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If we host a couple, we will occasionally have a nightcap in the hot tub to wash the sweat and other juices of us and we'll talk about the evening, what we did, what we saw, what we enjoyed or not. If we're really beat the recap will wait till the next day over coffee but we ALWAYS talk about the evening. If we have been to a house party and played separately, we have amazingly erotic conversations in the car on the way home. Same goes for a club night, our hotel is just 10 minutes from Trapeze so we often just go back and crash. The 2 hour ride back across Alligator Alley is full of erotic conversation. Sometimes, the best part of a swinging experience is discussing it with her afterwards and at some point (including once at the rest area) engaging in reclamation sex.

Sounds like this is one thing that's pretty much universal across the board. We were fortunate to have a little break in the middle of our first play session to take a shower. It was a good chance to talk privately and make sure neither of us secretly just wanted to go home, and to check that we didn't need to discuss any of our rules. After round 2, we just slept. The next morning? We fucked, worked out, talked about all the fucking over breakfast, went back to bed and fucked, talking about it over dinner, met our friends for drinks, ended up playing with them again, then fucking each other, then falling asleep and fucking again in the middle of the night... I haven't gotten to the "the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak" stage for a long time. To your question, a lot of our conversation was about things we'd seen but weren't completely sure what had happened. How did she feel about a woman going down on her (good, it wasn't as uncomfortable as it seemed in her imagination, but she prefers cock), did I really like watching her swallow someone else's cum as much as I told her I would (almost to a fetish level), was getting spitroasted the way she thought it would be (great, she wasn't ready for it to end), did I feel as intense about looking her in the eye while I fucked her friend from behind and her friend's husband fucking her from behind as she did (yes), did it turn her on to see her friend get off with me (embarrassed yes). It's always been the technical details about sex that get us to have better conversations about what we're actually doing and why. I thought it was going to be a much more delicate conversation than it actually was, and I was surprised by that.

Our front yard. Found this bird at a flea marked while traveling through Georgia last year.

No. And I don't think I'd want to either, IMO, it's not sexy or hot. Again, traditional swinger-clubs are historically female-centric and male/male sex or even a man taking a strap-on in his ass is not the norm. My guess is that most women would not be "offended" but I don't think they'd be interested either. The best analogy I can make is this: think of a swingers club like straight porn -- men getting pegged in the ass would be a different category or fetish porn. ?

I seem to recall a thread a while ago where a couple was entertaining swapping the wife out for a car. We've never done anything like that, but I do remember a very vivid sex dream about Mrs. E sucking off a manager for a discount. It's hot - in theory.

Birthday party? I think not! Ewwww. swingers!!!!!!! Be back in a minute, I'm off to close our garage door so we can get in the car to go buy some groceries ?

This is such an important statement for those new to the LS to hear and understand, as well as a refresher for veterans in the LS to remember. We are using this in our podcast so that others who are not on this message board can benefit from your knowledge. Thank you for sharing.

Reconnecting with your partner is the best part about the LS. It speaks to deep affection, honor,...and unbridled lust. Swinging enables and encourages couples to view their partners in an erotic light that is often extinguished by work, routine and so forth. Seeing ones partner as the object of others' attentions and desires -- and knowing that they are truly your partner--rejuvenates relationships in ways that vanillas cannot comprehend. Yes, the after-party sex with one's spouse is breathtaking in its intensity and duration.

We are both bi and it's a huge turn-on for me to see him suck a dick or get taken from behind. He was bi before I met him and I think it's great that he can be himself.

I was there to see hubby's first bi experience last year and it was such a HUGE turn-on. So when he is ready to fuck ass or be fucked, I would love to see that. Though it's more his fantasy rather than mine, from the time I witnessed his bi experience, I am not adverse to seeing him take it a step further if he chooses to do so. :-)