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We are hesitant to play on cam. Do not want to wind up on Pornhub in the old and inept section.

Naked gardening a bust, at least here in Northern Cal. weather didn't cooperate, so I'm declaring an extension, due to Covid-19. Tomorrow is still naked Gardening Day! I did get out for a few minutes, but then I realized, another horrible result of Covid-19, lots of neighbors home as well. Not the same level of privacy I'm used to. Drat! We'll one women got what I hope was a treat as I flashed her Full Frontal. Didn't hear any screams so I guess I'm good to go, but I'm not into embarrassing others. Onward, tomorrow is supposed to be a nicer day ☀️?

Not really an option right now, but really nothing is other than something online, but once things get back going one thing you will for sure find close to home, and something low key and no pressure, would be to attend an off-premise meet and greet together. Easiest way to find these would be joining one of the online sites like swinglifestyle. You should find event listings for your area, and they are nothing more than swingers gathering together at a bar or restaurant to socialize. No sex, no nudity, just people gathering to socialize. You'll be able to pick up on the vibe though and have the opportunity to talk to other swingers and get a feel for what this is all about. Same rule is going to apply though, if you attend by yourself you are going to be looked upon with suspicion. A lot of them are couples only too, and you for sure do not want to represent yourself to the organizers as a couple and then just you show up, that will be a quick way to get black balled. See how that goes and then if it goes okay, then next step would be to attend a social, again, find them on swinglifestyle, etc. These are still off-premise, so no sex, but since the organizer usually rents a hall or banquet room at a hotel and access is restricted, then things can be a little sexier with what people are wearing, dirty dancing, etc.

I just discussed this Mrs Idaho and we are both kinda uncomfortable with playing on cam TBH we have only zoom'ed with family and only since the earth stopped turning. I guess we are not of the digital generation. We would video chat with couples we knew and even flirt. But like watch or be watched.....not really comfortable with that. Which is unbelievably stupid because we LIKE doing that in person ?.

Welcome to the Swingers Board. We're from Illinois too, and hope you find your exploration fun and productive. We would stress that this is a team effort, based on our experience that what one might find as interesting/unique/fun the other could be totally bored. Communication is important, but there's several things that might happen and it not be relatable if only one of you participate. Note also that singles, especially males, are treated slightly differently than couples, therefore your experience might be different than what you would and could expect as a couple. Have fun and enjoy your time with SB....

And be patient! Very few swingers we've met just jumped in deep end. Not to sound trite but for us and most couples we know, swinging was a long and leisurely journey with a lot of stops and starts along the way. The key is to share the trip together and savor each new experience. We started in 2003 and until Wuhan locked everybody inside, we have continued to have fun and share new things together.

After a threesome with a mutual friend and we were bareback and he did finish in her I had a dream (very realistic) that she was pregnant.

Excellent observations. Nice analogies.