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I "played" using a cam at the specific request of a female acquaintance. I inadvertently shot cum onto the keyboard and disabled it. Never again did a Web cam.

Yes, we have, we use a logitech c920 when we do. Because our state is in lockdown and we're not taking chances. How are you successful at it? Success measured how? Not trying to be a smarta$$, but in connecting/finding another user/satisfying? What 'itch' of yours does it 'scratch.' Adults being adults, mostly.... Secondly, tell us about the setup you use. What camera, what other hardware, what software, what website, etc.101 Logitech C920 with audio/video capabilities. No additional hardware. Web based software, Zoom, SLS and others. Do you experience glitches sometimes, and if so, what do you do about it? Sometimes get disconnected, Camera and software pretty stable. Usually restart solves most problems. Please note that there is software that can and will record the video/audio stream just like posting pictures. If you don't want your video all over the interwebs, be careful what and how much you show. There are people who pretend to be a couple for the sole purpose of capturing video. Asking them to do something on camera that isn't a normal action, like holding up a number of fingers can let you know if they are live or a video. Be smart,

Welcome to the Swingers Board. We're from Illinois too, and hope you find your exploration fun and productive. We would stress that this is a team effort, based on our experience that what one might find as interesting/unique/fun the other could be totally bored. Communication is important, but there's several things that might happen and it not be relatable if only one of you participate. Note also that singles, especially males, are treated slightly differently than couples, therefore your experience might be different than what you would and could expect as a couple. Have fun and enjoy your time with SB....

Langtown, would you please add to your post? First of all, why do you do it? How are you successful at it? What 'itch' of yours does it 'scratch.' Secondly, tell us about the setup you use. What camera, what other hardware, what software, what website, etc. Do you experience glitches sometimes, and if so, what do you do about it? You have expertise that the rest of us would love you to share.

Idaho, my dick is actually 11 inches. 8 1/2 is too small for my wife!

In reading through profiles on SLS, erotic stories and the like, it seems that every woman is large busted. Do the men that post the couples think all other men are only attracted to women with huge racks? I've been in the LifeStyle for many years, had lots of fun with women of all breast sizes. My wife, Mary, is a 34B (when she finds a bra that fits her that is marked 34C, she gives a whoop of joy!) Why oh why do people feel it's necessary to advertise women as being big-breasted?

Are you saying that you have a standard letter-size dick? If so, I have a standard legal-size (17 inches tall and 11 inches wide).

I use Trimix (injection into the penis) to help me get hard. Now this keeps me hard for 60-90 minutes even after I cum, but I usually cannot cum a second time (at least not easily). On the last Bliss Cruise (I hope it was not THE last Bliss Cruise) I was with a woman shortly after having cum with another lady. She came while riding me and it was obvious to me I was not cumming again. I told her exactly the situation, she understood and wanted to get together later in the cruise. When we did we both had a wonderful time and both had orgasms. Even if she had not wanted to meet a second time, I would have had no regrets. On another occasion (different woman) during the cruise I was taking a long time (she had come multiple times with me and her husband) and I asked the woman if she was getting tired. She said yes, so we stopped intercourse and she finished me off with her hands. If we had stopped everything at that point, I would still have had a fantastic time seeing her respond to me and her husband. So short answer is he had no right to say that you had to have more sex with him. Good riddance and hopefully his wife set him straight (what would he have done if your husband had treated his wife that way?) Best wishes, Mick

You know we pretty much do the same thing. I do the research and Mrs Idaho makes the final decision. Please don't go alone. We think of swinging as a team sport. IMO in the beginning everything should be done together. I also agree with everyone in that you guys need to decide what/how/where etc that you both want.

A friend of mine said if you go to a picnic, you have to bring your own ham sandwich. If you go to a swingers’ resort, you can’t go by yourself to check it out. It’s not a zoo. If your wife doesn’t want to go, don’t go. Keep in mind neither of you have to swing. But you get closer to knowing if you want to.

Concur with everyone. Do not know where you are from, but a good low risk starter if you can “swing” it financially is to go to a lifestyle friendly resort like Caliente or Paradise Lakes in Florida or Desire in Mexico. You can meet swingers, be “exposed” to it and see if you are comfortable with it. Go as fast as your slowest partner. Some people just watch, some people are soft swap (I interpret as oral sex with others) or full swap ( intercourse). We started soft, later went full. Do what is best for both of you. Sorry you are starting at such an inopportune time. Things used to be more fun and they will be again.

It is pointless to go by yourself to a swingers club or resort. Do you have any idea how many swinging dicks there are out there who think swinging is their key to NSA sex with someone elses wife? If you're serious about exploring this hobby then do so WITH YOUR WIFE. Swingers clubs and resorts have websites. They have pictures and descriptions. Swingers websites have pictures and descriptions. Buy a membership, explore the possibilities WITH YOUR WIFE. This is the 21st century, you can find damned anything you need to know on the internet. Explore it WITH YOUR WIFE! Oh, and re-read the posts in answer to your initial query. Did anyone suggest that the best way for you to acquire information on swinging was to go off on your own???

We need some young, tech savvy members.

She often does not cum when swinging. Sometimes guys keep trying, and she has to tell them "It is OK". Sex is about far more than cumming.

Yes we do play on cam.