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Thanks everyone for the responses, we love to read about other folks adventures as well as share ours. After the massage where I got turned on because the massage guy could see the sides of her breasts, we talked about setting up a more sensual massage for her. I looked on the internet and found a guy that did sensual massage. I arranged a time and on the way there, I told her it was going to be a sensual massage. She asked what that meant and I said I'm not sure. When we got there he took us into the massage room. I asked him what exactly was a sensual massage and he said it depended on what we wanted. He said the best thing was for everyone to be completely honest. I asked what he normally did. He said the woman was usually totally naked and he did a total body massage and sometimes it resulted in an orgasm. He said he would give us a few minutes to think about it and get ready. He left the room and we looked at each other. We had been naked in a hot tub with other couples many times but had never done anything like this. She seemed a bit nervous but we agreed to see what happened and stop it if we felt uncomfortable. She took her clothes off and got on the table with a towel. I opened the door and he came in dressed in little gym shorts and a work out shirt. He pulled the towel down slightly and started to massage her neck and shoulders. I could tell he was experienced. She started to relax. He then went to her feet and spent time on her toes and worked his way up her legs one at a time. He would get close to her ass but never touch it. Then he moved to her side and started really working her thighs. As he would pull his hands from inside her thigh to outside, the towel would rise and her pretty red pussy would be exposed a bit. I was at the foot of the table watching. He kind of looked at me to see if everything was okay. I didn't object and he switched to the other side. This time he exaggerated his movements and her ass and pussy were more exposed. I think she knew at this point that he was getting a pretty good look. He then asked if we still needed the towel. I said it was up to her. She figured what the hell, he already had a pretty good look and said take it away. Off went the towel, and there was my wife, face down, naked in front of this guy. He very obviously went to the foot of the table and took her feet and spread them apart. Her pussy was fairly exposed. He started up her leg again, this time continuing all the way and giving her ass a good work out. He repeated the other leg. Then he did something that totally shocked me. He grabbed her left leg, pulled it up so her knee was on the table and her ass was sticking up. Her pussy was not only exposed, but slightly open. He then stuck his fingers in his crème container and got a dollap of creme and in a quick motion put the gob of the stuff directly on her clit. I think my mouth was open, but I/we didn't stop him. He then proceeded to work her pussy for about 15 minutes. I moved to the head of the table to make sure she was okay. She grabbed my hands and just squeezed. He then told her it was time to turn over. Now my wife was fully exposed lying on her back with her pretty breasts and red hair in the candle light. He worked on her breasts for awhile and then got on the table between her legs and was working on her pussy some more. I bent over to say something to her and when I looked up, he had his head buried in her pussy. He looked up at me and asked, is this okay. It was a bit late to object so he continued. She was getting really hot, and he told me I should finish her. He decided he should leave the room and we finished on our own. On the way home we would look at each other and start laughing, neither one of us believing what we just did. But we didn't regret it and used it to get us going for months. That was the start of our "soft swinging" experiences. Hope you enjoyed.

We started as a full swap couple in foursomes - that didn't last long! Before a month was up we were invited into a small orgy (four couples, one single girl,) and then moved onto MFMs, the rare solo, and anything else that seemed interesting at the moment. We talked about it for three years before actually doing anything, so we were comfortable with the full swap scenario.

You got somewhere around 3/4ths of what you wanted out of your fantasy the very first time - your wife fucked, she had a great time, and you enjoyed ("hot as hell to watch") - so that's pretty good. You can fix the one thing lacking with the advice above; it's much better than being in the situation where your wife hated the experience and doesn't want to do it again. Tell yourself that if you can't get it up there's a backup plan, oral. Go into licking mode to please the other woman. She can do the same for you. Even a limp dick will blow with the right oral stimulation. Meanwhile, I'd be fantasizing about the other things your wholesome wife might surprise you with. ?

Plan another evening with them, go easy on the booze and see where it goes. If your wife is adamant that it was a one time thing, you'll still have the visuals in your head. "but I'm not sure if we will ever do it again" leaves the door open. "not sure if" gives you both some wiggle room.

Male half replying here ... Yes! Is that a serious question? Didn't you ever get nervous about anything else you had dreamed of doing? Going skydiving? Learning to drive? Your first cruise? Really REALLY wanting to do something doesn't prevent you from being nervous about it the first time you do it. Get back on the horse and ride again.

I wouldn't DO anything to her. I'd try to discover what gives her pleasure and then hopefully share in her pleasure. Hint: Swinging is basically run by the women, they set the limits and they tend to choose the partners and they decide when or if to have sex. No one DOES my wife!! They share HER, they meet HER needs or SHE walks away. OP has a LOT to learn.

Too funny Padoc. We are 57 and 58. Grandparents not boingking people that look like what I thought my grandparents look like. Lol. People are much more attractive in person than in profile pictures. Age is just a number. We are newbies and so far everyone we have hooked up with have been younger than us.

I got into swinging because I wanted to experience MFM. I do have FMF fantasies, but have yet to meet the right couple. MMI is always fun too, Me, Myself, and I.

I enjoy watching it shoot out and feeling the warmth, so I usually like it on my face or tits. If a guy wants to cum in my mouth, that's ok too. I'll usually just take it in my mouth as far as I can to feel it shoot down my throat and feel the pulsations and throbbing in my mouth.

Watching and being watched is one of the reasons I got into the lifestyle and stay in the lifestyle. The thrill of being watched especially has never worn off.