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Yes, Red was the father of my second child. I was very deliberate and a bit strange limiting my sexual activities with hubby. Absolutely. It is a harsh world and children need all of the support they can get financially, emotionally and physically. I would not even think of having a baby with a man who wouldn't be a committed father. The best thing about all of this is the way we adults are all parents to all of the children. I was particularly please when Red was happy and treated my first child as his own. Interestingly, the children also look at it that way. They know who their biological parents are, but are respectful to all five of us and seek support from each of us. The one difference is that Clair is our stay-at-home mom, which the children appreciate. And we appreciate by the other four of us giving her 1/5th of our earnings.

Never tried double vaginal but think this would be a major turn-on. Anybody tried it?

Go in with rules AND boundaries. Rules are non-negotiable during play. If you have a rule to not fuck another woman, then you don't change that no matter how much you both want it that night. Boundaries can be renegotiated during play and give flexibility to push comfort levels. Maybe a boundary is no kissing, but if you click with someone you both like you can renegotiate. This will help her feel safe knowing what you won't do, but leaving some flexibility and excitement for what is possible! "Never leave regretting what you did, leave regretting what you did not do!" It's easier to fix the later than it is to fix the former.

Bf is committing but he just wants our relationship to be independent from that of SO. He wishes a separate family and I am now open to that. It can be done but it will be very difficult for me to bounce back and forth to 2 households when there is a baby. If he doesnt want to move in, I prefer he relocates near my place. When our child is at school age, then we'll see if the 2 households idea will work. Most of my sexual activities now are with Bf. We swing too as a cpl on occasions. In contrast with SO who allowed me to swing on my own. But now, I lack the time for that. Unless someone Im attracted to in my immediate social circle will initiate for that, why not? :-)

You should check out PartnersID.com they are a company that makes swinger jewelry. We have met quite a few people who wear the jewelry over the past few years. They also have a black ring with the swinger symbol engraved on it. Much like the Trapeze hat, easy to know another swinger when they are wearing it.

Prince Henry wears a black ring and I'm pretty sure he isn't a swinger. (Google it)

Feet!

IvoryTowers, the definition that you wrote of a fetish is correct, at least by the ditionary's standards, but on this forum, it is what sexual details or particular sex acts REALLY turn you on. I have a long list of fetishes. Women that do not shave their pussy, and it is a plus is they don't shave their pits either. Feminine women that do not wear makeup. Hippie chicks, for all of the above reasons. Nerdy or intellectual women, as someone mentioned in an earlier post. Half dressed women (eg. wearing only a shirt, up skirt views, or just cotton panties). The smell of a natural and musky pussy that has hair on it. The pussy and ass smell of a woman at the end of a long day. Watching a woman masturbate. Watching a woman use a big sex toy or object, if she's into that kind of stuff. Vaginal fisting (I enjoy giving it, but I'd rather watch one woman fist another woman). Watching a woman that craves Big Cocks get what she desires. Creampies, giving one, or watching another guy cum in a woman. Eating a creampie. Sloppy seconds. Anal sex, giving and receiving. Rimming a woman ( I have to get to know her first though to enjoy it). Watching one woman rim another woman. I would so love to see that! Homemade porn, especially if it is a video where the guy filmed his wife with a well endowed guy that also knows how to use it! Watersports, but not in the moth, and I'll only try it with very select women. I'll have sex with a woman during her period, but only if I'm dating her. Light bondage such as restraints and blindfolds on rare occasions. Semi public sex. Sex outdoors. Watching others have sex.