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My best friend since high school knows so does my oldest daughter and her husband, one of my work colleagues knows (we ran into him and his wife at a swingers m&g) and Im next to certain both next door neighbors suspect. That may have had something to do with a 2 couple pool party we had last fall. Mrs Doc's former neighbor knows and is VERY curious as does a good friend she once worked with. We actually broached the subject with her several years ago when she was visiting us in Florida. She had always wanted to play with a girl so my wife let that happen, and then a 3-some happened and later, in subsequent visits, we took her to Trapeze several times. None of Mrs Doc's kids know and her only sister (who's almost as sexy as my wife but who has some puritanical sexual views ) would be appalled! We don't hide the fact that we're swingers but we're careful too since SWFL is much less cosmopolitan than Philly or Miami.

It may make a difference if you are single or in a committed relationship or married. It may make a difference depending on your employment and the contract language. It may make a difference if you are in a managerial position. Most in the LS have taken an approach of discretion.

My wife wants to be filled up by three men. Double vaginal and regular DP are kind of our thing. Condoms are a passion killer and are awkward during group sex and there is nothing sexier than seeing your wife being filled with a stranger's cum and then filling her with mine. This time there will be three. I know there are drugs that reduce the chance of getting HIV/AIDS and getting tested is a must. Most everything else is bacterial and treatable. It's a good time to be swinger. We need this. Can anybody give us some advice?

It appears to me that, perhaps, you hadn't expressed your needs and desires fully before you had the experience. I'm concerned that she isn't intimate with you after the deed. It would be very helpful to find out the reason. It's even possible she's as confused as you seem to be. You both need to sit down calmly, discuss the situation, find out what the other thinks. If you can be honest with each other, I suspect the emotions will sort out easily.

The person who sent this message might be working on this principle: walk up to a hundred different women and say, "let's fuck." You'll get slapped in the face ninety-nine times. But one the hundredth, you'll get fucked.

I'm not a single person looking for dates. But I believe I can answer this one with some authority; almost certainly not. A test for COVID-19 is about as much good as a test for syphilis, ghonneria, HIV antibidies, or other similar infections. It would only say if you had the infection at the time of the test.

You know, I hear you all. I feel the desire to reunite, to get back to normal. It's been a few months, and we keep sort of hearing that things are getting better. Plus the protests are starting to drown out coronavirus. Just to let you know, things are not getting better. Take a look at worldometers.info/coronavirus/country/us/. Yes, the curve was successfully flattened to some extent, but in the United States we're still having 20,000 new cases every day, nearly 900 people are dying every day. I know some of you are going to say fuck it, getting screwed is more important than maybe I get a little sick. And if you're in good shape, yeah, fine, it's your body, go ahead. But please, if you're not social distancing (and fucking somebody you don't live with isn't social distancing,) please, please, please stay away from old people, people with medical issues and children. They could die. It might be your fault. Please!

It is completely normal for women to feel insecure about their body! After all they spend their life being objectified and judged based on their looks by ignorant men. Can’t tell you how many times I have heard men saying rude shit about a woman’s size when they stand there with their own fat belly hanging over their pants. I have no problem telling them to stfu and take a look in the mirror. The good news is that the women are the ones with the control in the lifestyle and none of them are left feeling unwanted or undesirable. There is always going to be someone that wants them. The men on the other hand are the ones that are going to have to put a little more effort into themselves if they don’t want to feel like the ones not wanted. Good on your wife for putting the effort into her own health and doing the things it takes to get there. It is a trait I admire in anyone regardless of their size. It will also build up her self esteem better then anyone else could ever do. The world has more then enough people that just don’t seem to care about their own personal health. As for getting into the swing thing the others that are saying do it at whatever pace she is comfortable with are correct. The outcome will not be good if you don’t.

My wife is 60% straight and 70% lesbian.

As a (former) Catholic (former) schoolgirl, I cry, "Cultural appropriation!" But I also say have right at it and have fun. For me, those memories aren't fond or exciting. As I've mentioned, however, there are two good things that have come from it from the sex standpoint. One can be summed up by a quote from John Waters (whoever he is), "I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty." The other is sex ed class (which was euphemistically called something else, like "Family Health") where I associated sex with (and became obsessed with) having a man's sperm, a living part of him, swimming around in my body for days. It is still something that thrills me, especially when it's more than one guy; it makes me feel special and powerful. BTW, do you wear glasses? For me, coming home, taking off my clothes and glasses, standing in front of the mirror naked filled me with thoughts of the possibilities. In my clothes I had no tits, no ass, but naked I had small tits, pubic hair, and pussy lips/clit that belied everything else.

Same here! Very fun and interesting.

Our first was at HEDO. Over did it on the first day, but is was a blast. We have been back 20 times.

Me, Myself, and I are having a good time together, private party at my place.

Cap 'd Adge in the south of France. This is the largest nudist colony in the world in the summer, and there's plenty of swinging possibilities. Plus, you could spend some time in the other things in that neck of the world. The Riviera. Barcelona. Paris. etc., etc.

Desire Riviera Maya or Desire Pearl if you are older. No one will push you into swinging. A lot of newbies, nudists, non swingers. Make sure your wife knows the theme and wants to try it.

It's a feature of any functioning society I think that individual freedoms are in some cases limited for the common good. What some who love to proclaim their freedom (and not saying that is anybody in this good conversation we are having here) can't seem to grasp is the concept that other people have freedom too. Their right/freedom to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness is equal to yours. So just because you think you should be free to drive 120 mph weaving in and out of traffic, other people have a right to use the roads without being endangered by your reckless behavior. Restaurants are sort of the same way when it comes to health codes. Just because you own a restaurant doesn't mean you are free to wash dishes in cold water with no soap and then stack them below the raw chicken prep area even though you think that is ok or it's cheaper and easier to do so. Sure, people can choose not to patronize your restaurant once they eat there once and get sick, but the problem is the damage is already done. So, there are some basic rules that are enforced to try to protect everyone. Does it eliminate all risk, nope, there is always risk with anything. We've got family who became deathly sick from going out to eat in a big group one night and from who had what to eat it was very clearly traced back to one item at the popular restaurant that has been around for decades. Are there too many rules, and do they go too far sometimes into the silly zone? Probably so, I chafe under some of them too just like everyone does, probably even more than most people do. I'm like padoc, if I'm going to walk the dog at 7 pm down a mostly empty neighborhood sidewalk or whatever, then I'm not going to wear a mask, and someone sitting in their living room 50 feet away looking out through glass windows can think whatever they like. But, if you plop down shoulder to shoulder to me in the vet waiting room with no mask, then I'm going to have a problem with that. I've had the same thing happen to me lately @FullSwapCLT talked about, waiting in line and someone breathing down my neck too close to be polite even before all of this got started. I sort of stepped to the side and turned around and gave them a look that obviously expressed what I was thinking, and they backed off, but it was rude even during normal times. Some people live in their own little self-centered clueless world and screw everybody else. Those types are why we all get saddled with "the rules".

It would be a better world if people related to their sexual partners as a person and took less measurement of boobs, vaginas and penises. Part of the fun is the variation. When we read profiles that say the guy has to be so many inches and he has to be able to perform, we know they are not the people for us.

Here is the story of our first threesome. It all started with our weekend vacation to San Francisco. We had an amazing day sight seeing and day drinking. We returned to our hotel slightly buzzed and proceeded to get ready for dinner. Before going out, I set her up with a vibrating panties. We went to an expensive seafood dinner and I continued to tease throughout the meal. At one point, she went to the bathroom and I accidentally left it on and she had her first orgasm of the night. After dinner, we had then gone to a bar to have after dinner cocktails. While at the bar, we ran into an old coworker I had worked with about 10 years ago. We all had a beer at the bar and he let us know how he was now a massage therapist. His appointment that evening had cancelled and already paid him for the session. We brought the party back to our hotel and continued to have another beer and played a game of pool. Since I had beaten him at pool, the bet was he had to give my wife a massage for free. My wife had complained about being really sore from previous weeks workout. Sure enough, our new friend met us at our hotel room with his massage table. He went to the bathroom to get ready while my wife striped down to her panties and got under the sheet. The massage started out like your standard massage and he started by giving her a very intense back massage. After He finished massaging my wife’s back, he pulled the sheet over her and started to massage her legs and hamstrings. He had used long strokes and massages my wife’s hamstrings and her butt, while she was still wearing panties. At one point, I asked her if she would like it if He would continue to massage her butt, and if it was ok if she took her panties off. She appeared really turned on and agreed and I helped her take her panties off. From there, our friend continued to massage her butt with long snow strokes and would occasionally brush her pussy. I could tell my wife was extremely turned on as she would moan softly every time he got close to her pussy. On the flip, He kept my wife draped with a sheet and had continued to massage the front of her legs. She again would continue to moan every time he got close to her sensual areas. I then motioned for him to massage her head and chest, eventually leading to her 34C breast. He continued to use long strokes while he massages my wife’s boobs and continues to her stomach. He then ran his hands over her shortly trimmed public hair and then brushed her clit. At this point; my wife was moaning very loudly and we could tell she wanted more. Our friend then continued to massage my wife’s clit and added some massage oil and started to finger her to her second orgasm of the night. My wife had her second and third orgasm while being fingered by our new friend. I then motioned for him to take of his pants and suggested my wife repay the favor. He quickly dropped his pants all the while continuing to massage my wife’s breast and pussy. I directed her had to our friend cock and she began jerking him off while he played with her pussy. At this time, I told my wife that she should fuck him. She asked me if it was ok and I told her I would like nothing better. We then took the party to our bed and I handed him a condom, which he happily put on. My wife started in doggy style and he slowly inserted his hard cock into my wife’s soaking wet pussy. Watching my wife fuck a new guy after almost 20 years is being together was the hottest moment in our sex life. He was fucking my wife doggy style while I made our with her. It seemed like she came another 2 times with this new cock in her pussy. She then rolled over onto her back and Will continued to have sex with her missionary. He rode her for a couple minutes until I interrupted them so I could have a turn inside her wet vagina. I then mounted her and felt her have another orgasm. He was standing by the edge of the bed and I pushed her toward him. He then entered her again for a few thrust, but it seemed like her was close to his own orgasm. He pulled out and licked my wife’s clit, until she came an additional 2 times. After 2 more orgasms, he inserted his hard cock into her pussy for a final time and blew his load in the condom. After he unloaded into the condom, I lied flat on the bed and my wife rode my cock for a couple minutes until we both came. I shot my load deep into her push and she rolled off of me, completely exhausted. She almost immediately passed out completely naked and my friend and I had laid next to her for a couple minutes before he got up, got dressed, and packed up his stuff. We talked briefly and he left us while she was passed out. I crawled back into bed and held my naked wife as we both passed out. I hope you enjoyed the story of our first threesome.

Im not sure that a virus can ever be totally eradicated. Still, the odds of surviving this infection are extremely high. Sufficiently so that if I had the same odds of winning the Powerball, I'd be buying tickets, ordering a Bentley, booking a week at Desire with our friends and turning in my retirement papers! I think that the recent riots and protests may finally accomplish at least one thing. In about two weeks, if there isn't a major spike in new cases in Philly, Minneapolis, NYC and LA, there will no longer be an excuse for the states to continue the draconian lockdowns that have wrecked more lives economically than the virus has taken.