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And be patient! Very few swingers we've met just jumped in deep end. Not to sound trite but for us and most couples we know, swinging was a long and leisurely journey with a lot of stops and starts along the way. The key is to share the trip together and savor each new experience. We started in 2003 and until Wuhan locked everybody inside, we have continued to have fun and share new things together.

I agree, focus on the things where there is overlap between the two of you. Try those and see how it goes. If it goes well, there will likely be growth from there into other things. If it doesn't go well, then that to some extent counteracts any resentment, jealousy, etc. that can harm the relationship. Those things can still happen, but they are going to be much easier to work through if they resulted from something that you did together rather something that just one did apart.

I have been attracted to small-breasted women and have found that most of them wish for bigger breasts. Not sure of all the reasons, but a lot of it seems to involve the way clothes fit and look, not so they can please a partner. They seem to know that men will appreciate whatever they get! After all, we are simple creatures.

BTW - I would suggest that it's only "cuckold" if he is forced, or demeaned / humiliated.

You both need to decide what you will do as a couple. You've started talking, keep talking. Always remember, if one person is hesitant about something, the other person should respect that. It doesn't mean you have to stop talking about it, but there should be absolutely no pressure on either of you. A wonderful resource to define your desires and to get conversations started is the mojoupgrade.com quiz. You both answer questions about sexual topics and activities you'd be interested in, and the app matches where you are compatible. Best of luck, keep asking questions. That's what we're here for.

That's the way it is with us. We women in our family have a strong Lesbian side and going down on one another after David or hubby has ejaculated inside is a double treat.

Idaho, my dick is actually 11 inches. 8 1/2 is too small for my wife!

Ensure? No. Try Yes. You did you are in the clear. I am one of those guys that take a long time. I also really enjoy foreplay in which I am the active partner. There are many occasions is which the lady has had 3-4 orgasms before I take any action at all. I am thoroughly aroused by the foreplay, but I take a long time, especially if my wife and I have had a session previously that day. This is good from the standpoint my "staying power" is the best that it has ever been, but there are times when i feel I am wearing out her jaws or whatever she is using.Then I have to tell the lady it is not going to happen and that I am quite content with the attention that I have received. If later on I do get in the groove again , my wife is always happy to oblige. She does tell me though that I should soldier on through with the other ladies as, she says, they get the same sense of accomplishment as a guy does when their partner gets off. So again you do not owe any one. For him to demand was rude. Pity because it could have been complimentary if he had handled it correctly.

First time she was with a well endowed man...she was with ME!!! Ye haw you know what I'm talkin about!!! (to be honest I am just an average guy but I had to put out the wise guy answer just because I know there are guys who said that very thing to themselves )