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While humans have remarkably short memories (anyone remember the Australia fires? precisely how the impeachment trial ended in the Senate? ) they can change behaviors and those changes take about 6 months to stick. For anyone who watches the annual cycle at the local fitness center, it's absolutely reproducible. Starting Thanksgiving and peaking the second day of work after New Year's ("wow--gained a few pounds over the holiday, didn't you Bob?") the "resolution people" turn up at the fitness center like the swallows returning to San Juan Capistrano. By the Ides of March, half are gone. By Memorial Day, 90% are gone and those who have stuck it out will be regulars more or less forever unless some strong force (illness, a move, job loss) interferes. We are only about 5 weeks into intense social distancing so there's still a high likelihood of reverting to the old ways. But the longer we are under imposed social distancing, the more likely it is that new behaviors will stick as social norms.

There are two powerful truths here. 1. People are terrified of even routine vanilla social contact. A single cough or sneeze (and this is pollen season) draws unwanted attention. Getting past that alone is going to require a fundamental change in risk perception and management. If a handshake is perceived as risky, and a simple hug riskier, where does that leave 'ordinary' lifestyle contact? 2. At some point people will realize that a vaccine against SARS-CoV-2 (and that will be a while) does not address the "unknown unknown" next pathogen. That might be suppressed, but I do not think it will be forgotten unless we get to an HIV situation where the infection itself can be reliably managed so that no one dies and it is no more than a 'bad cold'.

Yes, but. The drive to do something exciting only gets more powerful when people are stressed and bored, and It won't be long before we're no longer so worried about who has it now, and more worried about what we can do for fun without rapidly reintroducing it. 80% of what people have been doing in recent years is going to be problematic, which leaves the other 20% of things for people to get all their social and sexual energy out. Purely anecdotal, but we both put up Tinder accounts with faceless pictures. Our descriptions are clear that we're a happy couple and just being social to stave off boredom. Turns out, so is everybody else. The 100-mile radius is flooded with married couples and stressed-out nurses who need an outlet to sext and swap nudes because they can't go out and flirt anymore.

For us, we'll start again once the country gets back up and running and we're fairly confident that Wuhan has run its course and the worst is over. We intend to be tested for the antibodies in hopes of determining whether we're immune. Neither of us have been sick since late February. We've always been very careful who we play with and will likely limit ourselves initially to couples who we trust implicitly and intimately. Until there is some kind of herd immunity, a vaccine or pretty solid evidence that the danger has largely passed I doubt swingers clubs or large M&G's will be able to operate successfully so for the time being, we'll still be very careful about proximity and large groups. This is the first time since we started swinging in 2003 that we've gone more than 2 months without lifestyle activity of any kind. While we have an active, playful and satisfying love life at home, we're both missing the variety and the eroticism of getting naked and sharing with friends.

Sadly, I don't expect that we're going to be told that's safe anytime soon. The good news is that once this has largely been swept out of our communities through the shutdowns, it should stay at a low level with ongoing new practices. People may not be congregating in large numbers in close settings, but I'm sure the interest in small gatherings will be higher. I also suspect more people are going to be interested in finding new outlets for fun altogether, and that might include a new wave of interest in group sex from the vanilla crowd.

I started my husband with my fingers and he soon graduated to a strap on and he loved it. He says if I had real cock I would fuck 5 times a day! I agree. Next we had a threesome with a guy and I sucked them and rubbed their cocks together and he sucked the other guy with me and we swallowed his load! The next time with him he fucked my hubby and I sucked him as our stud came in his ass he had an orgasm. Now he can’t get enough cock and it so turns me on!

My husband is usually the top but last week I got to finally watch him get taken. I watched while another guy was inside me. The guy was definitely bigger than average so it took a bit of time to get inside him. When my husband got fully erect I took him in my mouth. He came very quickly and so did I - absolutely amazing experience for us. Afterwards he said the guys penis hitbhis p-spot perfectly.

OMGosh I would have sooo stayed in the room and gotten myself off multiple times! I can't imagine walking out on that, darn girl you must have wanted to get "freaky" or something to leave THAT. As for your husband not getting there any time soon, I feel you. It has taken years to get my husband comfortable with my fantasies of having him suck a guy, let a guy cum in his mouth, and do him anally as well as cum in him. Now when I talk about it, he gets hard, leaks like mad, and I can do him royally up his anal hole as well as feed him all the cum I can get out of him in a day. I have been writing this lovely bi man who we may eventually hook up with and see how it goes. I had him so turned on earlier today that I believe if I had three guys in waiting my hubby would still be going at it as I type this.

My wife loves to see guys sucking cock, and loves it when I am getting sucked or I am sucking!

My wife was with me the first time a man sucked my cock, the first time I sucked a cock, the first time I swallowed a load of cum, and the first time I got fucked in the ass. She loves to watch me with a bi male. By the time we're ready to cum, so is she! I loved to watch her play with her pussy and cum while I swallow a load! It's a family tradition!

Big turn-on having the wife watch me blow her husband. My favorite is when I'm sucking a "bi virgin" for the first time. Normally they're nervous & the minute my tongue is working that shaft &balls, they begin to relax. One guy kept saying "fuck I can't believe I'm getting blown by a dude...it feels so fucking good"...which made me work even harder & he busted semi quick. Another guy's wife got so horny while he was getting blown, she made me sit on it & ride him

My ex-wife use to really get off watching me suck another guys dick but would have ran out of the room had he and I gone any farther. I've often wanted to fuck another guy while his wife or mine watched but not so sure I'd allow anyone to fuck me. My current wife, while still holding out from the swinging scene, has said she'd get off watching me blow another guy but it has yet to happen.

Yummy. I love watching gay porn, makes me SO wet. My husband has sucked and been sucked. He isn't bi at all - just open minded about what feels good. Lately he's been talking a lot about wanting to get fucked in the ass by a real cock (and not just me with a strap-on LOL). I hope we can make this fantasy of his come true!! MY fantasy is for him to fuck me while he's getting fucked in the ass. Talk about orgasm!!!! Lol

It turns me on to see two guys fucking on video, but I've never seen it in real life. I've also never inserted Pet into that fantasy because I know it's something he would never do. Now, if he ever fulfilled my fantasy of seeing him suck a dick... then my new fantasy might be to see him fucking another guy.