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As I've continued to read this interesting thread and people's opinions, I'm becoming more convinced it means such a wide spectrum of different things to such a wide spectrum of different people that it makes one wonder if it really means anything at all? That then goes back to Enhancer's point about it being so overused. Everyone puts their own context on it based on their own lives and perspectives. But, profiles are slap full of stuff like that. For example, a couple writes: "Let me tell you girls, he's awesome in bed. He's like the Energizer bunny, lasts for hours!" Well, Mrs. cplnuswing doesn't think that's awesome at all, she has no interest in getting pounded for hours. The wife there though, she does evidently like that, so from her perspective in the context of their sex lives, that's a good thing. We just don't get hung up too much either way on the details. Whether this word is or isn't present, whether that word is or isn't present, what they think is a plus, what we think is a plus. Any one little piece of the overall picture doesn't make or break anything.

We describe ourselves in our SLS Profile as "Retired professionals". We mean it simply to convey two facts about us: 1) We used to work for a paycheck, but we don't anymore. 2) We did white collar rather than blue collar work. We throw it out there in the same way we throw out that we're in the gym 5-6 times a week, and that we don't do drugs, and that we enjoy visiting wineries ... all of which are ALSO in our Profile. Knowing that we're retired professionals might give someone a reason to be interested in us, or it might give them a reason to pass us by, or it *might* not matter to them one iota either way ... exactly the same way all of those other facts might help inform their opinion of us. But it doesn't mean that we consider ourselves better -- for some definition of the word -- than anybody else.

Sun and Moon is angling for a book contract. With all due respect, I think most people are here to read brief comments. Brevity is the soul of wit.

Mfm all the way. My wife loves her girl time but we can get that with couples. With mfm, it’s all about her being pleasured as much as possible. She likes dvp too so that’s a huge turn on for me. When the second cock enters her pussy, she turns into an animal. For us, the easiest way to pull it off is her on top in cowgirl leaning over chest to chest with one of the guys While the second enters her doggy style.

Yes, I think it's acceptable for one spouse to masturbate themselves when they are watching their partner with another person. That's part of the fun!

Personally (I am the wife) I would be turned on seeing a man watching and masterbating at the same time. HOT!