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3 pointsI'm 47 and he is 53. I'm new to it an he is not new to it. We been married for 12yrs.
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1 pointWe had been to Vegas and met a man at a nudist resort. We were there for the day to get some sun before going to Phoenix. This man Charles came and sat next to us at the pool and commented how nice Linda looked. We were all naked. They took a swim together in the pool. When it was time for us to leave Charles gave us his card, he lived in Phoenix. At that time I didn't know he met my wife and they talked earlier when she went to the restroom inside the hotel building. He was shaving and she waited for him to finish and they talked while he was shaving with the door open. He finished and she used the facilities there. Charles went outside and sat by me, and then Linda came out and sat with us. I later found out Linda was attracted to him when they met. We went to Phoenix, had a good vacation and at the end of the week I said to Linda that we had not done anything sexy during the week. She replied; why not call that Charles that we had met? I did and we got together for dinner at a small bistro in Phoenix. We ate and talked and when finished Charles asked what we had in mind? He said do you want to go for a drink and dancing? I said no thanks, we were tired and were flying to NY the next day but he was welcome to come to our hotel for a drink with us. He accepted and followed us to our hotel. We went to our room, we had liquor there. Linda and Charles had Vodka and Sprite and I had Rum and Coke. We talked and there was no mention about sex. Then Charles stood and took Linda by the hand to stand, she did, and he proceeded to kiss her passionately for a long time. She had another drink and he continued to kiss her again. I could see she liked it and was getting heated up. She likes good kissing. She stepped back and opened two buttons on her blouse. They kissed again and he ran his hands all over her body. He then opened more buttons until you could see her bra and her blouse was completely open. They kissed more and he felt her rear and unhooked her bra. He explored her naked breasts and sucked on her nipples. Then he removed her blouse and bra and enjoyed her breasts and nipples. She stepped out of her skirt and they played more while he removed her panties so she was naked. She opened his pants and he took them off. They got on the bed and played and kissed more. He opened her legs and went down on her while I played with her breasts and nipples. Then Charles was over her but not on her and they kissed. His penis was just touching her near her clit. She reached down and pushed it into her pussy and he exploded immediately. Linda said she never felt so much cum, it was all over her and on her naked shaved pubes. Then I was so hot and did her again to a wild orgasm. We will never forget this night and hope who ever reads it will also enjoy our experience. This was a first for us, we never did something like this before.
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1 pointI am now 73 she is 65 We have been together for 25+ years, off and on before that. Been married since 2002. Got married at HEDO II. We swing off and on. Don't normally go looking for it, but if the opportunity comes up we go for it.
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1 pointPerspective matters. Economists point to the phenomenon of hyperbolic discounting, and that in turn depends on the time horizon of the person choosing to take the risk. We are seeing young people engaging in risky behaviors not so much because they think they will get away with the behavior but rather because they think they will have adequate time to recover and then go on with their lives. One of the things we are learning with COVID is that it leads to dysfunction in many if not most body systems. Another thing we are learning is that these dysfunctions are not quickly reversed. A third thing ... one that cannot be yet known...is that some of these dysfunctions may never be reversible. How one uses that information in the calculus of risk varies with age and with stage of life. Before we were married, we were inner-focused--what's in it for me? Early on, we learned to focus on what was good for the other person. (We observe that such focus is foundational to the LS.) Together now for 45+ years, we are always looking out for each other and for our shared future, recognizing that interdependence is key to independence at our stage of life. (Isolation and loneliness are significant predictors of poor health and death at our stage of life. ) We are hoping, like PeterJ, for at least a couple more decades together (we are in our mid-late 60s). Indeed, we are building our forever home to age in together, and gracefully. We have made deliberate attempts to engineer unnecessary risk out of that build. That does not mean we are intolerant of risk. It does mean that we are far better at anticipating and managing risk than we were when we met in mid 1970s.
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1 pointCreepy topic. I'm in this LS because I believe I have advanced sex skills and experience and I can create magic with others at my same ability level. The words "pay" and "virgin" are something that IMO, have no place in a discussion of modern swinging. But I suppose all types are attracted to this LS. ?♂️
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1 pointI do not like it done to me at all, nor do I like to do it. I don't get enjoying it either although I know there are plenty that do. Stinging skin from a spank or slap just does not feel good. Instant hard on reducer. I don't like hurting my woman so I don't like to do it ether. Never had a woman who liked it either. Certainly never had any woman request it.
