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Too funny, we are the same with vintage..... moving to the 80s because everything has a check. I have to research every movie, actor/actress, real life love connection etc. Often by the time I am done, the movie is over. Hamster and the Rialto report are fun to flip through. I want to be Veronica Hart when I grow up. :-) (my husband wants me to be her as well)

Many men list as straight for the very reason you point out - when , in fact, they are open to and interested in a bi experience(s). Those folks are who the OP wants to find and attract. He isn't finding them by listing himself as straight. And, while the majority of men list as straight - more and more men are listing as bi-curious or bi than even 5 years ago. ...Many does not mean 'the majority'...

You are right and I am sorry.

If you list yourselves as Bi/Bi, many "straight" singles and/or couples will reach out to you. The strictly straight folks will not, but you are not interested in them anyhow, right? And, it's always worth noting that even if you list as "bi" (man or woman) you are perfectly capable (and willing) to play straight...

Both 50, started swinging in college after we linked up at age 20

We have those rings and we love them! This company has been around for quite a while now, they are not new. We bought ours in France while vacationing and never have any vanilla friends asked if they mean something.

I see that this is your first post so let me say, WELCOME to Swingersboard.

I like you and all, but this was a shitty and inappropriate response to a very common constitutional law joke.

You would think that would be the case. But I’m in the same age cohort as Fundamental Law, and like him I’m less willing to engage in risky behavior than I was as a young man or in middle age. In my youth I engaged for 15 years in a sport on both an amateur and professional level that regularly injures and kills participants. I was careful, and every day reminded myself that an error in my part or someone else’s could render my daughter an orphan and wife a widow. But I found the sport so challenging and satisfying sport that I was willing to roll the dice on three or four decades of life. Today, actuarially I have a decade and perhaps a couple of years left. I would not find the risk/reward As favorable. Perhaps it’s the experiential knowledge that my time here is drawing to a close that makes me value what remains more greatly. If you have 60 or 70 good bottles of a favorite vintage in your cellar, each bottle is enjoyable. When only a few remain, each becomes more special and the the knowledge that soon enough they wii all have been drunk makes each sip more special. You might reasonably take extra care not to drop those last bottles.