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Ha! Usually that's a compliment in these posts.

You both need to decide what you will do as a couple. You've started talking, keep talking. Always remember, if one person is hesitant about something, the other person should respect that. It doesn't mean you have to stop talking about it, but there should be absolutely no pressure on either of you. A wonderful resource to define your desires and to get conversations started is the mojoupgrade.com quiz. You both answer questions about sexual topics and activities you'd be interested in, and the app matches where you are compatible. Best of luck, keep asking questions. That's what we're here for.

I'm not surprised that I feel comfortable being nonmonogamous, I had thoughts of having more than one partner even before puberty. What surprises me is that I found others who think similarly and we've managed to pull it off.

You are absolutely right!