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We cancelled a lifestyle cruise to Australia and New Zealand recently. The entire cruise was later cancelled. We also switched from April Bliss 2020 to 2021. Since we are holed up in our bunker and not shaking hands, swinging is out of the question for us. We are over 60 and in a high risk category.

YES! We just cancelled out of a LifeStyle club visit -- including our hotel room -- for this coming weekend and we changed from next month's Bliss Cruise to the one in April of '21. We accepted a $500 re-booking penalty to move the cruise, so you know we're taking this *really* seriously. ?

There is only 8 confirmed cases in our province of Saskatchewan! They have already closed schools for the rest of the year and told people that can work from home to stay home. We have put our swinging life on hold for now, until things calm down. Although we are both healthy due to our clean eating habits and daily exercise it is not worth it to us to take a chance of getting it and spreading it to others around us that are not so healthy. Seems like a pretty selfish thing to risk other people’s health to get a little extra on the side.

We want to know all of the fun and sexy ways you are surviving the quarantine with your partner(s)! Share your sexy stories so we can all enjoy! Fox and I have taken a hike in a nearby nature reserve and had some fun on the trails... who knows what we might get into today! We will keep you posted.

We first 'got it' when we asked to have our coffee drinks put into our travel mugs. "Sorry, we can no longer do that, but we will put it in a paper cup and you can pour that into your mug." That was 2 1/2 weeks ago. Yesterday, no seating in the coffee shop, take out only. Just saw an old friend in the market, and she practically jumped away. Normally, we'd hug. So unless I've turned into a ghoul or look like a zombie?..nevermind I'll just chalk it up to the virus☠️, that feels better. Plus we have to rethink using our cards in those fancy point of sale readers. How many people have touched that today?

We never miss it. Of course, almost every day is a naked *something* day for us!

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By having more sex! We have opened a channel on Xvideos where we started sharing some videos. She really wants to know how many people would like to see her punished and forced into humiliating positions

We have had many group sessions over the years....the women that attend...wives, girlfriends and single ladies can play with and as often as they want until the men wear out. For attending gang bangs the Queen’s birthday bang had eleven players...men....most had her twice and some three times vaginally over about five hours.....and over 300 photos. She still had myself and her boyfriend in a more intimate threesome that night....each of us twice. She was very tired....exhausted....and slept for about ten hours over night into the next morning. Didn’t slow her down at all the next night. High level of excitement and lube helps a lot. State of mind. As there has been many more times of being worn out after just one, two or three men. Depends I guess.

Here is the story of our first threesome. It all started with our weekend vacation to San Francisco. We had an amazing day sight seeing and day drinking. We returned to our hotel slightly buzzed and proceeded to get ready for dinner. Before going out, I set her up with a vibrating panties. We went to an expensive seafood dinner and I continued to tease throughout the meal. At one point, she went to the bathroom and I accidentally left it on and she had her first orgasm of the night. After dinner, we had then gone to a bar to have after dinner cocktails. While at the bar, we ran into an old coworker I had worked with about 10 years ago. We all had a beer at the bar and he let us know how he was now a massage therapist. His appointment that evening had cancelled and already paid him for the session. We brought the party back to our hotel and continued to have another beer and played a game of pool. Since I had beaten him at pool, the bet was he had to give my wife a massage for free. My wife had complained about being really sore from previous weeks workout. Sure enough, our new friend met us at our hotel room with his massage table. He went to the bathroom to get ready while my wife striped down to her panties and got under the sheet. The massage started out like your standard massage and he started by giving her a very intense back massage. After He finished massaging my wife’s back, he pulled the sheet over her and started to massage her legs and hamstrings. He had used long strokes and massages my wife’s hamstrings and her butt, while she was still wearing panties. At one point, I asked her if she would like it if He would continue to massage her butt, and if it was ok if she took her panties off. She appeared really turned on and agreed and I helped her take her panties off. From there, our friend continued to massage her butt with long snow strokes and would occasionally brush her pussy. I could tell my wife was extremely turned on as she would moan softly every time he got close to her pussy. On the flip, He kept my wife draped with a sheet and had continued to massage the front of her legs. She again would continue to moan every time he got close to her sensual areas. I then motioned for him to massage her head and chest, eventually leading to her 34C breast. He continued to use long strokes while he massages my wife’s boobs and continues to her stomach. He then ran his hands over her shortly trimmed public hair and then brushed her clit. At this point; my wife was moaning very loudly and we could tell she wanted more. Our friend then continued to massage my wife’s clit and added some massage oil and started to finger her to her second orgasm of the night. My wife had her second and third orgasm while being fingered by our new friend. I then motioned for him to take of his pants and suggested my wife repay the favor. He quickly dropped his pants all the while continuing to massage my wife’s breast and pussy. I directed her had to our friend cock and she began jerking him off while he played with her pussy. At this time, I told my wife that she should fuck him. She asked me if it was ok and I told her I would like nothing better. We then took the party to our bed and I handed him a condom, which he happily put on. My wife started in doggy style and he slowly inserted his hard cock into my wife’s soaking wet pussy. Watching my wife fuck a new guy after almost 20 years is being together was the hottest moment in our sex life. He was fucking my wife doggy style while I made our with her. It seemed like she came another 2 times with this new cock in her pussy. She then rolled over onto her back and Will continued to have sex with her missionary. He rode her for a couple minutes until I interrupted them so I could have a turn inside her wet vagina. I then mounted her and felt her have another orgasm. He was standing by the edge of the bed and I pushed her toward him. He then entered her again for a few thrust, but it seemed like her was close to his own orgasm. He pulled out and licked my wife’s clit, until she came an additional 2 times. After 2 more orgasms, he inserted his hard cock into her pussy for a final time and blew his load in the condom. After he unloaded into the condom, I lied flat on the bed and my wife rode my cock for a couple minutes until we both came. I shot my load deep into her push and she rolled off of me, completely exhausted. She almost immediately passed out completely naked and my friend and I had laid next to her for a couple minutes before he got up, got dressed, and packed up his stuff. We talked briefly and he left us while she was passed out. I crawled back into bed and held my naked wife as we both passed out. I hope you enjoyed the story of our first threesome.

It has definitely evolved. Originally it was a lot of MFM threesomes with guys we knew. Then there were more strangers and the group sizes got bigger but I was always there whether I was participating or not. Then it evolved to her fucking guys in other rooms or places where I could hear or see via facetime or speakerphone and that became a whole new fun adventure for us. It's extremely erotic when I don't expect it too. Although at this point any time I see a video call request from one of my friends I just assume I'm going to see their cocks stuffed down my GF's throat.

IMO, it sounds like your wife wants to cheat - I'd guess she already has. I've seen these "set-ups" go very bad and it's all based on the aspect of human-nature, ie, the hunted and the hunter. It is MUCH easier for a woman to get a casual sex partner than it is for a man. Now, add to that, the rule-changes in the game since you last played -- it's "me-too" time brother -- you can easily jam yourself up trying to get some. It's gonna end up with her fucking her brains out while you're sitting home with your thumb up your ass. Doesn't sound like fun to me. ?

One of the many things I like about this forum is that you are not necessarily going to get the answers you want, but the answers you need to hear. With that spirit in mind, and understanding I am in no way meaning to convey any negativity against you or your wife; I feel the lack of discussion about what each of you doing or has done is a non-starter. There are very few couples that make this work, and for good reason. You are inexperienced in this lifestyle. You're basically giving each other a hall pass to go cheat, but with permission. Imagine the insecurities that can develop, the jealousy in wondering if the other has had sex with somebody recently? This is a very real possibility. Further, most swingers approach the lifestyle as a team; they rejoice in each other's successes, relish hearing about their experiences, and want the best for their spouses. Personally, I find it incredibly erotic for my wife to tell me about her escapades. This often happens in the context of us making love while she tells me about her evening out with another guy. NOT talking about it removes each other from that portion of each of your lives. It's exclusionary, and begins to build walls. This is not good, not good at all. There is also a very serious safety issue. You've said no sex in your home. This means your wife is going to be going off with guys somewhere not at home, and you won't know where or even why she is gone...or if she is gone if you're not at home and don't know she's out. Ok women go on dates all the time, but this is different. If you value your wife's security, then knowing where she is going and with whom is very important. My wife goes on many solo dates. But, I always know where she is going, even what room number at a hotel, and if I need to contact her she will answer the phone. Let's face it; there are some serious creeps out there that may take advantage of the situation and your wife will be at risk. Safety first. Also; the one and done rule plays against the safety issue as well. I feel considerably less comfortable if my wife goes off on a solo date for the first time with someone and I haven't met the guy. She has had a couple of long term boyfriends, and I've felt no qualms at all with her going off to have sex with them. I know she's safe and is going to have a good time. I'd find it less appealing for her to be going off on first time solo dates all the time. Also, as others have said, sex with someone gets better the more times you have sex with them. They learn your likes, dislikes, what feels good, what doesn't. For my wife's part, being able to play multiple times with a guy means that eventually she'll get to play with him without a condom. For her, it feels a lot better and she really enjoys men cumming inside of her, so it's better for her to have a partner with whom she's played many times. Also, this idea that she will play alone and so will you; be prepared that she would be getting a LOT more sex than you will. Finding men to play with a married woman is relatively easy. Finding women to play with a married man, not so much. For every 20 times she plays, you MIGHT play once. MIGHT. Would you be comfortable with that? To be brutally honest here; I'm seeing red flags pop up on this one. Playing alone when you're first getting into this is something that couples do (though it is uncommon), but I don't hear about it happening successfully with couples who don't talk about it. Communication is an absolutely critical key to success in swinging. The _lack_ of it will undermine where you want to go with this. I strongly, strongly advise against it.

This is different; Unlike those other things, Whole countries didn't shut down, as they have this week. All schools in Japan are closed: elementary, high schools, universities, daycares -- all closed. Italy has isolated its entire North. No weddings. No funerals (funerals!). They've stopped all Masses -- During Lent! -- in The most Catholic country in the World. The Italian industrial sector (for what it is) is effectively shut down, stopped. That's not journalism -- Yellow, left-wing, whatever -- that's what's required to stop this. This one is serious; not to be taken lightly. Monitor your temperature on a daily basis -- watch for unexplained elevated temperature. Wash your hands thoroughly and often. Don't touch your face.

We hit the strip club Treasures in Vegas on our way to vacation a few weeks ago. (Would not recommend, mediocre experience.) We won't be doing that kind of thing again for a bit or going to large, crowded gatherings with a large number of circulating new people generally. We'll certainly continue to see friends/playmates in largely unaffected areas, but we live close to an active outbreak and won't be socializing with people from that area for a while or traveling through terminals in that city. We're seriously assessing if we want to do anymore flying at all until this has shaken out, I expect that within a week or a month every hub airport is going to be pretty sketchy, hygiene-wise. I work close enough to this field to have a moderately informed opinion, feel free to ignore it: this certainly isn't the Spanish Flu, but outbreaks are placing a horrific burden on hospitals for equipment and personnel they often don't have. Taking some sensible steps beyond normal hygiene to modify your behavior to avoid spreading it is important right now until our system gets to where it needs to be to handle it, which may take a minute, and also is just considerate of the vulnerable and of first responders.

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I can say we have evolved. She has been open to playing with other women and we had a threesome with a woman friend. I never thought I would have a threesome with another man. Even if I watched her with another partner I always kept my distance. My wife had suggested we do a threesome with a man we met. I told her she could meet him alone and she said she wanted both of us. TBH I didn’t want to be close to a penis. I finally gave in. It was strange at first and turned out well.

Well endowed are nice to watch, but I don't really like the thought of having them inside me - either too thick or too long. Normally, I ride them, so that I know how much I want. My husband loves to watch me fuck, he is more into watching my body and facial reactions and knows when I am thrilled. So two weeks back, we went to a party place. Three men were willfully molesting me in the hot tub. While those three were busy with various body parts of mine, a BBC came about, sat on the ledge of the pool and announced himself as the Bull. He was both thick and long. He entered the pool and lifted me on to the central stand and gave me wonderful orgasm with his tongue. We then headed to the playroom, I took three of them, as the fourth seemed too aggressive. I let the other two guys do there job, while I sucked the bull. But the Bull was a raging Bull. He made me come multiple times with his tongue, and fucked me in every position - slow and leisurely and hard and fast. It was the first time I enjoyed a BBC with gay abandon, without worrying about whether it will hurt me. As always happens, my husband takes me last, because he is the only bare back I allow, and I love flooding at the end. So the bull came on my boobs and my husband shot his load in me. I know from the way my man was excited, that he had enjoyed watching me with the bull.

Sounds like this is one thing that's pretty much universal across the board. We were fortunate to have a little break in the middle of our first play session to take a shower. It was a good chance to talk privately and make sure neither of us secretly just wanted to go home, and to check that we didn't need to discuss any of our rules. After round 2, we just slept. The next morning? We fucked, worked out, talked about all the fucking over breakfast, went back to bed and fucked, talking about it over dinner, met our friends for drinks, ended up playing with them again, then fucking each other, then falling asleep and fucking again in the middle of the night... I haven't gotten to the "the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak" stage for a long time. To your question, a lot of our conversation was about things we'd seen but weren't completely sure what had happened. How did she feel about a woman going down on her (good, it wasn't as uncomfortable as it seemed in her imagination, but she prefers cock), did I really like watching her swallow someone else's cum as much as I told her I would (almost to a fetish level), was getting spitroasted the way she thought it would be (great, she wasn't ready for it to end), did I feel as intense about looking her in the eye while I fucked her friend from behind and her friend's husband fucking her from behind as she did (yes), did it turn her on to see her friend get off with me (embarrassed yes). It's always been the technical details about sex that get us to have better conversations about what we're actually doing and why. I thought it was going to be a much more delicate conversation than it actually was, and I was surprised by that.

Yeah we have a lot of sex too...I mean a ridiculous amount of sex...I mean like lot. But we also talk a lot of what we liked and didn't like. So no so much coffee, just kinda quieter times. Really part of the bonding fun. Never, really thought that much about it, but I would certainly guess it helps the bonding experience. Not really sure what you are having difficulty with? How do I ask what I liked?