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Is it ever right for a brother and sister, both single, to play as a couple? I should say that it doesn’t bother me but I do question it. I know I have been to parties where relatives, not mine, have played. This is both coming as a couple and playing as a couple. My husband thinks it’s fine.

We enjoy something similar IRL. When my wife has come home from a quick encounter with one of our play partners, I'll be horny as hell. So I eat her for a short while until I can't stand it, take sloppy seconds, then calmly give her another orgasm licking her double sloppy pussy.

I see a red flag in that your wife is okay with your having sex with other women but just not this one. It’s not just insecure but controlling. She is not able to control how she feels (insecure or jealous) so this is her reaction to the situation. It seems like this could become more of a wedge between you and not a good idea as a triad. I wonder if what your wife really wants is just her to play with this woman without you at all. We can’t control how we feel, but it’s what we do with those feelings that matters.

While we have followed this practice, because it makes sense to us, I do want to add a caveat for those with little or no experience who are reading this thread. There probably will come a time,for the male partner, when there are needs/desires not being met, or anxieties being triggered. It is essential that the male NOT keep his mouth shut in the effort to give his lady the lead. Honest, transparent,and clear communication is important. Your lady has no way of knowing unless you express yourself. In our case, we were quite happily doing MFM. Initially I thought that I had no real desire for FMF. I have always been a one on one sort. After about a year in I started thinking that it might be fun to try. I kept my mouth shut. It festered for a few months until it started to interfere with enjoying the MFM. The chemistry was being altered. I said something to my wife. She had noticed something , but was not sure. Problem solved. She still has the initiative. She still needs it. It is better that the initiative is informed initiative.

Tricianmike, I was thinking in terms of who could get hurt by siblings playing which is why I mentioned reproductive age. If there is no chance of creating a child that would be aborted or possibly suffer some kind of genetic abnormalities, then for me, my conclusion stands, who cares? As for Mrs Doc's sister, no she doesn't play. We HAVE talked about the possibility. In a perfect world, my wife wouldn't mind, we've played several times with her very good friend who is perhaps closer than the sister and it was wonderful. It is not a perfect world however and if we even hinted at the possibility, her sister would be absolutely outraged. In puppy talk, I definitely got the pick of the litter. The attached was taken yesterday trying on a christmas present….

Merry Christmas Lioness. I think you once said that one of your friends had a brother that swings, it was on a post where I said Mike and I met our cousin. I know it’s not the same thing. I at first thought second cousins were wrong. After we talked it went well. Were the siblings brothers or sisters or a brother and sister? Do they play separately or together. If you are playing with brothers or sisters I think you are having some good fun. If they are a brother and sister my first thought is it’s weird. My further thought would be it shouldn’t bother you, it’s their decision. For me i couldn’t have sex with my brother. I do sometimes wonder if I had friends that did it.

Sexual morality is best decided by those involved.

This is NOT an unusual occurrence. I'll bet you get rock hard now when you picture your wife actually doing the fantasy you've had for years. Try it again. Next time go easy on the booze. There's a fine line between losing inhibitions and losing your erection. Once you figure out where that line is, you can get a buzz AND a woody. When you try again with this couple, I'd suggest separate rooms to start. You know that your wife is safe with your buddy. Go off with his wife to another room and you'll get a hard on that could drive nails. Once you get past that first hurdle, a whole world of erotic fun will open up for you and your wife. Let us know what happens next!

Male half replying here ... Yes! Is that a serious question? Didn't you ever get nervous about anything else you had dreamed of doing? Going skydiving? Learning to drive? Your first cruise? Really REALLY wanting to do something doesn't prevent you from being nervous about it the first time you do it. Get back on the horse and ride again.

Swinging is just like every other couple activity in which you can engage. If you bowl, some nights she'll have a better score than you some nights, vice versa. She had a good night and you?? Hell, you got to watch. Actually, for a 1st experience, you two did well. You didn't describe yourselves but understand, swinging is generally a couples sport and a visual one. Perhaps your wife is more physically attractive than you? If so, go to the gym, get a haircut and work on your social skills. Swinging women basically call the shots in this hobby, something your first experience demonstrated clearly. Work a bit to become more attractive to the women around you and to be considered a "fair" trade. The best part of your story is that your wife established that she was attractive to both sexes. That's gotta be good for her. Be proud of her instead of jealous and take an honest look at yourself in the mirror and address whatever you need to to be your wife's equal in the attractiveness department.

The grinding method is very satisfying for me, but at least for Mrs. E, what stimulates her the most is using my arms to hold her up ramrod straight on my dick and letting her bounce that way. I can use one hand to hold her torso up and another under her ass to help her bounce. It's hard for her to do on her own because the spot I hit is, in her words, "psychedelic" and it's hard to even will herself through it, but stimulating her that much is as much for me to watch as it is for her to feel.