirty or wrong for participating. How would yall approach this situation? On a positive note: We have had sex every day since this experience. Prior to that, I would say we averaged once or twice per month.

Thanks, Wornsilver and Padoc. I can't claim total credit. Laura and I worked together. Obviously, I could never have known as much about what happened as Laura did. Years later Laura's dad talked to me about Stuart's death. It ruined his life and his wife's. Neither ever remarried. For the most part, Laura handled it well. She lived the rest of her life as a sexually free physical enthusiast. She felt it our duty to ensure strong education in all phases of life.

Alura is a tremendous writer.

Shit! I am at a loss for words.

What’s the question?

That sounds pretty weird to me if we are talking blood siblings and not step siblings. My GF fucked 2 brothers at the same time and they were extremely comfortable with the situation but I could not even imagine how. I guess to each their own.

For us, if my husband (or anyone in our family) wanted to cut back or even stop having sex altogether that would be OK, but it would also be OK for the rest of us to adjust and continue.