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We have a friend that would considered vanilla and when he found out about us (not from us) he was extremely interested and eventually wanted in. And after seeing him in action he is definitely NOT the vanilla type we thought. Sometimes you just don't know.

That would either stop them right there....or it might bring up some questions ?? heh heh heh ??? Absolutely none of our vanilla friends know about our ahem alternative lifestyle. Just because of that reason.

Doesn't sound like a very good friend if he is going to be so judgemental.

This has been our experience too. Like many things in swinging, the more comfortable people get with each other, the more doors start to open.

"Yes I do. And she lets me have sex with other women!"

“It’s okay. I get to have sex with another woman. It’s a win-win for us.”

We really like parties because you can just link up, and you don't have to manage attracting between both partners in both cpls

I agree with this. I like separation between me and any other guys but sometime accidents happen and I just try not to panic. But I know other guys that just don't seem to care. They'll put their dick right into my GF's mouth while another guy's is in there. Some of my friends do some stuff that I would consider pretty bisexual but they would NEVER say they are bisexual. Like you said, I don't know if it's because there is a female involved, they just get caught up in the moment, etc but I think bisexual might mean something different to a lot of people.

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