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    FullSwapCLT, the way you work the clubs works for you, and you should keep doing it the way you want. My wife and I have a different way of doing it. We get to the club, my wife goes into a room and puts on sexy clothing, it varies from night to night and theme to theme. We circulate. We dance, often other couples will join us and we'll start dancing as a foursome then two twosomes, if we like them. (My wife and I have developed hand signals to let each other know one of us isn't interested.) If we find a couple that seems interesting, we'll ask if they want to get a drink, we'll head to a quiet corner and discuss things. If we're on a wavelength, we'll begin talking about taking it to a room and any rules they might have. (Ours are simple. No mean no, condoms for PIV.) We may head into a room with them. If we don't feel good after the conversation, we'll say thanks but no and head back to the dance floor. Or maybe the jacuzzi, it's amazing how many people we meet when we're naked and relaxing. If we've been there for awhile and it doesn't look like any couples are happening, I'll give my wife a signal, she'll start hunting single men for MFMs. And failing that, there's always the option to head into a room by ourselves. I would say out of ten nights we're at the club where we haven't prearranged a meet, seven times we'll find a couple, two a single guy and we'll 'strike out' only one time. And striking out isn't that bad an option.
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    Trolls are always going to try to keep the conversation going. They have a tendency to adjust the story to justify their actions. It can even be entertaining. If any of its real it’s his marriage to fuck up and hope none of us cross ways.
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    We have been to all kinds of swinger parties and events over the last 40 years. We have seen and done everything you guys have said here. It happens. And all of your advice and suggestions are great. One thing. My wife is a perfect 10. She has one of those rare magnetic personalities. She is one of those special people who walk into the room with her bright friendly smile and instantly the room lights up and everyone feels so good and fuzzy all over. You like her instantly. Then they look at me and say holy crap, what is that, shoot it quick. My wife knows this and she can and will take control over the situation because she is gifted that way. She pulls me into the circle and introduces me to the people with such smoothness, kindness and love. I have learned to follow her lead and learn how to blend in. I'm not jealous and I have great self-esteem. She could have any man in the world. I have seen her take on the most handsome, hung, healthy, studs in the world, but after 47 years of marriage and mother of our four sons, she chooses to go home with me.
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    My wife has worn revealing clothes since we were married in 1972. The funniest time I remember is when we had spent the night in a Motel 8 outside of Fort Sumner NM. Wife was 42. We had stayed on the second floor across from the stairs. We were leaving. I was in the car waiting for her. Next to me was a guy waiting on his wife in his care and their two boys 8 and 10. His wife and my wife came out of the rooms at the same time. They met at the base of the stairs. She was wearing an unbuttoned sleeveless sheer top blouse and see through yellow shorts. Her nice breasts were hanging out and you could see her pubic hair through her shorts. My wife was wearing a black fish net top no bra and a white sheer shorts. You could see all of her breasts clearly and her pussy. They stopped, looked at each other and began to talking. They laughed and talked forever. I turned off my car and he did the same. Both of their breasts wiggled and bounced for all to see as well as their pussies. It was very beautiful to see. After 18 minutes, I know for sure I kept time, they finally hugged, mashing their exposed huge breasts and exchanged phone numbers. They were from Montana on vacation going to Juarez Mexico. My wife told her the best way to get there. We were heading to Wyoming. She told my wife what to see and visit on the way. They still talk today. My wife enjoys displaying her bare breasts in public.
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    You said in the original post, "So, I've completely ignored some of the wonderful advice on that last thread, and pushed for a second date with our Russian friends." Then you said this morning, " I don't think I've ignored any advice yet, but I am perhaps about to ignore it next week." You're getting into Troll Territory. I, for one, will be ignoring your posts from here on out.
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    People often vet themselves before they meet. My wife and I both have advanced degrees, but we just want to meet people who are kind, nice and fun. We don’t care what they do for a living, etc.
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    That's the way we interpret when we see it. Not actually what you do for a living, blue collar or white collar, or how much you make doing it, but more about manners and how you present yourself. I've always taken "professional" to mean something you know enough about and are good enough at you can make a living at it. I've got above average DIY skills, but just because I can replace a circuit breaker or run a new circuit doesn't make me a professional electrician, and when it's obvious I'm getting in over my head on something, Mrs. cplnuswing will just tell me "time to call a professional." There have been people that met my professional definition that I've decided not to contract to do a job after having met them just because I didn't like the way they presented themselves. Many I would almost guarantee their annual income puts ours to shame, so I don't see it as a class thing since at least in the US, money seems to be the major factor on the class pecking order. Fair or not, I just perceived them as an unprofessional professional, and decided to pass. Same goes for potential playmates, there have been times we have been put off by how someone presented themselves. Nothing classist about it, we just didn't like their mannerisms and the vibe they put off. Be a professional (whatever that means to you) vs act professional. Just as an aside, this question comes up enough and people have such different takes on it that I wonder it if is a regional language thing, like what first comes to mind when you read the word depends on where you call home?
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    as soon as I know he’s cumming I almost always climax as well
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    Our first was at a club. I wasn’t comfortable meeting up with total strangers in a hotel. It was actually very organic. My husband took me to a room with a sex swing and we left the door open. One we got going, we had a small group watching us. One at a time, my husband invited guys to come in. Once four guys were in the room, I asked them to take me. I actually asked them if they would jerk off a bit for me while my husband warmed me up. Then, they took turns with me. The swing was a perfect touch. Now that we have made a lot of friends, it’s pretty easy to put together a familiar group.
  10. 1 point
    If I allow a man to put his dick anywhere in me, I expect that he may cum there. If there was an objection, I'd make it know up front.
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