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    It seems whatever you do, see or read today, the Coronavirus is the topic and fear. We aren’t shaking hands, we aren’t kissing Hello, we are wiping everything down with disinfectant wipes. We are told to be careful of crowds, transportation on crowded trains and even Uber’s. People are cancelling vacations and some won’t go to restaurants. All that and we still meet friends for swinging. Are we more afraid of this pandemic than STDs? Do we take more precautions now? We shouldn’t touch others unless it’s for sex. Just wondering if your plans have changed.
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    I started with a new boyfriend, who became my husband, all the while still seeing my ex-fiance Red with the knowledge of both. I introduced them early on and it was remarkably comfortable for all three of us. We started doing things together, so it became inevitable that I had sex with one while the other was around. Eventually, we would have an occasional threesome, and ultimately all move in together. But you need to be very aware of their sensitivities. The dynamic was/is such that hubby much prefers boyfriend go first because he gets excited and enjoys watching me have sex with Red pre-orgasm (not as much afterwards), then getting sloppy seconds. OTOH, Red likes me "fresh," doesn't get particularly excited watching me with hubby, and so typically leaves the room after we've finished and hubby is starting with me. There are other things too, like I've never had anal with hubby, but do with Red; who goes where when they're both in me at the same time, etc. If you find what each likes and all accommodate each other, it will be fine. (Now with our poly family, there are many other preferences on how we relate (including, but not just sexually) among the two guys, Clair, Lora, and me.)
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    Just wondering if those who thought Covid-19 was just a political thing, hoax, or just a liberal media thing now have changed your mind. Events are being cancelled, not just Liberal events and schools are being closed throughout the country. Offices are having employees work from home with entire commercial office buildings on lock down. We are all susceptible to contact with strangers. I am not in the demographic of many on here as far as age, yet I am very nervous.
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    This should be a real concern not because of news reports but because scientists say so. When the NIH and CDC doctors give reports that we should take precautions, I will listen to them over those who want to make political statements. I want to know why a congressman who made fun of the disease by wearing a gas mask to a vote on funding is now in quarantine. I will take the advice of real doctors not spin doctors. My husband travels and his company is now curtailing business travel. Italy is closed down. Israel is quarantining those entering the country. Ireland has cancelled St. Patrick’s Day celebrations. Do you think they are doing this because CNN is blowing this up? We have curtailed our playing for now. Most of my friends who play have agreed that now is not the time to take chances and my friends are not in the high risk demographic.
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    We don't have anything imminent on our swinging calendar, so sort of a hypothetical for us. Good question though, and I don't really know what our answer would be. I think it would depend on the situation. Meeting up with some old friends - absolutely no problem. Meeting some potential new friends for drinks/dinner - not really a problem. Visiting a swingers club - probably a no on that right now, can do that anytime. Put that club in a city where there is already confirmed case(s), then definite no. Swingers cruise - if we won some sort of swinger lottery and someone gave us free tickets, thanks but no thanks. If we had laid out a whole bunch of money and bought the tickets months ago, and there was no way to cancel without losing all the money, then that would be a dilemma. If we had the option to cancel with a cancellation fee, then yes, that's probably what we would do. I suspect just like other travel/leisure businesses, some clubs are seeing a dropoff in business, but nothing too extreme yet. Swingers are probably like most other people, just in sort of a holding pattern of waiting and watching to see where this thing is going to go. Maybe have made a few adjustments, but not in full lockdown mode yet either.
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    The first time she was with someone bigger than me she was really enjoying, but it didn’t bother me until his wife said to me that he was going to ruin her for me. I thought that was a rude thing to say. I’m not in this lifestyle to compete with anyone and I can satisfy my wife thank you very much! Lol Anyway she doesn’t get upset when I enjoy someone with bigger tits than hers, so why should I get upset if she likes someone with a bigger cock than mine? That’s kind of the fun of it being with someone that isn’t the same as your partner.
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