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We love to hear how other couples/ladies expose themselves. Not sure how creative this was, but last time we were in Vegas, wife tried on some outfits for me in our room. We were heading to the Red Rooster and she of course wanted the perfect outfit. One of them was just a little short black dress with no panties. I told her how hot it would be to walk through the casino and maybe flash a guy or guys. As we walked around, she got more than a few looks and smiles. We went by a lounge where you could see in from the casino. She spotted what looked like a bachelor party, bunch of young guys drinking and laughing. There was an empty table not far from them with hardly anyone else in the lounge. She went in and had a glass of wine at the table. Then she positioned herself so she was sitting facing the guys table. She crossed and uncrossed her legs. I was watching from a safe distance in the casino. She noticed one of the guys look her way and she again uncrossed her legs giving him a clear view of her little trimmed red pussy. He wasn't quite sure what to do or if what he saw was done on purpose. He looked away, but then looked again. This time she caught his eye and smiled while crossing her legs again. He kept looking and then elbowed one of his buddies. She flashed them both, then got up and walked by their table smiling. She came out and told me how fun and hot it was. We decided to keep walking around. We found some slot machines in a corner of the casino that wasn't too crowded. There was a guy playing on a machine and I mentioned that if she played on a machine across from it, she could flash him very easily. I got positioned myself behind him and was able to take a quick picture over his shoulder and caught what he was looking at. Very hot and we laughed about it all the way to the Red Rooster. The taxi driver also got a great view. Love to hear some of your fun flashing stories.

David Lovell, it's not the count, it's how much you enjoyed yourself!

Some men are just stupid (and they wonder why they are not invited back a second time). Even if you are 'one and done', you still have a tongue and fingers. The job isn't done until you have both cum, FINISH the job you started. Don't be selfish.

I am certain that my number is more than a hundred. I did the horizontal mambo last week at a New Year's Eve party. I mentioned to my female partner that I relish any opportunity to enjoy sex with someone for the first time. She got a quizzical look on her face and said, "what are you talking about? You and I did this last year." Maybe I've done a few too many.

Mrs Doc has a cocktail dress that fits her very well. It has a v-neck that shows a bit of cleavage and she wears it occasionally when we go out for an upscale dinner. It's deep enough that a waiter behind her can see the top 3rd of her boobs. If she leans forward a bit or reaches out with one hand, and someone is positioned perfectly, her boob is in view as is the entire nipple. She never wears a bra or panties with it, just the dress and heels. Over the summer we were having dinner at one of our favorite places and she was feeling frisky so as we completed our order, she reached out to hand the menu to the waiter, giving him the whole boob treatment. He missed the menu and it fell to the floor. As he dropped to one knee to pick it up she leaned further as if to help and he got to see both boobs and her now very hard nipples. He had a hell of a time finding that menu because he could barely take his eyes off her. We had excellent service the rest of the night. this is the dress. We normally sit in the dining room close to the bar that has high top type seating. She will occasionally be less than careful when she gets up to go to the ladies room especially if she notices someone checking her out. I know when she has flashed someone an upstart because she gives me the most devilish smile before she saunters past the guy.This is why we go out to dinner a lot.

We did and so did Santa….

Our first swapping a number of years ago was in different rooms where I was made love to my a great man. It was really romantic. The next day was horrible when I was used by that same man for sex in front of others. I also didn’t enjoy watching my husband have sex with another woman and I had no desire to be with another woman. To this day I still prefer being alone with a partner even if others are playing in a party setting. We don’t play very often and it’s mostly with the original couple who doesn’t live close to us. When we do visit them they have invited others to our evenings. Over time I have let myself enjoy other men and even though I was originally repulsed by being with women. Over time I reluctantly did a little play, more allowing and me not a great participant with women. Over the New Year we visited our friends who also invited two other couples. We did play as a group which I don’t know if I was ready for. The couples were not what I thought it was going to be. They were pretty nice people and we enjoyed everything that led up to the inevitable sex. I found myself with a man we just met and was nervous. I wanted to go to a bedroom with him as I am more comfortable that way. We didn’t and all of us stayed in the same room. After a little hesitation I felt more comfortable and started to enjoy. Then I saw two of the women playing and prayed they would leave me alone. Didn’t take long before I was drawn into playing. After some playing and fun at my expense it came out that I enjoy separate room play. I was coaxed into going to another room with one of the women. We spent the rest of the night together at first talking, telling stories and eventually much more. She was great in not forcing me to do things and instead letting things happen. I think I at first felt obligated but it the end I wanted to play. I am still evolving.

I so agree that evolving is exciting. I remember when we first started swapping, followed by orgies, then hotwifing, then . . . It seemed like every time we went out, something new happened. Now, after a couple of decades, I think we've explored everything we care to. We know we're not into certain things - BDSM, golden showers, foot fetish, etc. So that excitement seems like it's behind us. That's okay, when we meet new potential play partners, my heart still starts racing!

OP has described the new girlfriend as prudish and boring in bed. This doesn’t sound like a good match.

A few too many years; your memory is going.

Aren’t we all evolving. Staying static would be a bore. You have evolved into my beginnings. I know longer make judgments to what is wrong or right. I don’t overthink what others think. I don’t know how I allowed myself to be intimate with my girlfriend yet I did and I now say so what. I felt very little guilt being with her and I didn’t do it to please my boyfriend. My evolving is your beginnings, being alone with a partner. My husband doesn’t have a need to watch me, he does enjoy watching with my girlfriends not with men so much. You are correct in saying that intimacy is different when alone with a partner. Others on here will say swinging is a couples thing, something you do together. If that is what is good for those people that’s great. For me the excitement started with being with girlfriends. It was totally new to me and almost all my swinging centered on me exploring that. I evolved to playing in groups and then to being alone with guys. To me the excitement is to continue to evolve. Have fun exploring.

Flaccid she said.

You say you are not exclusive at this time. Is that because there has been a conversation saying this directly or is it because it hasn’t been clearly stated? There may be different assumptions on both sides. I don’t think you are being fair to her and are setting yourself up for long term disappointment.

We have created our own retreat that is isolated...we call it 'home' and spend most of our time naked there. Luckily, we don't have any neighbors that are 'too close' and lots of trees to block most views. It is available to book for weekends (if you can pass the interview)

New members here. Plan on being more active than lurker. Here to learn and interact. Some threads just feel like there is no need to say anything, especially as a couple just starting our journey in the LS.

Here is my standard, canned answer to this question: I advise you to take the mojoupgrade.com quiz with your SO. You both answer questions independently about your sexual desires, then the site matches what both of you are interested in. Even if your SO answers that s/he is not interested in group sex, this is a wonderful and non-threatening way to begin the discussion.

Is everyone from Canada preachy?? To use condoms or not is a personal choice. I think most people KNOW the risks of std transmission. They chose to accept the risk. If you don't, that is your choice. Don't play with people who do. That is your choice too. Wagging an electronic finger at someone over this is smug and presumptuous.

Since most guys are setting up the profile, and they are only interested in seeing the other woman, they have a tendency to do the same...only post pictures of their woman. They don't want or care what the other guy looks like so they don't even think about posting a picture of them self. It's only experience that finally teaches that they need to have a picture of them self as well...bonus if you have a picture (doesn't matter of it is G or R rated) of the two of them together (which proves that the woman you are posting even knows who the poster is). Among other things, it shows who knows what they are doing and those who don't, are fakes, flakes, or trolls.