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The first time we tried this, she was between the other husband's legs giving head and managed to spill quite a bit. Not so much gagging as it was she just didn't swallow fast enough. She told me later that it was just that she'd been so used to the way I cum, thicker and stickier, that him being more watery caught her by surprise. Was very hot to see and to talk about.

That’s exactly right! We’re going to talk about it this weekend and make some new rules going forward so we don’t wind up in this scenario again. Thanks for the feedback! Have a great weekend.

I was NEVER sexually bored with Mrs Doc. She was beautiful, sexy, playful and adventuresome from the start. We gradually eased into this hobby from a sense of curiosity and a shared desire sexual adventure and variety. More than 15 years later we're still sharing all of that and more.

So a little background. We’re an experienced swing couple. We’ve been in the lifestyle together for 3 1/2 years. In addition to full swap, threesomes, and orgies, we’re into the Hotwife scene. My man is a bull who enjoys playing with couples seeking a well-hung man to please the wife. Recently we went on a cabin trip with one of the Hotwife couples we play with regularly and another one of her bulls. My man always invites me to come with him to hang with this couple even though I don’t play because the wife wants all of the attention on her. So we’re at the cabin and everything is fine. My man and her other boyfriend are fucking her nonstop as usual. When they’re not fucking my man and I take some time to hang out in the hot tub and enjoy the Mountain View. So it’s time to head home and out of nowhere the husband walks into the living room and proceeds to brow beat my man about not making his wife feel special. He goes on a 30 minute tirade about how she didn’t get to do her fashion show for us and didn’t get to spend hours doing foreplay like she does with her other bull. Needless to say it was super awkward and totally killed the vibe. To add insult to injury they want us to go on vacay with them! On the way home we discussed the situation and both felt that she is too needy and has gotten too emotionally clingy. In our opinion a bull isn’t there to do the things your husband should do - he’s a sexual supplement and friend. We aren’t going to do a vacay with them as we know she couldn’t handle seeing him have fun with other women. We don’t want to feel as though we’re being watched and scrutinized while on vacation. Are we tripping or has this situation gone sour?

Simple answer: NOT enough!! When we started more than 15 years ago we eased into it but once we got our feet wet, we were at a club nearly every weekend. Now we do an occasional weekend road trip to Trapeze and otherwise, we tend to play with friends and/or meet new couples about once a month. Distance is a part of it, when we lived in Pa, we had four great clubs about an hour from our front door. Now a club trip involves a dog sitter, a hotel room and about 2.5 hour drive each way. If we had a good club in SWFL we'd play way more often. "Dating" couples to find playmates can be fun and exciting but is also sometimes a quite tedious process and its time consuming.

Greetings. We are new here. I (Marla) have some experience swinging. But it was a long (long) time ago before I met Brian. We been together almost 30-years. Last year (I was a bit buzzed) I mentioned my past swinging to him. At first I thought he might get mad, but was pleased to see he was aroused. So I told him some of the details. I swapped a few times with my first husband but didn't really enjoy it. I knew marriage was on rocks and he talked me into it, I was thinking it might help smooth things out. Of course it didn't and we divorced. After my divorce I did have some fun 3 or 4 times a year with a group of friends that would meet up for a long weekend. I also use to travel a fair amount for work and was able to have fun on the road. But as I mentioned it was a long time ago. Anyways, since I brought it up to Brian we've talked about starting up (he has no experience). But since I've been out of it for such a long time I feel like a novice. So we joined this site to mainly get information about the lifestyles ins & outs (so to speak no pun intended) these days. So I think we will be reading a lot of the forms to get up to speed about the lifestyle. So thanks to all those who post here, it will help us in many ways as this journey moves on, if it does at all.

Wow , very nice

My GF almost always swallows when someone nuts in her mouth. Sometimes me and other guys will shoot on her face or some other part of her body as well. The only time I think I ever saw her spit was when she was getting facefucked and the guy was cumming in her throat and she gagged and spit everything up. Otherwise she always swallows.

I think you're probably on to something with the idea that the hotwife type scenarios you guys have been involved with might lean a little more toward having these sorts of misunderstandings. Also think you are right on a little more upfront communication would probably help a lot on avoiding issues by getting everyone on the same page right away. That will probably cost you a few potential playmates, but better to have fewer contacts but ones that are in sync with you guys than more contacts that aren't a good fit to start with.

An interesting question. While no two couples share identical perspectives and experiences, we assert it's not just libido--it's making affirmative choices in how to continue life's journey into older age and even elderhood. 1. Gratitude matters. Being grateful for seeing each sunrise, sharing a meal, having less aches than the prior day. Older age, empty nest and so on, gives couples the time to be grateful. 2. Staying healthy together matters. Eating well, alcohol in moderation, health care, and above all doing it for each other matters. Speaking frankly about sexual issues with healthcare providers is important. 3. Accepting changing bodies and accommodating to fatigue, aches, and so on matters. Sex at 2 am is vastly overrated--8 am when rested is frankly a lot more fun. 4. Staying in touch with playmates and going on adventures--resorts, cruises, whatever--to create new connections, that also matters. 5. Making choices to stay exciting to each other--naked cocktail hour, erotic outfits, new toys, etc.--for and about each other matters. If you sense that there is a focus here on the immediate spouse/partner, you are correct. Other couples sense that enthusiasm and confidence and say 'we want that for us'.

Mrs Doc is a swallower. She will occasionally cum as I cum in her mouth. It's really hot to watch her blowing someone in a 3-some or while his wife is sucking me. She always goes down as far as she can go and holds it as he cums. Amazing to feel and incredible to watch!