We are too, in fact, we're probably older than you two. We spent a 3 -day weekend at Trap over the summer and stayed and played till after 2:00 am each night. We had no difficulty finding attractive playmates in our age bracket (45-65). That was summer time so it was mostly full time Floridians. You're going during "season" which means that the club clientele will be supplemented by snowbirds and cruisers and those folks are generally a bit older but affluent enough to be able to pay the prices of maintaining a level of attractiveness that fits your perception of Trap. We've found over the years (we've been members for 15)that there are almost 2 shifts, especially on Saturday night. There is the early shift, middle aged couples and newbies mostly, who have dinner, dance, drink, make their selections or simply go in the back around 11:00 or a bit later looking for fun. The late shift and mostly younger couples start to come in after 11. Some nights it really IS like 2 different clubs. If we were given only one night in South Florida for debauchery and swinger sex we'd pick Trapeze. PS..we really enjoy your posts and insights here. We'd certainly be willing to answer questions or concerns via private msg as well.