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I made my first post not quite a year ago while going thru divorce. That got final and after dating a few ladies, one captivated me. She was monogamous and that was totally fine with me. She's amazing. One of the times I picked her up for a date at her house, I laughed that she had blue flowerpots, which is a mythical "sign of swingers" in my community. I made a joke about how she must be a swinger. Well, that led to months and months of communication and discussion and reading and discussion and podcasts and more discussion until finally action was taken. We put up a profile on a site and began conversations with others. Once our state allowed restaurants to partially open, we "covid screened" another couple who had been careful in lockdown, met them for dinner, and it was on! Since then, we've had several encounters with other couples who have also been working from home and avoiding crowds. One couple took our temps at the front door as part of their protocol. We seem to be following a familiar pattern. I the male introduce the topic, we enter the LS world together with her nervous about everything, then she enjoys it a lot. And so we're in. Now we're in the process of moving in together permanently, and we will be marrying not too long after. After 10 months of knowing each other, sheltering in place together since March and working thru an entrance into the LS, we have never had a single cross word between us. We could not be happier! We look forward to learning and growing further and have enjoyed the wisdom shown on this board.

Unlike many on here who swap with other couples, my husband and I go to parties or have 3somes. When playing with our guy friend I don’t like what some call double penetration. What are some things others do. The guys are straight. Most times I am having sex with one and do oral to the other. Sometimes my husband just lets me play with our friend. When with a girl friend I find more things I can do even if he is in her.

In this era of COVID-19, there are obviously much more complex issues. Otherwise, what works for you as a couple works for you as a couple. We prefer/preferred to set no expectations for play on the first date. Despite best efforts to chat and meet electronically prior to the first date, once meeting another couple for the first time, the couple that joins you at the restaurant often doesn't quite match the texts, emails, photos or even calls. By setting the 'no expectation' for a first date, we found it made us more comfortable and made it easier to get to know the new couple. As NJBM mentioned above, an LS cruise is a different environment...much more like an extended floating houseparty. Often the "first date" took the form of joining the other couple at lunch, and then going on a shore excursion with them. By the time cocktail hour and dinner are rolling around, you've decided whether you want to continue the conversation over dinner and later in the pool and playroom or whatever.

We actually say in our profile that we don't play on the first date so that there is no pressure or confusion and we want to make sure that everyone is indeed interested (no taking one for the team). We want there to be a connection since we are looking for friends first, benefits second. However, if everyone agrees on a second date, we hope that SOMETHING happens...doesn't have to be big, maybe even just watching each other making out (same room sex/petting/whatever). If that doesn't happen, it seems like the other couple isn't interested. If nothing happens after three dates, then we figure it probably isn't a match and we move on. It's fine not having much happen on the second date (or maybe even the third), as long as we know that the other couple is really interested. If you are just starting out and are being cautious, let the other couple know that this is what is happening. If they are understanding, then move forward. If they are not interested in waiting, then it isn't a match and saves everyone time by moving on.

Normally, it doesn't happen because the guys are wearing a condom when we swing and I dont let them cum in my mouth. But it happened in the past when SO and I were swinging with a longtime common friend on a regular basis. Boundaries were more relaxed then. The guys would kiss me after eating me or they let me lick them after ejaculating in me or they explode in my mouth. That gave me the license to kiss them afterwards. But I make sure to swallow first before kissing them. So it happened, they had no choice! ?

We get tested regularly and have played without with others but only after a few months of thrusting. We broke up for half a year and she got chlamediya, so be careful!

Yeah of course, it is part of the experience!

Yes we both love to suck dick and we love to share the cum in a kiss.

I very often kiss my wife after our friend cums in her mouth and go down on her after he cums in her vagina. It's great fun and my wife loves it.

Do American let their pets lick their faces? Yes. Think on it. The dog has been out in the yard tasting his own poop. The cat has been eating flea-infested mice. Semen, on the other hand, is sterile and does not smell like poop.

We look for people who are willing to play on the first date. If that doesn't happen we don't mind meeting a second time but we make it clear that we are looking to play. There is no 3rd or 4th date.

I don't want to start an argument, but only to say that different people view this differently. I have children that I would do anything for including kill or give my life, but I also would have absolutely no problem having an abortion if the circumstances called for it. Admittedly I've never had one, but before I knew them both Clair and Lora have, and they view it the same way - a fetus is not a person. I can see the argument against aborting in the eighth or ninth month in most circumstances, but cannot accept that a single cell, a fertilized egg, is a human being. It is one of those "where to draw the line" questions that doesn't have a simple answer because it doesn't depend solely on gestational age. Rather than argue about the issue in extreme, it would be great if with facts and rational discussion, somehow it could be worked out.

Update : Since my last post here we have continued to find our way through this process of MMF. We had another 3 some this past Saturday with the same guy and the moment couldn’t have been better. My wife was comfortable with laying her head on his lap and rubbing his cock. It felt completely natural and the 3 of us went up stairs for more fun. Anyways ! I am extremely happy that I reached out to this group I have been able to find a variance of opinions that were spoken in a constructive mannerism. Thank you all !!! Next stop is adding another female

She has two breasts for a reason. Share. It's nice when guys do that to me.

I find the spit roast sexy. One man penetrates the woman doggie style from behind. The woman performs oral sex on a man in front of her while getting pounded from behind.

Have one of the men lick your pussy while you are penetrated by the other. He is pleasing you not the other guy. Tell them that is what you want to happen - they will want to please you, yes? And, the one giving you oral will be rewarded with an awesome view of you.

It requires some flexibility from all involved, and our height differences helped- I'll try to pull up a pic.

Intense erotic feelings and deep pride.

Absolutely one of the hottest things to enjoy. Best is being on bottom of 69 position watching another guy filling your wife's pussy up close.

My wife and I enjoy MFMs. I like watching in the beginning as my wife begins foreplay with the other guy. Then I join in. I like kissing her and fondling her tits as the man is performing oral on her. When they are actually in coitus, if they’re in a position like cowboy, I’ll twiddle her clit - she really enjoys that! Basically, I look at myself as an enhancement to her enjoyment as she’s playing with another man. We’ve tried DP a few times, it didn’t work out that well. You have to be very patient, it’s physically challenging, and both men have to be very hard. One thing I’ve enjoyed is I’ll recline, my back on pillows and my head against the headboard. My wife will sit on my lap, facing away from me, and we’ll both open up our legs. The man crawls between them and enters her. For him, it’s much the same as missionary when her ass is raised up on pillows. As they’re screwing, I can put my arms around her and fondle her tits, rub her stomach, fiddle with her hair. I get to feel their movements. My dick is in her ass crack, a most delicious feeling as she slides up and down on it.

Yes my wife gets creampie a lot it's great going down on her or having sloppy seconds

I love being spanked, ass or pussy. Something about going to play alone, then coming home "dirty" for a spanking that is awesome!

1. The cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are the easiest for the logistics. It accomodates people of different heights better than standing positions. 2. Once the woman warms up, it probably won't make much difference who is sticking their cock where, unless one of them is quite large. 3. Inevitably, there will be incidental M/M contact. That doesn't make you gay. Remember, it's not gay if it's a three-way.