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My first time bi with my wife..... me her and my friend was playing strip poker.i lost the he lost lol he is sitting next to my wife in loveseat I'm across table . Hes naked with hardon. My wife is wearing short mini skirt no panties and I can see she is wet. So I tell her to suck his dick but she refused. So I get up walk over get on my knees and start sucking his cock. About 10 mins.later he is telling me he ready to cum so I stop we then get my wife and go to the bedroom and we both fuck her. We switching around I'll be fucking her while she sucks him . I end up cumming in her. Then he fucks her.. what a night

Well, technically we're not swingers; we haven't had a full (soft or hard) swap with anyone else, but we talk about it constantly; looking for the right couple and right time... adulting with little kids seems to be the biggest barrier at this time...

My wife and I are part of a closed group of married couples who play. During the week it's mostly twosome alone play and threesomes due to the press of business and family obligations. On weekends it's more couples swaps, although usually someone will stay out to watch the kids.

I honestly believe that he has done exactly that, I definitely would like to walk through the door he has opened and I agree that this is something that cannot be forced. When he first proposed the idea he just asked me to think about it and allowed me time to think and approach him when I had reached a decision..I had so many questions!!! he has been so very patient with me and has answered anything I throw at him I can say he has handled this very well with patience and love, the shortest response he has ever given me was "don't overthink it, you are in control" I found that odd at the time but the more I learn the more it makes sense to me.

So very true I hadn't thought of it in this capacity. It seems I still have a lot to learn!

And whatever you do, come back on Sunday and tell us the rest of the story!!

Like the rest, I'd be surprised if the night didn't end in a swap. To test that theory, at some point early in their visit, put your hand on the other wife's back, tell her she's looking good. If she smiles back, the game is on. If she jumps your bones right then and there, it's an even bigger clue . . .

Alcohol, if consumed in large quantities, will effect the viagra. Was told this by this forum and I conducted a thorough experiment in all scenarios. Doesnt mean you can't drink. You want to be level minded anyways. Drink at your own pace. I stopped caring about being a party pooper after high school. Again, level minded. As far as the possible topic at hand...it has already happened. You say it was influenced by the tequila and they offered to bring it. I would take that as they are thinking along the same lines as you. If after awhile if it hasnt been brought up, juat ask them "Anything you guys have on your mind for the night? " Open question that can go any direction... including the bedroom. I will also tell you to take this with a grain of salt. My wife and I are newbies in the LS as well, but, we have played a few times. Good luck, let us know how it goes!

First and foremost, thanks for reaching out to this community. You will find that it is the only LS community devoted to objective, non-judgmental conversation. about the LS. Jitters are normal. They are even more normal among introverts who are often uncomfortable even in vanilla social settings. When "my partner is dragging me into a social situation" is "amped" up to "my partner is dragging me into a potentially sexual situation", palms become sweaty, stomachs start to churn and so on. By all means, follow the advice above and have a preset exit strategy: that will give you confidence of a sort. You should not hesitate to use that strategy. However--and this may be difficult to wrap your head around--you might find that LS people are much easier to interact with. Many/most introverts/shy people feel uncomfortable around others because of childhood experiences. They were bullied, verbally or physically abused, ridiculed, excluded from cliques, whatever. Those experiences made it easier to retreat, and difficult to trust. Their marriage is a protected space, and they rely on their partner to 'run interference'--even at innocuous gatherings such as cocktail parties (and we have seen the behavior at PTA meetings as well). The interesting thing about LS people is that every one of us--and every one of our partners--has had to deal with the idea--and the reality --of vulnerability. Every one of us knows what it is like to be 'out there', thinking 'I might not be at all attracted to...." or, worse, "I might not be at all attractive to...", and worst of all, "s/he might see me for who I really am". As a consequence, LS people are among the most caring and supportive people we know. They do not judge. They do not criticize, they respect the idea of "no thank you, I'm not up for that". Intimate LS people refer to each other as "playmates". The emphasis in the compound word is on the fragment "play" over "mate". We invite you to go back in your memory to a time before you were wounded, when play--dressing up, imagining yourself as an ideal, splashing in a pool and having harmless fun left you feeling good about yourself and about the world, pleasantly fatigued, ready to rest, and looking forward to tomorrow. The LS is all about that--license for fantasy, intention for fun, even while setting some boundaries. For many--even most---adults, having fun with other people is something that is idealized on a screen and rarely experienced in day-to-day life. Sometimes its lack of time. More often, it's the vulnerability issue. You might find--as so many have--that simply being around LS people makes it easier to cast aside the vulnerability and enjoy others' company. It would be wrong to suggest that the LS is all "orgasms and roses". There are highs and lows, great dates and bad dates. It is nevertheless a journey with intent to share some pleasure and even find some joy in everyone around you smiling and laughing and playing. Give yourself an exit strategy. But don't deny yourself an entrance strategy. Let us know how it goes.

We were with our neighbor. There was a ton of sexual tension between my wife and him. We ended up drinking and flirting. He and I began rubbing her tits nd making out. She undressed for us and and started sucking our cocks. She sucked his cock while I fucked her from behind - his dick was perfect and a lot bigger than mine. I could tell she was totally into him so I invited him to switch with me. I got on my back nd had her straddle my face - i figured it would drive her wild to have be eating her while he pounded her with his big cock. She came very fast and I shot a load in her mouth. when she was ready he put his cock in her again. While he was fucking i just instinctively rubbed his shaft with my tongue. As he pulled out of her i took the head of his cock in my mouth. He went back and forth between my mouth and her pussy until he finally went balls deep in her and ejaculated. I sucked his balls and could feel his thick cock pulsing as he put his load in her. It was a first for all of us. My wife was so turned on by the whole experience. We laid around afterwards and she continued to kiss us and play with our cocks. I held his cock as she sucked him off - he came again. My wife masturbated watching him sucking my cock. We sat back nd jerked off together until we both shot another load. She continues to totally get off seeing me with another guy.