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Especially when they get sick. Then the 'freedom school folks demand the community of doctors, nurses, EMT's etc jump in to help save their lives. I'm not worried about catching the virus. That is my choice, i understand the risks and I take care of myself. But I am very concerned about transmitting it. I couldn't imagine how I would feel if my elderly neighbor died of COVID because I refused to wear a mask, so I wear masks. We all accept reduced freedom to some degree in order to live in a community of others. It's just how it works. If people think just a bit, anyone can come up with a dozen actions we refrain from every day in order to live in a community. My pet peeve these days is about how people are so upset about masks required in public spaces. We've all given up our freedom to be naked in a restaurant and no one seems to be worried about their constitutional rights. "no shirt, no shoes, no service." And those 'rules' are partly about health concerns, JUST LIKE THE MASKS. Makes me crazy the lack of thoughtful reflection and empathy for others.

It's a feature of any functioning society I think that individual freedoms are in some cases limited for the common good. What some who love to proclaim their freedom (and not saying that is anybody in this good conversation we are having here) can't seem to grasp is the concept that other people have freedom too. Their right/freedom to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness is equal to yours. So just because you think you should be free to drive 120 mph weaving in and out of traffic, other people have a right to use the roads without being endangered by your reckless behavior. Restaurants are sort of the same way when it comes to health codes. Just because you own a restaurant doesn't mean you are free to wash dishes in cold water with no soap and then stack them below the raw chicken prep area even though you think that is ok or it's cheaper and easier to do so. Sure, people can choose not to patronize your restaurant once they eat there once and get sick, but the problem is the damage is already done. So, there are some basic rules that are enforced to try to protect everyone. Does it eliminate all risk, nope, there is always risk with anything. We've got family who became deathly sick from going out to eat in a big group one night and from who had what to eat it was very clearly traced back to one item at the popular restaurant that has been around for decades. Are there too many rules, and do they go too far sometimes into the silly zone? Probably so, I chafe under some of them too just like everyone does, probably even more than most people do. I'm like padoc, if I'm going to walk the dog at 7 pm down a mostly empty neighborhood sidewalk or whatever, then I'm not going to wear a mask, and someone sitting in their living room 50 feet away looking out through glass windows can think whatever they like. But, if you plop down shoulder to shoulder to me in the vet waiting room with no mask, then I'm going to have a problem with that. I've had the same thing happen to me lately @FullSwapCLT talked about, waiting in line and someone breathing down my neck too close to be polite even before all of this got started. I sort of stepped to the side and turned around and gave them a look that obviously expressed what I was thinking, and they backed off, but it was rude even during normal times. Some people live in their own little self-centered clueless world and screw everybody else. Those types are why we all get saddled with "the rules".

I guess we have covered most everything here others wrote about over our years. Late teens we used a condom covered wood dildo (I made) while giving her oral. I’ve found many ladies (in the lifestyle) enjoy the added “full” feeling while giving the oral. Larger sized items (toy or cucumber) step things up a notch, depending on the woman and level of excitement. The most bizarre or different was with a young lady playmate who enjoyed fisting/oral after a trip to the fetish fair. I purchased a expandable dildo. Made of a rubber material, like an inner tube (large reliable condom a must) that expanded in girth quite a bit when you pumped it up with air using a hand held bulb. It expanded in limited length, maybe an inch or two. But would almost triple in girth when pumped up. We (our core group of playmates spent an afternoon playing with her, test perimeters of her abilities. 3-4 hours and two bottles of astroglide later a thoroughly sated and exhausted woman slept for over an hour before going home. Discovered with her pumping her with this device wasn’t any where as crazy stimulating as insertion....pump up to her comfort area (very wide, “shaft about 3” diameter and bulb/head about 4” diameter) and then use lubricated fingers or our tongues to tease and bring to orgasm with the stretch/full sensation. Can’t say how many orgasms she had. She described it as a roller coaster ride, sometimes orgasming other times A feeling of release/exhaustion. When she couldn’t keep her eyes open any more we stopped, removed the toy. She fell asleep while we cleaned her up. Was a very popular toy at our gatherings for a year or so while the toy lasted. Every woman was different as far as how much to pump up and the guys not getting to enthusiastic and over do it. Added to our toy stand with the massage table.

"We've all given up our freedom to be naked in a restaurant and no one seems to be worried about their constitutional rights." A restaurant is private property. You choose to go in under their rules and conditions, they choose to serve you if you comply. Much like a swingers club, private property, they should be able to make the rules. If Publix requires a mask for me to go in to buy groceries, I'll wear it, their building, their rules, my choice. I keep my distance from most people as a matter of choice, training and muscle memory, I don't need to be required to do so and I refuse to wear a mask to walk my dog.

What could be more interesting than a penis. I am sure we have all put something else in there but nothing as interesting as a penis and the man attached to it. Each one is different and acts differently each time. Second most interesting is a tongue or mouth and the man or woman attached to it. Sure a vibrator is fun and for me always leads to an orgasm but truthfully is it as interesting as human contact?

If we swing as a couple, we put an upper and lower limit (+-10yrs our age) to our partners. But on my own, I seem to get the interest of younger guys. I did play with an older guy too who was my boss at work years back. I thought before that younger guys are less attached and wouldn't opt for anything serious so I didn't mind starting a relationship with one who is my bf now. I realized each person is different and he stayed for many years and evolved as a co-primary partner. I'm now in a parallel relationship with 2 guys. I will go with the flow and see how things turn out.

Well, this has pretty much put all of our activities on hold. We live in a semi-rural sparsely populated area and have been fortunate that social distancing and the like has been rather automatic. Unfortunately (in a sense), we live very near the coast and the crowds are flocking in from every state and location whether it is a hot spot or not. These folks are not social distancing, wearing masks, or even showing any pretense of safety or common sense. So, our perceived safety level has dropped like a rock. Now, we thoroughly expect a second wave, sooner, probably than later and all we can do is watch the statistics and make an informed decision about entertaining again at some future point. The level of "new cases" continues to rise as people become weary of sheltering in place and restrictions are lifted. We'll really be glad to see the hind end of this thing, but with this rampant social irresponsibility, we don't look for anything to change before 1Q of 2021. ?

Hated grammar in school and I understood what they were asking. If we start having the grammar police here, the moral police probably won't be too far behind. BandJ: Any update? If she says she isn't ready, and she is using body issues as just an excuse, then you need to honor her wishes. Never move at a speed faster than the slowest member is comfortable with.

Social distancing is not normal for most people. We are social animals that thrive being near others. We are huggers in that when seeing others we greet with a hug and kiss. Even at work we, more her, there is close contact with a hug. I too hug instead of shake hands. For two months there has been no hugs, no kisses, no handshakes, not even a fist bump. Socialization has been nonexistent. Our summers have always brought us out to being much more social. More nights out mingling with friends and acquaintances. Having drinks, having dinners or just conversations and small talk. Our first lifestyle adventure started with small talk in a bar. We realized a woman we knew was a participant which led to finding others who also partake. It was all part of being social, something that is not happening now. Being home, we have been reflecting and talking on our LS meetings. Some talk ends in our own sex. She can be pretty graphic in her wants and feelings, coming very close to being pornographic. With the weather getting better we have discussed becoming more social. We have discussed inviting a LS couple over for more than drinks. We are talking.

My understanding is that ED meds enhance blood flow. But the person has to be turned on to achieve erection. It is an aid.

Yesterday Clair and I were going at it after doubling up on Red. There were some eggs that had been hard boiled in a bowl on the counter that ended up inside us. They were still a little warm and we were very well lubricated. It was nice having them inside while we licked each other.

We have run into the "I'm not bi, but you can suck me when we play", which boils down too really saying "I want to fuck your wife, and if you blowing me is the price, I will pay it". Yuck. I feel sorry for a lot of the single guys out there, but I have to think a lot of them are single for a reason.

It is pointless to go by yourself to a swingers club or resort. Do you have any idea how many swinging dicks there are out there who think swinging is their key to NSA sex with someone elses wife? If you're serious about exploring this hobby then do so WITH YOUR WIFE. Swingers clubs and resorts have websites. They have pictures and descriptions. Swingers websites have pictures and descriptions. Buy a membership, explore the possibilities WITH YOUR WIFE. This is the 21st century, you can find damned anything you need to know on the internet. Explore it WITH YOUR WIFE! Oh, and re-read the posts in answer to your initial query. Did anyone suggest that the best way for you to acquire information on swinging was to go off on your own???

It was a small ducky, not much bigger than hubby's dicky! None of us women have tried fisting or double vaginal, just bum pussy occasionally.

H/W/P is somewhat subjective with couples we've met. For us it means that we have some kind of shape (male=shoulders wider than waist, waist more narrow than hips, Hips smaller than shoulder. It also means a belly that doesn't have to be lifted and moved from 1 side to the other to see his dick.) Woman= shoulders that the form can be seen, boobs that are not overshadowed by belly rolls, hips that aren't wider than shoulders and thighs that can open sufficiently to accommodate a H/W/P male). We are just not sexually attracted to obese people and stating that we are, by our admittedly subjective standard, a H/W/P couple and look for the same seems far more kind than posting that we're not sexually interested in BBWs or in men who haven't actually seen their penis since college. In response to Fullswap, we don't look at ourselves as "fit sexy and beautiful people" although truth be told, to my prejudiced eye, Mrs Doc IS very sexy and beautiful. We both work to stay reasonably fit and attractive by our personal definition and those are the kinds of couples we seek for playmates.

I did the same to my wife before, used both peeled & unpeeled plus fucked her with the banana inside her pussy. Love it.

Bed post, it Took a while and lots of lube but eventually fit

Deedee loves the feeling of being stretched, she has an assortment of large toys and she likes being fisted. I love sliding into her after she has had the large toys, it feels different but amazing, I like her vagina either way for the record. Lol. The muscles go right back to normal by the next morning, it's not like they stay that way. Not sure if it is comparable to yoga.

An old girlfriend, when she and I were in our Early Twenties -- and this was before we had had sex, or had even seen each other naked -- had me over to dinner. She told me later that night that she had masturbated with a cucumber before I came over, and it was the same cucumber that was in our salad. She said this just before I left, and told me she hoped I made good use of that information once I got home. Jeepers, that still turns me on!

During one of our recent weekend group play sessions Clair joined us while Becky watched the kids. She came in, undressed to just her panties, lied down on the couch, took off her panties with her legs spread, then surprised and entertained us by giving birth to a bath tub rubber ducky. The rest of the evening saw many of the kids toys repurposed.

I have alot of control in there! I can pop anything in, wet it down and squeagy it dry on the way back out. As for things ive put in there, brushes, pens, toothbrush, beer bottles (i have pics of that), wine bottles, hammer, lava lamp style night light, knives, toes, yea the list goes on and on. Im sure more will be added as well

7 years ago I gave Mrs. an ear of corn. She still talks about it.

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