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True, and you see that in Third World, poorer countries even before all this. People in jobs with absolutely no safety protocols, riding the entire family on a motor scooter through chaotic traffic, no pollution or environmental standards. If you don't know where your next meal is coming from you're not to concerned about the danger in your job or the potential for getting cancer in the long run. We on the 'Board, however, are fortunately not in that position and don't need to take unnecessary risks. I just don't only like and want sex, I need sex to maintain my sanity and life balance, but realize that the variety is not as wide as it would otherwise be. Just as some groceries are unavailable.

We are over 60 as well and we would like the decision to go to a club or the gym or get a haircut to be OUR decision. To be honest, we would not have made the trip to Trapeze this weekend and would likely wait another month or so to do so but we think that those who wish to go to a private club for consenting adults should not be deprived of that choice.

We cannot, as a society, cower while a disease is out there that is less of a threat that measles used to be. Our grandparents got up, went out, and made things function. I don't think these people "have a problem". They have a different level of risk tolerance. Calling that a problem is needlessly pejorative. It may not make you comfortable, but that is not a reason to say there is something wrong with the other person.

Way back when, I decided that I was going to the the language, style, spelling, and grammar policeman for Swingersboard. Did not work well. I resigned.

Menages in Nashville sent out a similar survey, don't know what the results were though. The difference was the last question was about taking member's temperatures before they were allowed in. Honestly, I find even the idea of masks in a swingers club totally comical. I mean seriously people, masks in the playroom? ? Maybe you could line it with saran wrap and then have a dental dam for STD protection AND Covid-19 protection. (note to anybody who steals that idea and makes a fortune off of it - you heard it at the Swingers Board first and we expect royalties ) Couplers makes an excellent point - we have worked all of our lives, made good decisions, and acted responsibly so we're in a place we don't need to take any unnecessary risks. I don't call that cowering, I call that the payoff for having been smart and responsible. If it's a case where someone feels like they have to take that risk, then I would say yes, they do have a problem. Not really an individual problem, but a problem with the relationship if it can't survive without swinging. Take the virus thing out of the equation, and there are lots of threads here where with nearly unanimous consent that has been told to people - if you HAVE to swing, that's a pretty good sign there's something else you need to be working on.

We are over 60 years old. I think that we have a different perspective. I have heard that herd immunity would result in 1-2 million deaths. Is that a worthwhile price? They tried herd immunity in Sweden. They need to get to 50-70% infected. They are at 7.5% infected, with more per capita deaths than their neighboring countries. Hopeful for a vaccine. I don’t think that there are any good answers.

My girlfriend loves that. We use to have foursomes with another close couple and because my gf was on the pill (but her friend wasn't) we would both cum in her pussy back to back/ sloppy seconds towards when it was time to cum, and her friend would eat it out and lick her and she loved it. If he had to cum and I was having sex with her Id pull out and he would stop having sex with his gf, take the condom off, stick it in, pound for a few seconds and shoot it, then Id go back at it. She loved it. Since then they broke up but me and my friend continue to have threesomes with my gf lol. Usually we just take turns and cum in her and keep it simple. Now she wants me to lay under her and lick her clit while he nuts off inside her and then she likes to immediately sit on my face and lick her pussy after. It does turn me on seeing his dick explode inside her and all the cum drip out.

How long can you hold your breath?

You're angry at the guy but it really has little to do with him. He was a casual F/B who was also a bit of a flake, but the reason you got pregnant is that you used Plan B and it didn't work. You also kept putting off dealing with the problem until it grew into a bigger problem and the reason you had the abortion was because you didn't want his baby. Please understand that none of this makes you, your fiancé or the flakey F/B a bad person. Life is important but quality of life is important too. You were perceptive enough to realise that there would be difficulties with loving this baby. All life is eternal. We appear in and disappear from the 3 dimensional realm endlessly. I suggest you go to a quiet place and tell the baby that you are sorry that you were not able to give her/him the love that would be needed but sincerely wish her/him that when she/he next comes into the world that it is to a place full of love. Then say this magical phrase as many times as you wish: "I'm sorry, please forgive me, I love you, thank you," and forgive YOURSELF. Best wishes and much love to you. 54321

I don't see why friendships can't survive Swinging. Laura and I had a Meet Up! here in Tulsa years ago. Of the attendees, (from all over the Country) I'm still friends with at least four of the men and five of the women. One old friend, whom I've known since 1973 or 1974 (depending on whether one trusts his memory or mine) is coming for a social-distancing visit this weekend. I retired from swinging when Laura died.

Trapeze Florida has just announced they will not be opening as planned. Atlanta will be open Friday night.

I got the email from Collete and I read the process they're going through to keep you "safe". And all the things they will be using disinfectant on..... come on disinfecting the computer after every use? Jesus plez us I'm going to potentially put my dick in you, will we be wearing scuba gear? What about the asymptomatic people? I guess what they say is true: a horny dick has no conscious. ?

"Wife is unsecure with her body" I clicked on this post to see if you mean "unsecure." I believe you mean "insecure," rather than the possibility that her body being stolen away.

Will be a great story for CNN or TMZ. One asymptomatic swinger infects 100 others.

First how long have you been here at what information have you gained? If your wife isn’t ready then she isn’t ready. Her body might just be an excuse. People say I’m crazy when I complain about my own body. I think every woman thinks her body isn’t what she wants it to be. If you ever went to a clothing optional beach or pool you know there are very few perfect bodies.

I have friends who live in areas that weren’t as highly affected as mine. They are not taking things as seriously as others have. Saying that this weekend there were plenty of people gathering in crowds. Face masks were 50/50. Why has this become even more politically rather than scientific?

This about sums it up. I don't "make love" to other women. I derive a tremendous amount of personal pleasure GIVING personal pleasure. Doesn't matter if it's some really good FWB or someone we met at a club 5 min ago. We have absolutely no jealousy or drama as we have the added benefit of being together for some 37 years. We make love. We don't swing from the chandeliers anymore (not that we wouldn't like too...) It's just not possible LoL. And we can't party all night anymore and sometimes our reclamation sex has to wait a day or two. LS friends and vanilla friends always ask how do you do stay together? It's really simple communication. I say all of this because I personally think you guys need to explore your fantasy together. There isn't a better way to start. It's not a easy trip and don't expect it to happen all at once. Over the years we have lost track of the number of couples that implode due to lack of communication. As everyone in the LS will tell you.....if you have absolutely no problem talking about sexual fantasy's. You can over come just about anything. After all sexual fantasy's are the last things people tell. If you guys can't do this alone or with professional help swinging might not be in the cards. LS people will tell you that it is about 90% female driven but with the full participation of both people.

The limits of individual rights vs. society-wide concerns are constantly evolving. For instance, the owners of public accommodation had the right — affirmed by prior court decisions— to discriminate based on race until the Supreme Court ruled they didn’t. This week the Wisconsin Supreme Court overruled the state’s governor’s plan to provide better public safety by extending the state’s-wide lockdown. There have been several similar state and federal (lower) court rulings. We should expect more of these decisions, depending on the overall political leanings of states’ appellate courts. It remains to be seen what the effect of these court decisions overruling executive office emergency social-distancing edicts will be on the public health of our nation. Given the diversity within our 50 state governments we have an interesting natural-world experiment our nation is embarking on. The limits of the novel coronavirus’s strengths will decide which public health and economic approaches provide better results.