OK, here is one way of how not to reject people on-line. After arriving to our winter home in Florida, we sent an SLS invitation for a meeting to a couple with whom we had had a really great encounter a year ago. The reply we received is, "unfortunately, we are no longer engaged in the lifestyle." This contradicts the words that are displayed in their SLS profile which contains more than one expression of how eager they are to meet people. So, dear Swingersboard members, do not reject people this way.