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This post in another thread... ...got me thinking - Girls, what is the most unusual or interesting thing you have had in your vagina? Me - A little bottle half-filled with liquid I used to rock back and forth with when I was in my midteens. I know, not all that interesting, but it kept me happy. Clair (our gf) - A banana she and a former lover used for foreplay, then ate.

After many years of talking about it (in and out of bed lol) we decided to invite a single male to join us. After placing a few ads and responding to more we think we have found the right person. Still have to meet in person, but we have traded pics and all signs point to a good match. The wife is happy, he sounds like a nice guy and he's less than half her age We are planning a first meet just to get acquainted but if we click in person the way we've clicked online we'll be getting a room that night All of a sudden we're confronted with questions we're not sure of. * What kind of hotel should we look for? A short stay where you pay cash? Or a nicer hotel, where you would need a credit card to rent? * Our plan was to bring condoms and be 100% safe for oral and intercourse (maybe dispense with them once we built a relationship). After some of the threads we've read it sounds like a lot of people don't use them for oral. Thoughts? Any last minute advice? LOL

I am not going to say what is happing to children who are being used by adults. That is just horrible. I know the age of consent is different in some states from others. I think there was a question on this site asking how old were you the first time you had sex and even if half the people who answered were truthful, there are many many who had sex before they were legal. My first time I knew what I was doing, it was not with an adult, he was a little older and I was more than willing. I knew him very well, it was my friends brother. He didn’t force me and from what I’ve heard from other girls, the experience was better than many others. If I have a regret it was he wasn’t my boyfriend, it wasn’t love. I did like him and trusted him. I wasn’t his first and I know he did boast and that didn’t bother me. It was his friend that was my best friend’s first. She too was not pressured. What is funny is another couple on here once posted that she lost her virginity to her friend’s brother. I remembered laughing when I read it. I think she cried after, I was happy after.

Alura is correct that there are probably more brothers and sisters that may have played. I don’t think they play as swingers, most likely as adolescents. I think there has been plenty of sexual experimentation that has taken place at homes when mom and dad were at work. I am not saying that this is the norm and not saying if it occurred it continued to adulthood. Certainly this is not a socially accepted relationship, neither is swinging. I have learned not to make judgments on who people have sex with or what is normal.

Good idea. My wife doesn't want to be involved finding someone online. She lets that up to me. If I feel good about someone the three of us will meet in a non sexual way. Dinner, drinks, a walk in the park etc.. If she feels good about having sex with him I'll make a date with him to meet us, either at home or in a motel. Usually a motel. We have always used a credit card in the motel/hotel room we rent. Some people here have said the third should help to pay. I am happy to pay hoping we will all have a good experience. She can't get pregnant so she likes to go bareback. She likes making him cum and holding his cum in her. I let that decision up to her.

We truly hope your first meeting goes the way you hope it goes. A few suggestions Speak to him first. Make sure he is what you think he is. There are many fakes out there who hide behind emails. If he refuses to speak, RUN. Yes, meet for drinks or dinner. Be comfortable with him. Some men can be jerks and this will show usually over an hour or two. I know a younger man, half your age, is an attraction. Though it might be a perfect scenario it might also be a red flag or at least a flag. On the other side it might just the thing. For a hotel go to a hotel you would go to if you weren’t meeting someone. Do you want a flea bag that prostitutes use? You aren’t doing anything wrong, don’t make it seedy. A clean bed, a clean bathroom are a must. Yes bring condoms. You want to use them for peace of mind. If you feel you want to use a condom for oral, use it. Again it’s your call. Personally we don’t use it for oral. It can be risky especially for herpes though you can can get any STD with any unprotected sex. Good luck and have fun.

Fell asleep at keyboard.

I wondered the same thing.

What’s the question?

Holy Crap! What an awful story!! How did the parents manage to live with THAT?? How did Laura? She must have felt tremendous guilt. Those folks would NOT have been candidates for parents of the year.

It has happened a lot to me and I know it’s always a possibility so when I accept a guys cock into my mouth or pussy, I almost expect it. Honestly, i get turned on knowing that it feels so good they can’t hold back. Most of the time i’m able to get them going again so I can get what I need. I’m actually not much of a fan of sucking cocks, especially anything over 6” so quick is good for me!