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I should have added that the above picture was taken just after someone had "boinked" the bride. He did well too, look how relaxed she is! Boink the bride/blow the groom was pretty much the over riding theme of our honeymoon! We've been married since 2007 and we still talk about that week.

I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding nights. Only three of them were my brides. ☺️

When I was a young cop, my partner on the job took a weekend and went with his g/f to Platos in NYC. He came back and told me all about their experiences (you talk about all kinds of stuff on midnight shifts) and he suggested my wife and I go with them some weekend. I mentioned it to my wife at the time but her religious upbringing prohibited her from even giving it a 2nd thought. Other than one very hot night on our honeymoon several years before, she would never entertain a suggestion to expand our sex life. So we never went. I occasionally would broach the subject with her but was stonewalled every time. 20 years later, I was dating Mrs Doc when we saw a tv news expose about Club Khama Sutra on South St in Philly. We checked and found CKS and about 4 other clubs we all within about an hours drive from our home. We talked about it for a week or so and then went to TJ's near Harrisburg. We were hooked. Within 2 months, we'd visited all four of the close clubs and then started to really expand our sexual horizons. By the time we got married 2 years later, there was no question that we would honeymoon at Desire.

YES! We just cancelled out of a LifeStyle club visit -- including our hotel room -- for this coming weekend and we changed from next month's Bliss Cruise to the one in April of '21. We accepted a $500 re-booking penalty to move the cruise, so you know we're taking this *really* seriously. ?

50% pregnant, 50% divorced.

I predict that there will be a baby boom nine months from now.

Just an observation and thought. But aren’t you precisely what we fear most in this, the judgmental public. What makes you think this lady and her husband would be embarrassed or ashamed of their activity? Maybe they are, maybe not. That, however, isn’t the question at hand. You’re skating on thin ice to even discuss sexual matters with a coworker. It’s even worse if you are in a supervisory position. Don’t overthink this. In the OP, you said this couple merely glanced at your profile. You’re not interested in them, and they didn’t express any interest in you. This is a case of two ships passing in the night. She doesn’t know it was your profile, so you have nothing to explain.

Our preferred form of play is a group/house party with primarily our known friends (mostly couples). If you want one partner it's there. If you want multiple partners, it's there. You can, but do not need to couple swap. Something for everyone. If there are folks you don't vibe with - you can work around it. And since you already know at least most of the people you are at ease.

Yes the word discreet is over used and unnecessary! We have not meet anyone in the lifestyle yet that doesn’t want to keep this part of their life private. HWP does not bother us, because that is our preferred option for play friends in general. Anything on a profile related to cock size is a pass for us! BBC, BWC or anything else that says something about your spectacular penis. Could give a fuck less. Doesn’t make someone attractive in anyway for her. Does the opposite. We are an attractive couple and we are professionals are also on our list of annoying things on profiles. Also if they have drug free on their profile we avoid, because we are not and even in today’s society pot seems to make a lot of people uptight. We don’t like being around uptight people.

Is this a chicken or the egg question. Desire first, but arousal comes close behind it.

The biggest changes for us (our poly family - two men, three women, kids) are working from home. We are driving one another a little crazy, but having Clair as our stay-at-home mom and putting her in charge helps. Going outdoors to run and cycle helps us all a lot since the gyms and pools are closed. From the sex standpoint, we are having a lot of daytime/mid-day sex. Turns out the guys can't get through the day without a quickie or two since Clair, Lora and I are right at hand. They say that they can concentrate better afterwards. I even did a quickie doggy leaning on my desk as a conference call was going on. (The video was slides/shared screen, but still, I had tape over my camera. (But the audio wasn't muted. ))

Sex is entertainment. We have both gone to movies with other people.

I guess you could say I'm spoiled. After 19 years with the Mrs. (who has large labia and a large clit) sometimes while swinging I've found a clit so small its almost not noticable. I love going down, and with some women being of the quiet type, it is a little uncomfortable when your not sure if your finding the right spot. You see, the mrs. does not only have large labia and clit, she's also quite the moaner (as discussed in another post) so it is easy to know when you've gotten it right without asking.