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This thread should make me insecure due to my vagina being unsecure. That’s a reference to another post lol. I am not old, not stretched out by some oversized partner and I never gave birth. I have always had an insecurity about my vagina being to big and after becoming involved with other females the insecurities only got worse. I know I shouldn’t compare myself to others like men who think their penises are too small. We have what we have. It doesn’t help when I see ads on Groupon for Vaginal Rejuvenation. Thank you but my vagina is fine and awake. I have never been told by anyone that I was too loose. I did feel special with a guy who was bigger and I felt he was having a harder time and though it hurt a little I did smile to myself. I have secretly done all the exercises to “tighten” and I am pretty sure my insecurities are as much mental as physical. At least that’s what I say to myself.

There's an old adage, 'never sleep with anyone crazier than you are.' Seems you've gone there, although it took you some time to find out. Yeah, I'd ditch the woman. Expect drama when you do it. Does she have weapons?

Run away. Fast.

I am also sorry to see you have problems finding LS partners.....but this most definitely is NOT one either. I guess it comes down to how open your marriage actually is. I would run not walk away. Don't let the little head do the thinking for the big head.

Yeah, I think you’ve answered your own question. I’m sorry you are having a hard time finding appropriate lifestyle partners — the two of you with couples, and you with women — but if you are looking to validate a decision to move on from your current FWB, consider it validated.

I bet that you would think differently if you could work from home and if your age group was the prime focus of fatal cases. I think we need to think about how to help everyone and not just ditch the old, the poor, those in cities and those who cannot work from home, as well as small business owners losing their businesses. When I hear that people want the freedom to do what they want, I fear for those who want freedom from illness and death, but it is imposed on them by the people who have to have their freedom. I guess there are two schools of thought and the twain will not meet.

Way back when, I decided that I was going to the the language, style, spelling, and grammar policeman for Swingersboard. Did not work well. I resigned.

That was me, except maybe not so gawky, I was/am athletic. Did wear the glasses though. Swinging, however, brings new confidence. Playing a little has for me, along with the comments that have accumulated over the years by men (and women) who have expressed interest in my body. For some, me having little in the chest or ass brings more curiosity, not less. Things said to me in a professional setting that shouldn't have been said, I actually found flattering. A couple of guys and one woman later apologized, but I told them not to worry about it.

My bf was kind enough to let me look and play with who I want and we have a great relationship!!! I always ask him to come and play or watch as I know he like to see me going down on a guy. I like to play and love him to be there to watch and play with us!

It does seem like some people strictly follow social distancing and masks. Some people seem to think it’s overblown and nothing can happen to them. I also think it is a function of age. Younger people think they can withstand it, older people less so.

Is there a question? You stated you approve her meeting men one way or another. You trust her. My spouse has sex with other women, without me. He trusts me and I have given him every reason to trust me. I learned never to do anything with letting him know. I happen to see my first sex partner from time to time. Our dating is our history. We have both moved on many years ago. I don’t love him. If we had sex again it would be just sex. It doesn’t sound like your wife searched for him. He is a swinger like you are. I’m sure if she didn’t see his profile and told you about him his name wouldn’t have ever come up. My husband has met my first and I don’t think there is a jealousy. Do you care that she sends your sex pictures out over the Internet?

Working from home is not an option for us, and yeah, easy for the people working in nice paid government jobs to tell the rest of us to just tough it out. We have to open the nation back up. We are not going to Trap this weekend, but we are also not going to just stay at home forever. As to getting a mild case and spreading it, that is making me being sick a moral thing. People get sick and spread things all the time. I could have the flu and not know it. That is how life works. We all do the best we can. How much liberty are we willing to restrict in the name of making other people have health decisions for themselves? Again, the justification of the lockdown was not to prevent transmission, but to slow it. To demand that now, it is to prevent it, means that the reasons given at first were a lie to the American people.