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Has your sex toy play ever spilled from the bedroom to out in public? Whether it's wearing vibrating panties to a bar or a butt plug while out shopping, tell us your stories!

No, this isn't a bashing thread about them... Our first experience into the Lifestyle was with a single male. Loved our experience, so much so, we played with him on numerous occasions. That experience was over 7 years ago, and he left the Lifestyle and got married. Now we are having a hard time finding dependable guys. As I (the female) have gotten older, I've noticed that I tend to attract younger guys... ages ranging from 22 to early 30's. But my question is, why do younger guys like older women? I have gotten over the weirded out factor, we have a son that is 19 and he has to tell his friends to quit checking out his mom

We've seen a couple of posts already from some folks coming out with their "polyness". I'd like to hear from the rest of you who feel that you are are polyamorous. What is your relationship set up? Are you currently in a poly relationship, were you previously, or are you hoping to be?

Brand new to the lifestyle. Looking for a single male. This is proving to be a little challenging. Any I've spoken to have been very rude/crude. There seems to be a total lack of respect. My question is....are there any respectful single men on here or am I just wasting my time? Should I just stick to married men? Thanks.

For those who are currently swingers and are not in poly type relationships, do you think you could ever consider doing so? What would keep you from doing considering it? What would allow you to consider it? There is often talk here about "falling in love with a swing partner" and how to avoid it, yet it seems that that is exactly what happens for many of the couples who end up in poly type relationships. In most cases they weren't seeking it and would have done their best to avoid it, but it happened and after talking about it with all parties, instead of closing the door and walking away they chose to see where it went. Do you feel you could do that?

Single women have a very different experience than single men. I am not out to promote myself like a website. I don’t mind the ads but a membership is not worth my time to sort out the messages treating me like a piece of meat. A lot of my interest, desire, and trust just diminished. I pay for music, not apple, because I am getting what I want.

Me . . . I'd just move on. They don't want to play, with you, maybe with others. Such is life. Plenty of fish in the sea, particularly in Florida.

"I have recently gotten back into swinging as a man" That sentence begs the question….what were you before???

Sounds great.

When I start to ejaculate, it can be sudden and I have an extremely difficult time pulling out of whatever I'm into. If there are boundaries, I need to know beforehand so I can comply. Fortunately, my wife and the other women are fine with it wherever.

You can call it whatever you want but the reality is that your drug dealer got you stoned on your ass and then fucked your wife in a car. Lessons to be learned from this are: 1. Your drug dealer isn't your friend. 2. Drug dealers are not to be trusted. 3. Your wife fucked your drug dealer. She cheated on you, she was NOT swinging. 4. Protecting your wife should ALWAYS be your first priority. 5. You failed to behave like a man and stay sober enough to protect your wife. 6. If your still doing business with that guy, he's probably still doing business with your wife. This may have been the first time she cheated but I seriously doubt it and I seriously doubt it will be the last time.

Why do some younger women like older men?

We have been open to poly in the past. We could be again. It has been a rough road in some ways, but personally I think affection and love are so precious in this life that I would have a lot of trouble rejecting it when it came along.