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When I was a young cop, my partner on the job took a weekend and went with his g/f to Platos in NYC. He came back and told me all about their experiences (you talk about all kinds of stuff on midnight shifts) and he suggested my wife and I go with them some weekend. I mentioned it to my wife at the time but her religious upbringing prohibited her from even giving it a 2nd thought. Other than one very hot night on our honeymoon several years before, she would never entertain a suggestion to expand our sex life. So we never went. I occasionally would broach the subject with her but was stonewalled every time. 20 years later, I was dating Mrs Doc when we saw a tv news expose about Club Khama Sutra on South St in Philly. We checked and found CKS and about 4 other clubs we all within about an hours drive from our home. We talked about it for a week or so and then went to TJ's near Harrisburg. We were hooked. Within 2 months, we'd visited all four of the close clubs and then started to really expand our sexual horizons. By the time we got married 2 years later, there was no question that we would honeymoon at Desire.

No reason to be self-conscious. Your SO should be happy that you have a boyfriend whose libido matches yours and can take care of you. We started with my boyfriend Red living a few houses away, then moving in, now we have what my husband David calls "our compound," it's a big house with a guest house that is Red's, now connected by a breezeway. Mostly because Red is a creative type that has always worked from home, while David, Lora, Clair (before she became our full-time, stay-at-home mom), and I have corporate office jobs. Although Red used to spend more nonworking hours there, since the kids he's with us all the time now. David and Red have totally different personalities and values as well, but they get along perfectly, like they appreciate the ying/yang thing of each other. They share not only us women between them (so much for male jealousy), but things like tools, electronics, their cars. The guy I call my "boyfriend" now, Red, was my fiance with whom I broke off the engagement but never broke off the relationship, sexual or otherwise. (He is a "creative" type who I though would never make much money and wouldn't make a suitable partner; ultimately, I was wrong about both.) David is the guy I met shortly thereafter, started dating and starting having sex with. He was totally relaxed with me still seeing (and yes, fucking) Red and asked me to marry him, which I did. My Lesbian side and Clair and Lora joining s came later.

I'm kinda fond of the dark nipples too. Haven't ever seen the reverse with light nipples on darker skin. Mrs. cplnuswing spends a lot of time nude around the pool in the summer, and we both like how her nipples darken by the end of the summer :) Every bit of her gets tanned (she uses sunscreen, just wanted to mention that before someone chimed in about it), so it's not just the nipples, but they do get darker than the rest of her.

Ditch the 'one and done' rule. Sexual experiences improve with repeat performances. Partners learn each others wants and wishes and develop trust and comfort over time. And, frankly - the one and done rule heavily favors the men. They are going to get off, guaranteed. First time for ladies, much lower percentage.