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A brief pause in the conversation to remark on the civility and thoughtfulness that has gone into adamgunn's remark and into so many above. It is a feature of this board--and of the LS community that chooses to participate--that we can have discussion without polarization on a broad mix of topics. We value our LS friends and the LS community for a variety reasons, many of which do not involve playtime. The notion of responsibility--personal and for our intimates and for our brethren--is part of who you are and who we are.

I am constantly amazed that we, as a society, have forgotten that responsibility for our brethren is the complement of freedom and liberty. “Liberty means responsibility. That is why most men dread it.” ― George Bernard Shaw, Man and Superman

njbm, What you describe is real. I think that there has been a polarity reversal in how we interact with the world. When very much younger I was taught a code that was very strict as far as my own actions went and very forgiving as to how others acted. This was religious for me , but others my age have similar stories that are strictly ethical.. In the sixties we began to think that the "problems" (pick from the menu war, racism, sexism, economic....) were someone else's fault and they need to be reformed. The fault was never within ourselves. "Enlightenment" is a trap. Sometimes when confronted with something objectively evil it can be hard to refrain from confrontation. I have always found that acting personally in accordance to what I see as the correct path has provided ample opportunity for confrontation without having to manufacture it as we seem to do more and more.

Why do you want everyone else to get vaccinated and protect you, but you don’t want to participate? I, too, will make a judgment about the safety and efficacy of any proposed vaccine. But if I am assured that it will safely work, I will get it. In the last several years, I have heard a lot about individual people’s rights, liberty and freedom. I don’t hear much about a sense of community, neighborhoods, patriotism and concern for those who are less fortunate. I fear that we are moving towards or have reached a selfish, kill or be killed, I got mine, you get yours society. Death Race 2020. I, personally, do not like it.

I have always enjoyed kissing. This question had me thinking, I don’t do much kissing with the person who I play with the most, our friend. He is the one person I am alone with the most other than my husband. We are very comfortable being together and we have no restrictions or rules. Almost anything goes sexually. We will even talk during sex. We do kiss, just not much, and never in a prolonged kiss. With others if kissing happens, it happens.

Particularly when it is someone other than the person who is stimulating your genitals in one way or another. It especially drives me wildly jealous when hubby is fucking me while kissing Lora.

Kissing during sex is totally hot. I especially like looking into her eyes too while pumping.

Sure I do!, every time and ask and make sure it's good with out play partners before hand. This includes kissing before and after bj's with bf and any of our male play partners. No objections as of yet. Kissing and sex just go together! After the lock down it is more enjoyably that ever. I am glad that everyone we play with is open to this.

Mrs. cplnuswing certainly does. Neither one of us have had a swing partner that didn't seem to enjoy kissing just as much as we do. I know they are out there, and that's fine, everyone is entitled to their swinging rules and boundaries and sexual preferences, we just haven't run into any yet. Some of that may be self-selective since we would pass by a profile with a "no kissing" statement, but we don't have any "must kiss" statement in ours either though so I think our experiences would be fairly representative.

Why are there never any good Third Amendment cases?

To that point, vaccinations for many diseases are mandatory to enter school. Last year, in NJ, there was a breakout of measles because some parts of society didn’t stick to the mandate. Measles had been thought to have been eradicated. Most of the cases occurred amongst the people not vaccinated but they everyone in danger. Smallpox has been eradicated, polio too because of mandated vaccinations. Those who don’t get a vaccine are selfish and put the general population at risk. Today’s news said that the Northeast, specifically NY and NJ had the highest use of face coverings and guess what, they have the best record of slowing the transmission. A mask protects others and others wearing protects you. Dr. Bruce Springsteen said it best, Put on a fuckin mask. I just wish the guy who claims he is the smartest and knows everything because he’s a stable genius would not tell everyone that you don’t need one.

Just young and educated and base my judgment on science not on politics. American rights are curtailed by many laws. Just look at all the freedoms you give up when you get in a car. Do you stop at a stop sign? Do you drive 150mph? Wait that’s a red light ahead, screw that I have rights.

Am I missing something? Wuhan? You didn’t contract a city? I bet you didn’t get Kung Flu either. You certainly made this post political and claiming your rights as an American. What about the sensibility of not harming others? I just wonder if you wear a mask in public? Pants? Do you use a seatbelt? Yes do what you wish but don’t subject others to your political statements

Observation 1: Paragraphs were invented in part to make documents more readable. Observation 2: This story could be true but it could easily be the figment of the authors imagination. For the moment, I'll assume it true. Observation 3: If it is true, you are involved with a controlling, cruel and vindictive woman. A one off hour of revenge sex might have been acceptable and understandable considering your ages. A week of daily humiliation and nightly revenge fucking is overkill. Observation 4: Once this kind of behavior occurs, the genie will NEVER go back in the bottle. You have become her cuck boy. Conclusion: Between now and dead (or even between now and lunch time), is this how you want to live? If not, RUN, far and fast, block her number and never contact her again.

Formatting, dude! Your post is very hard to read. TLDR; guy in his early 20's goes on vacation with his girlfriend, tells her he's been unfaithful and as a result she has a series of sexual encounters under his nose. They seem to argue quite a bit about it. My advice: You have a stormy relationship, full of drama. Is this really something you want to live with for the rest of your life?

It is predominately a need of self research and understanding of what each risk may be and practical avoidance. Compared to normal dating and sexual practices of the vanilla world where contracting something has a higher rate, much higher than in the lifestyle, the lifestyle in most cases is far safer as well as more sexually fulfilling. for most all participants in the lifestyle the age of participation is older, usually 35 to 65. Not to say there is not younger or older participants, just the regular age range. The core age group varies a bit but 40s to late 50s seems most evident. As a result, knowledge, life experience and mature reasoning and thinking can be expected. Most only participate locally to regionally. Most all attend house parties or private group gatherings. Many grow more to a semi polyamorous type group relationship. More avoid an open public party forum. Most all know what they want, interests, what works....rather than the hit or miss bar/club scene. all of this and other smaller points bring this to a much safer experience then many would think.

We are bareback only. Semen is welcome internally at all times. Exchanging body fluids gets two thumbs up from us! We chose our partners carefully in our mind. We understand what we are doing. On a side note: We would never consider a condom a reason to play with someone we had not screened or if he/she made an off hand remark about their sexual health. In other words, if you use a condom "just in case" or "just to be sure"; then you are having risky sex. If you always use a condom but decline to screen because you think the condom is good enough, you are having risky sex. Both sides of this question are open to criticism! On a lighter note, regardless how you play, don't stop!

Absolutely!! Life is too short

Good for you. And why not? Nearly everything in life has a risk. You could be run over by a bus just crossing the street.

We have always gone bareback. The majority of our partners we met in lifestyle clubs, a few online. We may be a little risky but we have always just let the men fuck Jess bareback and finish in her if they wanted. Over a year of swinging, a few pregnancy scares but our most recent testing shows we are clean. Call us lucky but we prefer sex with no condoms even though 95% of our partners are strangers

We are new to swinging. The first time we swapped spouses with a couple we met on a cruise. It was a moment where we decided to do it. We had unprotected sex and my husband did as well. I knew I couldn't become pregnant but of course didn't take other problems that could cause into account. Lucky for all of us, nothing was transmitted. Our new friends were new to this as well, they said. My new partner did cum in me. He was going to withdraw but I said it was fine. We both continued and both of us had great sex.

I enjoy when the lady insists that I cum in her....it actually heightens my senses and gives me some umphff behind my release.