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I think meant to be a more polite code for "not trashy", since some people are looking for that scene. I think it's not so much about money or importance as it's supposed to imply proper grooming, a clean living environment, not dropping foul language at dinner, etc., traits that you'd expect from someone able to hold down a professional job. Sure, mildly snobby/classist, but intended to signal to some people not to waste their time. I can see where that leaves a lot of groomed, clean "non-professional" people in the middle going "WTF", though.

I had been chatting with someone on Tinder and we were planning on meeting this weekend. He cancelled after he asked what I do for work and I answered I don’t talk about my work and would explain when we meet. Then he unliked me, said I made him feel creepy and like a stalker. He saved me the trouble of finding out.

If you are a professional anything doesn't that mean that you get paid to do whatever it is you do? We aren't looking for unemployed swingers, we want professional ones Wait, if you are getting paid to have sex, that makes you a... nevermind. I still am looking forward to the day I can be a retired professional...getting paid not to work. Of course, working for the state I have already been accused of that.

We are professionals is one of the most overused statements we see on profiles! Why put it on your profile? Is it a classist thing? Is it supposed to mean you are more attractive, because you are a really important person? Does it mean you are only interested in meeting other super important people like yourselves? Personally we could care less what people do for a living or how much material things they own. As long as they are contributing member of society they may or may not be someone we are attracted to. Their profession is going to have nothing to do with how attractive they are. We are not looking for a life partner out of this lifestyle. We already have that. Are you good looking, in good shape, respectful to all people and fun to be around? Those things are going to make you attractive to us. Not how important you think you are to the rest of the world.

I felt similar starting out being that I'm not super assertive especially when we're playing with a group. What I decided works best is to just join in the fun. If the only partner you know is willing, start giving your wife some attention like suck on a boob, make out, or have her suck your dick. When we play with people we know, this type of feeling never really hit me since there's an inherit comfort to knowing people and if they are receptive to you.

Well put. That's why having a guy cum anywhere but in my vagina is a waste.

I've said before, but Mrs. E can't feel the cum itself but always enjoys the anticipation and throbbing, too, and insists she's never failed to climax when a man orgasms inside her. She's the same way, gets off repeatedly and very easily. I make a point of going balls-deep to finish.

I can definitely feel it if the guy has a bigger cock. As they ejaculate I can feel their thick cock pulsing. If they are long enough I can actually feel the head pulse as well especially if they stop thrusting and just push it in and hold it there as they release.

Mrs Doc LOVES is when her partner cums in her. Her description is similar to several of the other posts, she can feel the cock getting more hard and swelling and pushing as deep as possible into her. She often has an additional orgasm or two when I or another playmate gets off inside her. Her only complaint is that many guys in the lifestyle hold back and either can't cum or won't but will continue to simply pound away. After four or five orgasms (she cums very easily)she's ready for and wants her partner to cum and she prefers that he cums in her. We both believe that the ultimate goal of sex is orgasms for all involved.

Mrs Doc got sick just before Christmas this year and so we had to cancel our trip north and our NYE at TPA. That party has never disappointed us. Last year, we went to a small house party in Florida where we knew one other couple, turned out that the rest of the partiers looked about 20 years older then their pictures or professed ages. I think we left 10 minutes after the ball dropped. We normally LOVE our nights at Trapeze in FLL but our experiences on NYE 2014 and 2016 were disappointing. The crowd was too big, the music was too loud, people got drunk early including the DJ, who messed up the countdown, how the hell can you do THAT? One guy got insistent and belligerent with my wife and had to be taken down (he started to get grabby, she told him no twice, I did once, firmly. When he came back again, I quit talking, he dropped before the ball did). The play areas could not accommodate the size of the crowd, you shouldn't have to stand in line to boink at a swingers club. People were still coming in the front door when we gave up and left before 12:30. We didn't even consider it this year. If we don't go north to TPA next year, we may simply invite 3-4 couples we know well to our house. We have 3 bedrooms, a leather sectional and a heated pool and spa. The only drawback is that our neighbor will probably feel compelled to spend her NYE praying for the naked sinners next door.