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So yeah, we met this couple for a weekend getaway. We was very nervous at first but we followed through and met them anyway. They turned out to be a super cool couple, it felt like we knew them forever. So we met late one night and didn't play that night but we got up the next morning and had coffee and talked for a while and started playing about mid morning. The sex was amazing! It was so different compared to meeting at a club when alcohol is involved and it is usually very late at night. Granted a few drinks was nice when we started in the L.S but it was so much better without!

Mrs. Playcouple, who was away on business, called Mrs. Alura from London. She had talked to Mr. Playcouple. He was horny and could sure use some pussy. Would Laura be so kind? She'd make it up to us when she returned. Mr. Playcouple was a professor. Mrs. Alura agreed to a threesome at our place, 9:00 AM tomorrow, when Pat had no classes before Noon. Laura met him at the door in a negligee. It was so much fun that we repeated it before Jo got home. And then, several times thereafter, with Jo included, of course. Day time is a fine time for swinging.

We often play with other couples in the afternoon, then go out to dinner or an event. We are more wide awake, generally not drunk, see everything happening.

We're definitely open to that! We've had spend the night situations where the next morning goodbye's led to things getting frisky again, and like you say, the stone cold sober sex was even better than the partying at night sex. We've also had afternoon delight sex playing solo with friends. That was pretty awesome too, just more relaxing and time to really focus on your swing partner with no distractions or timelines.

We slowly dipped our toes in when we first started attending clubs and parties. We did a lot of voyeurism, exhibitionism and same room play at first. It was well over a year being in the Lifestyle before we were comfortable with a soft swap and only after a having a few other wonderful soft swap experiences we both decided that we were ready to do a full swap and that was probably another nine months or more. But before we attend any swinger party or club we always check in with each other, go over our rules and what we’d both be comfortable with and such. And then we check in again with each other afterwards and see if we might need to change anything or if there is something we’d be okay with pursuing at a future party. And we know plenty of couples that do the same thing as you and attend clubs and parties to just watch or show off. Communication is the key and be on the same page stick to whatever rules you are both comfortable with.

Not had any prospective date ask about a test. A few have asked if I'd been sick, & I've tactfully inquired of others about their recent health. I do put it up front that I was sick with the C19 symptoms for ten days from 23 March. No I was not tested, those were in short supply. I assumed I was contagious and quarantined myself accordingly.

Yes, maybe he just wants to play and his wife is a “beard.” The good news is that ten days later, I’ve largely forgotten this episode. We’ve had friendly FaceTimes with LS friends recently.

Hi Everyone, My wife and I are fairly new to the swinging lifestyle. We had talked about if for a couple of years before actually trying it a little over a year ago. We thoroughly enjoy it now. We've had fun fulfilling each other's fantasies (one of which was seeing my wife with another woman - every guy's fantasy!). Recently she brought up a new fantasy of hers that I wasn't all that comfortable with. Simply put, she wants to see me have sex with the man. I've never been interested in men and I've explained that to her. She tells me she'd never been interested in women either, but did it to fulfill my fantasy. Now I'm kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place. We have a few good looking couples that we hook up with from time to time and out of fairness to my wife I've tried to imagine what it would be like going from his wife to him and I just can't see it happening. What should I do? Have any of you other guys out there gotten that request from your wife? Or even tried it? I really enjoy swinging and don't want this to be what ends it. Do I need to just take the plunge and try it? On one hand I have to consider fairness to my wife. On the other hand this is uncharted territory. In the few conversations we've had about it my answer has been "no way." But now I'm asking myself, "would it really be such a bad thing?" Any advice from experienced swingers would be very welcome.