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We were at Caliente ( a nudest community north of Tampa) about 6 years ago and spent a pleasant afternoon by the pool with an attractive equally naked early 50's couple. We chatted, laughed, shared a couple of adult beverages and had a pleasant afternoon. By about 3:00 pm, the early summer sun had become brutal and Mrs Doc was feeling frisky. She reached across and started to caress the other husbands thigh and said, "its getting REALLY hot out here, would you two like to take the party back to our room"? You'd have thought we had offered to kill and bbq their dog for dinner. The other wife said "we didn't know you were swingers" as she snarled a "no thank you" and dragged her husband to the other side of the pool. In retrospect, we should have been more direct earlier as suggested above. I think in a mixed setting (nudist & swinger) it's important that you're up front early. We've found that nudists are less open and way more judgmental than swingers who are comfortable being naked in public.

So far as I'm aware (being that I've never been to one, only read about them), most nudist camps are not receptive to swingers. I'd check with the camp to make sure that such things are acceptable, and only then proceed ahead. As to how to ask, you can always walk up and say "Hey! Wanna ****?" No seriously, I would think it would be like any other interaction at a meet and greet. See if there's some compatibility, and then as discussion progresses ask them if they're in the lifestyle. There's no trick to it. Just ask.

Gators are not known for their parenting skills so even babies are armed with teeth and can defend themselves.

During sex, I mentioned a specific fantasy of watching her suck cock. A few days later she asked me as we pulled into the driveway after grocery shopping if I was serious and asked a couple of questions about it, then said she could probably get into that. It took a couple years of talking for us to actually do it.

In most respects, weather, especially in the winter, is just about the only really good thing about Florida. Its buggy, full of lizards, the woods are harsh, never change colors and are full of nasty things that bite and the land is flatter than my ex-wife and just about as hospitable. There are alligators in the lakes and rivers, sharks close to the beach, 8 foot pythons and iguanas falling from the trees when the temp hits 45 (weather). The West coast is a breeding ground for red tide which will ruin even the nicest beach day(weather again) and recently, something called blue green algae filled canals and marinas with goop that had an indescribable feted ordor and hung around for months. Jobs pay a lot less than many of the rust belt states and while there is no state income tax residents are nickel and dimed to death with hidden fees, move here and register your car and you'll see what I mean. Oh, and speaking of weather, there are hurricanes, sometimes several in a summer. Florida is somewhat narrow but is loooooong, portions of the state are closer to Havana than to the state capitol. Many places between I-75 and I-95 are akin to a 3rd world country or a scene from Deliverance without the hills. All in all, there are some fun places to visit, some great hotels, and some beautiful beaches (weather permitting). Its great for vacation but not so great if you have to work here, raise a family, or commute to work. If you like Publix or Walgreens, you're in luck because there seems to be one of each every 3 blocks and if you like 8 minute traffic lights, we have them too, damned near every block. The upside is you don't have to shovel sunshine!