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That's sort of the way it started with us. I'm a pretty horny guy, but women are capable of having many more orgasms than men and don't need something physically demanding like an erection to do it. So I was glad for her to get the extra she needed (maybe not "needed," but extra sex she certainly could handle while still giving me all that I could do.) And it wasn't just quantity, it was the variety she enjoyed as well, us doing MFMs and her starting serious girl-on-girl play. BUT, now we do couples' swaps for two reasons: she wants me to have fun too and more selfishly, she likes the buzz of knowing and seeing me fucking other women. (Watching your spouse getting laid is not just a guy thing.)

But if they were, you can be certain that their backswing was excellent.

Brides were serial, not simultaneous. ☺️ First one was ten years, second one seven years and most recent one 30 years and counting. ? I’m optimistic that with this one “Till death do us part” will be literal and not simply notional. None of my three spouses had sex with anyone else on our wedding nights, but then again we didn’t attend swinger parties in the evening of our nuptials. My first wife did have (non-penetrative) sex with the then husband of my current spouse while I was in the same room playing with my current wife. But that was a one-off event, more than 40 years ago and there was no follow-up with current wife for about a dozen years (during which I had a whole second marriage, the wedding for which my current wife attended. Is this sufficiently complicated?) My first marriage was casually but consensually non-monogamous. We talked about swinging, but in those days there wasn’t the current social infrastructure to facilitate it. We both thought it might be fun, but our lives were quite busy (she was a medical student) and we weren’t sufficiently committed to the notion to follow through. Early on in our relationship my second wife hinted at interest in swinging, but at that point I didn’t have much interest. My current wife identifies as bi, but isn’t interested in casual sex and doesn’t believe she could manage a polyamorous lifestyle. (“If I fall in love with someone else and start having sex with them, it’s going to be bad news for you.” Okay, got it!) Thankfully, she is a generous and non-jealous soul and okay with me pursuing my variety of sexual interests, as long as the relationships remain casual. And as long as I always keep her fully informed. Which I do. So, no, none of my wives had sex with anyone else on our respective wedding nights. But I will note that watching my first wife with current wife’s then husband remains one of the most compelling sexual experiences of my life. My wife is well aware that I would be more than eager to bring a third of either gender — or a couple — into our bed. I most often play with couples, mostly committed ones. I see how avidly the men tend to watch while their women and I engage, and I am just a little jealous. I would love to watch my own wife in that same situation. And she knows if she ever changes her mind I will do whatever I can to facilitate. Even if she wants the privacy of a one-on-one.

Just wondering if those who thought Covid-19 was just a political thing, hoax, or just a liberal media thing now have changed your mind. Events are being cancelled, not just Liberal events and schools are being closed throughout the country. Offices are having employees work from home with entire commercial office buildings on lock down. We are all susceptible to contact with strangers. I am not in the demographic of many on here as far as age, yet I am very nervous.

This should be a real concern not because of news reports but because scientists say so. When the NIH and CDC doctors give reports that we should take precautions, I will listen to them over those who want to make political statements. I want to know why a congressman who made fun of the disease by wearing a gas mask to a vote on funding is now in quarantine. I will take the advice of real doctors not spin doctors. My husband travels and his company is now curtailing business travel. Italy is closed down. Israel is quarantining those entering the country. Ireland has cancelled St. Patrick’s Day celebrations. Do you think they are doing this because CNN is blowing this up? We have curtailed our playing for now. Most of my friends who play have agreed that now is not the time to take chances and my friends are not in the high risk demographic.