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You lived to play another day. That’s a win. New Jersey has been clobbered by the pandemic. A younger friend offered to grocery shop for us because he went regularly and we don’t want to. We said no thank you. He continued to go out, he got it, gave it to his immunocompromised wife. Fortunately, they are both on the upswing. Hope everyone makes good decisions for their situations.

As a (former) Catholic (former) schoolgirl, I cry, "Cultural appropriation!" But I also say have right at it and have fun. For me, those memories aren't fond or exciting. As I've mentioned, however, there are two good things that have come from it from the sex standpoint. One can be summed up by a quote from John Waters (whoever he is), "I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty." The other is sex ed class (which was euphemistically called something else, like "Family Health") where I associated sex with (and became obsessed with) having a man's sperm, a living part of him, swimming around in my body for days. It is still something that thrills me, especially when it's more than one guy; it makes me feel special and powerful. BTW, do you wear glasses? For me, coming home, taking off my clothes and glasses, standing in front of the mirror naked filled me with thoughts of the possibilities. In my clothes I had no tits, no ass, but naked I had small tits, pubic hair, and pussy lips/clit that belied everything else.

Exactly. If that gets all of you off who cares? TBH I have never understood the male homophobic tendency (male) in the LS. Especially the guys that freak with incidental touching.

Why label? Do what you want with who you want if they want to.

You are whatever you want to be in my opinion. I enjoy mm sex a lot, am psychically attracted to men and enjoy being with them in a non romantic way. For me, it’s often a great release and nothing more. I’ll check out guys and think “yeah he definitely deserves a blowjob” ? So I consider myself bisexual and proud of it!

Common sense should and did win the day this time. Sounds like you and your lady need to talk about being on the same page.

@ Triciaandmike, we're jealous! Good for you!!!! @ Fullswap, distancing from strangers in a public place is simple courtesy. You and your husband were entirely correct. I'd have probably gone off on the first woman, "color isn't the issue, ignorance is". I hope your husband follows up with the letter.

After turning down invites to meet from several couples we had an unplanned connection. We have been staying safe, mostly just us alone, some supermarket shopping and walks in the neighborhood. We thought it would be nice to have a change of scenery and found a park with trails about an hour from where we live. We took our own ppe, masks, hand sanitizer and Clorox wipes if I needed a restroom. Restrooms have been my real concern about travel. Mike laughs and says just go in the woods. We never bump into people we play with and now with masks on I hear someone call my name on a random trail in a place I didn’t know existed. It was a couple we met about a year ago. We continued walking, now with them. Nice people and conversations were about isolation and working from home. She brought up the topic of playing. They hadn’t met anyone since this started. We told them we had been with someone a few months ago. I think they were on the same thoughts that being safe is driving us crazy. I didn’t feel she was suggesting anything. They offered to pick up some food and bring back to their yard. They lived close. I took the offer as being friendly. We ended up in our first non distancing get together.

We are over two months into this nightmare pandemic, two months since the good part of America started to shut down. We have seen cases spike, and in some areas still seeing increases in cases. In New York cases are in decline and deaths are back to levels from two months ago. Still too many people dying. I’m watching the news and see people back to big crowds in some areas. Here in NYC people are out, most in masks but not all. I am just wondering if many of you are returning to play. I was shown an article that Covid 19 is not an STD. I know that the virus is transferred by droplets from the respiratory system and not from semen. One article said that the possibility of transfer from the sex act is minute. Kissing is still a no go.

You did the right thing. Not to compare, but it's hard watching groups of 20 kids having a party (next door) when your kid is following the rules. Ruining it for everyone!!!!

Before anyone decides to play during these times I can assure you that you can't tell who is harboring the virus. We were all set to go on a cruise with the couple we have been vacationing with for a number of years. They were our first couple we ever met and swapped with. I call him my lover as other than my husband he is the only man who has made love to me. I’ve had sex, yet I feel he is a lover. Another couple we met through them were going to join us on the cruise. After all the planning the cruise was canceled after we all traveled to Florida. I can say I was relieved the cruise was not going to happen. As we were already in Florida we were careful except we did stay together. We don’t play often and we were looking forward to this week. In the past I was not a party swinger even though I reluctantly have played in a small group. I had in my mind said this trip I was going to be more open minded. I even said to myself I would be open to playing with the wives. I have evolved as I said in another post. None of us showed any signs of any illness. We played as a group for 2 days before all of us went home. We were not safe in any of our play. I enjoy kissing as part of my fun too. Last week we were told that the husband of the other couple got sick and is now showing all the signs of the virus. We now are working from home and are isolating ourselves from the outside world. We are scared and praying. With every cough or sneeze we worry. So far no signs of anything but allergies and we feel we will be fine.