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Swingers secret handshake?? Maybe. We were at Haulover Beach one Memorial Day weekend and met an attractive couple about our age in the water. The other wife was wearing a Trapeze hat which was a dead give away that they were swingers. We chatted away part of the afternoon and discovered we were both going to the club that night. We had a drink with them there and chatted a bit more. The wife looked just as good in club clothes as naked. We kind of lost track of them and didn't play that night. We went back to the same general location at the beach on Sunday and they were there as well. The wife got up and hugged us, the husband stood up as well and shook my hand. Mrs Doc noticed that, likely due to sunscreen, he had more than a little bit of sand on his cock. As he approached her to offer a hug, she reached out with one hand, gently taking his cock in her right hand while softly brushing the sand off with her left. He said, "Wow! That's some hand shake". He had a bit of a chubby for most of the rest of the day in part because she somehow found more grains on it several times as the afternoon passed. We did play with them at the club that night and a few times over the next few months until they moved to NC. They were a lot of fun!

I also experienced fmfm but but was not able to try that since I don't know the other woman that well. In a mfm-m I did in the past where I personally trusted all the men, I did swallow in all the bj I gave/received from them during our weekend getaway! I remember gaining a little weight from it! :-D

As you may know, we're not really swingers but a poly family. I have only been with five guys in my life (I am embarrassed to say), although I currently have (a lot) sex with the two guys (and two other women) in the family and our shared boyfriend. But I pretty much give/gave them blowjobs when they want and swallow because, well, they sometimes want it. I much prefer, however, that I suck their dick after it's been spent in my or another woman's pussy. My kink.

Some swingers wear black rings. You didn’t learn the secret hand shake?

This reminds me of the tagline of a self-service car wash in my neigborhood! Kidding aside, Red is like my bf and your hubby is like my SO when cumming. I love to swallow from my 2 guys but in a swing with others, I usually dont. Except for a very few who I really like and am the one who initiated the connection. ;-)

By always eating healthy, exercising daily and keeping the extra pounds off! It takes discipline to do these things, but it should be a priority for anyone who actually cares about their health. A healthy body leads to a healthy mind and a healthy libido.

First, congratulations on your first hosting event! Here are some thoughts from our experiences... 1. How things go depends on who shows up, and how well they know each other. You have been wise to ensure that people know at least one other couple planning to be there. 2. Invitations notwithstanding, who shows up is what matters. There is the possibility that, owing to no-shows, there may be some people where who know no one other than you (having invited them). Plan accordingly. 3. You already have done a great deal of the planning. You will find that unless you enlist one or more of the guests to help, you may well be torn between keeping things going socially and keeping the kitchen etc orderly to have a good time. It can be helpful to invite one other couple to arrive early, show them where things are, ask for some set-up help and so on. There may be a last minute run for more ice or mixers or lube or whatever. 4. You are entirely correct that there are three phases to most parties: arrival, playtime, wind-down and departure. Catalyzing the transitions ought to be planned, but may not be needed depending on how well folks know each other. 5. The purpose of an icebreaker is to get people interacting with someone who is ***not*** their usual partner. Your questionnaire thing works fine provided you as hosts are reading the answers anonymously. Most people are reluctant to do public speaking, especially about their fantasies, even in the private setting of a house party. Depending on how many couples show up, and how much time you have, some version of speed dating where the men have 2 min to introduce themselves and get to know every lady at the party works, especially if paired with "tell me something about yourself that I wouldn't expect to know" and reading those lists at the end. (Ten couples==20 min, with another 10 min for reading the lists and laughing). Then there is the different nuts-and-bolts approach (each of the men is given a bolt, the women get to pick a nut from a bowl and find who they will be speaking with for 5 min. Or whatever. The raunchier icebreakers (blindfold the men and have them try to identify their wives by feeling their breasts) rarely get 100% participation. 6.Regardless, kitchen congregation is a staple at parties. People like to take breaks. The challenge is to make sure that no one is isolated and feeling left out for an extended period of time. Figure out how you will keep track of same and what you will do to mitigate the isolation. Have fun!

A lot of the guys are dogs!

What I read in a recent post made me want to say this. For a situation in which you are trying to encourage a person to try something new, like swing, having alcoholic beverage as a facilitator is not, really, a good idea. If you are not able to get into it completely sober, you should not get into it. Now, after you do get into it and you are in the company of people who also are into it, getting buzzed or blasted is appropriate. And that's all I want to say on the subject.

Three things about the LS. First, there is no reliable way to discern a swinger from a vanilla without someone asking/telling. This is one reason why swinger resorts exist. Someone has to ask. No means no. No thank you means no. Maybe means no. Yes means yes. Get used to a great deal of no. Occasionally nudists will bristle, but that's the exception--they know that running around naked is an alternate lifestyle, and there is some overlap among the lifestyles. See the third item. Second, naked does not imply LS even in a nudist environment. Many nudists are just that, G-rated nudists. Their conduct would pass muster at a church social--except for the nakedness. Third, some nudists eventually do cross over to "the dark side" and join the LS. We were/are in that group. Swinging is out of the question until it's situational. And then it's no longer out of the question.

Yes indeed there can be great differences in amount, viscosity, force of output and rate of output. But I do what I can and like it, although I much prefer when Red, who is a high volume, high pressure, high flow guy, ejaculates in my vagina. Hubby OTOH just slowly oozes a couple of dollops, which is much better for taking a swallow between squirts. Sort of like chocolate sauce coming out of a pump bottle.

The first time we tried this, she was between the other husband's legs giving head and managed to spill quite a bit. Not so much gagging as it was she just didn't swallow fast enough. She told me later that it was just that she'd been so used to the way I cum, thicker and stickier, that him being more watery caught her by surprise. Was very hot to see and to talk about.

We were talking about our exes. My wife said she really enjoyed fucking one guy in particular. I proposed that she look him up and have sex with him again. She did.

In our area at least SwingTowns is pretty much a dead site! Very little local activity going on, but we do live in a Swinging dead zone so there is that. As far as when you went to the profile that liked you and it wasn’t there it could be the person closed down access to it temporarily for some reason. I have no idea why people do this, but have seen it before. Maybe they are married and afraid of being caught. Not sure what the answer is. I don’t really understand the message requests on the site either! If you want to talk message us. Don’t expect us to be the one to message you first. Maybe standard members on that site are not aloud to send messages again I don’t know, because we pay like we do on any site we use to get the full benefits. If you are a single woman you should have very little problem finding others interested in meeting you! Finding the ones who interest you might be a bigger challenge though unless all you care about is pictures of cocks, because that is what will be sent to you by all the not so bright guys out there. Single women are the most chased after in this lifestyle by far. Good luck on your search and stick to your wants out of this! You will find what you are looking for eventually.