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We could absolutely be happy if swinging stopped for us and are completely content when it is not happening. It has never been more then something we can do if the right opportunity comes up with the right people and well finding the right people has never been an easy task. We are completely satisfied with the sex life we have together and have a hard time finding people that we are truly attracted to other then each other! We only got into it to be able to try things we can’t do with just the two of us which we have had the pleasure of accomplishing over the years. It has been a while since we have found that connection and attraction with other people that makes us want to have naked fun with them and now with the covid thing it will be even longer. We are 100 percent okay with that. We will continue having sex with the person who always gets us going which is each other and if someone else comes along that actually excites us we will enjoy that as well. If not no big deal.

It sure does! We both took big steps in our lives to make our individual health a priority last year as far as what we eat and how much we exercise. We are now seeing the rewards of doing this by how much our bodies and minds have changed for the positive. Although we have always been attracted to each other I can honestly say that It has increased a lot with the extra weight loss and tightening up of our bodies. In turn our already great sex life has got even better and more frequent. Both of us have increased stamina, insane energy and our positive self esteem is higher then it has ever been. We are proud of each other for no longer being lazy and finding excuses to not make the correct health choices and know that the state of our health is on us and what we do to make sure it is top notch. We have come a long way, but are not going to stop putting the work in everyday that is needed to maintain and improve our health. It is not about being better then anyone else. It is about being the best we can be for ourselves. As far as other people we might play with yes weight loss or weight gain is going to make a difference in how attracted we are to them! The drive and ambition it takes for people to put effort into their health is a very attractive trait to us. Not so much the other way.

Mrs here - I'm noticed it more with women than men in our interactions. We are was too judgmental of ourselves and others. As the Mr tells me all the time, it really isn't about looks, though everyone has a certain type (s) they're attracted to, rather it is about fun. Does the couple we're talking with sound like a fun time? A few extra pound on him or her doesn't change a great time. On the flip side, we've met some super hot couples, model types, who were an absolute bore. We bring others into our encounters to enhance them. It is about a great time, not what the scale says.

Yes glasses. And I have small breasts, flat butt, and my area is shaved which I think makes my labia and clitoris look bigger. Maybe we are related? We have a really close friend who sometimes takes my husband’s place when he is away on business that also like my plaid skirt and knee highs. He also tells me to keep my glasses on.

You lived to play another day. That’s a win. New Jersey has been clobbered by the pandemic. A younger friend offered to grocery shop for us because he went regularly and we don’t want to. We said no thank you. He continued to go out, he got it, gave it to his immunocompromised wife. Fortunately, they are both on the upswing. Hope everyone makes good decisions for their situations.

It's been said that all women are bisexual, unless you buy them something they won't get sexual.

My God, has it really been 7 years since I posted. Funny, but my wife was asking me just this morning if I missed swinging. I said no. Then I get an email from this long ago thread. We gave up swinging years ago due to the difficulty in finding good people. It seemed to always be three were agreeable but the fourth...! Anyway to Covid. I can't imagine swinging in this pandemic. Meeting strangers and getting intimate. Just a flat out NO! Even people we know. I have no idea where they've been and I'm not going to play twenty questions.

My first experience with his bisexuality was very unexpected. We were playing with a male friend after some pretty tame hot tubbing. They both were focused on me so I started to work in their already hard cocks. We moved indoors and it was pretty clear that the other guy was waiting for the green light from my husband to take things further. My husband got on his back and asked me to get into a 69 position. I gave them both some oral and my husband invited the other guy to fuck me if it was okay with me. The guy took me from behind while my husband gave me oral. After a few minutes I could tell he was working on the guys cock while he was fucking me - I was shocked. He actually would put the guys cock in his mouth for a few seconds at a time. It was so incredibly hot I couldn’t hold back. Turns out it was my husbands first experience and was totally spontaneous.

Bingo on that last. Sounds like it will be a threesome with the gf playing too. That should bring any number of helpful volunteers to your bed.

I never thought of my husband as a cuckold but I know he likes to watch me with men. He said he likes watching me tease or come on to men and bring them to a room. We have done this a number of times. I can tell you it is not easy to pick up a guy ( well it is easy to pick up a guy) when you tell him your man wants to just watch. We have gone to several hotels with that in mind and most men run when I tell them my husband is on the other side of the bar and he wants to watch.

I LOVE watching my wife flirt with other guys, feeling the sexual tension building, wondering who will make the first move. When we play with another guy I love watching her help him undress and vice versa. We usually play in our hot tub and my heart skips a beat when I reach down and find his fingers buried inside her already. The best is positioning my wife between us so one of us can take her from behind while the other plays with her clit. Or having her stroking both of us while we take turns fingering her and playing with her clit. It has taken years to get her to this point and she still has some reservations but I'm hoping one day to sit back with a video camera and simply record the two of them rolling from orgasm to orgasm.

Watching my wife is really awesome. We simply love MFM with the proper guy. Cannot be described, simply very hot...